My wife and I recently had our first experience and it was incredible. We talked about it for years but my wife was always reluctant and on the conservative side. We had recently been having marriage/relationship problems and we both agree the experience may have saved our marriage. She is more confident because she feels desirable. She is very beautiful but at 45 thinks her youth is slipping away.
My word of advice is that you are never going to know how you are going to react to it when it actually happens. I sent my wife out with her best friend to go clubbing. The three of us occasionally have FMF threesomes and the two of them together are what I would call sexually charged. I told my wife to go out and pick up a hot guy that night and fuck him. I didn't think she would really do it because she never had before. But she must have had enough liquor in her and I think her friends influence played a part in it. I got a text around midnight that said she found a guy she wanted to fuck and she was going back to his hotel room. My mind races and I had a feeling of excitement and jealousy I had never felt before. I had no idea who he was or what they were doing. The anticipation was unbelievable as I sat at home drinking vodka after vodka. They girls came home at 5 am after both of them had picked up and fucked guys that night. They were exhausted but they let me fuck them both while they told me about their night.
After the night I had to sort out my feelings for a few days. I was sick to my stomach on occasion when I thought about the other guy. I was mad and hurt at times. But my mind finally processed it with the help of talking it out with my wife several times. Now it is the biggest turn on. We talk about it almost every time we have sex and I have been begging her to do it again. Her confidence is at an all time high because he was 29 years old and very hot according to her. She is a different person sexually now and our relationship could not be better.
