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Again thanks for the tips, She trust me, its other people she has trust issues with. I'm going to start slow and see how it goes.

I appreciate all the replies, I just need to get the balls to bring it up. I keep playing over different scenarios in my head of me asking her about it like "how would you feel about us having sex in front of another couple" or "have you ever thought about being with another guy?" I'm just nervous, I can usually talk to her about anything, but this is probably the most difficult thing I have ever wanted to discuss, its kind of a deep fantasy of mine. If the time ever came I'm not sure she would be ok with me pleasing other women, she is a bit jealous (and has a bit of a trust issue related to events of her childhood) when it comes to that, but I'm thinking maybe if we both agreed that its a two sided and we both get pleasure from being with others then maybe the jealousy won't exist. I don't mean to sound like a dick but i would want both of us to swap if the situation where to present itself, not just a MMF thing. Thoughts? Thanks again.

Hi, I'm curious about the lifestyle, but have not brought it up to my wife thus far. My wife and I have been together since high school, I had some sexual encounters before her, but I am her first and only so far. I have thought about the lifestyle for a long time now, and have finally decided I should talk to her about it but don't know how to bring it up. I'm not sure if it is something she would be into, and also wouldn't want to dive into the deep end of full swap immediately. We have a very strong relationship and I could not ask for a better woman In my life, but I kind of want her to be able to experience more than just me. I would not mind being with another woman in a sexual nature as well with her consent, but I'm not sure how she would feel about it and I don't know how to bring it up to her either. We were both raised with strong Christian backgrounds, and I don't know if she would take kindly to the subject, she is open-minded sexually, we get pretty freaky in the bedroom, but I'm not sure if the swinging lifestyle is something she would be ok with.