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beckysue30

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About beckysue30

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 02/23/1983

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    San Francisco
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  1. The thing is they were both with other partners last time I saw them a year ago. TO me it looks like they left their partners for each other after playing together. Which I would think most people would be worried about no? Your partner falling in love and leaving you for another partner at the club....
  2. My boyfriend and I have been soft swapping for a while, but I still feel insecure about it all. We ran into a guy we previously met a year ago that was married for 10 years with another girl that was previously part of a different couple. They were there together. This is my worst nightmare come to life. Is there not a swinger code that says you should not leave your partner for someone else you were playing with?
  3. The thing is I've asked multiple times. he only does this when we are not together (as in not getting sex that day) so I feel like maybe if we lived together it would be different. However I really worry because Porn has definitely warped his reality of sex. There are some things he thinks are hot that are just not realistic in real life.
  4. Nope this doesn't really have anything to do with the lifestyle at all for him. Hes been into porn forever before me. I guess what I'm asking is if swingers seem to watch more porn than vanilla people or if this would still be considered a porn addiction issue int he community. I want to know before I bring this up to him because his response is always well I'm super sexual blah blah blah and swing and blah blah blah. You would think you would need to watch LESS porn if you keep saying you are super sexual...
  5. I mean he has been this way since he was 18 he said.... so its definitely not me as we have all kinds of different sex and I do whatever I can to please him and at this point it's starting to get to me. I don't want my man masturbating watching porn so much and he thinks that is totally normal for someone that is super sexual/a swinger
  6. I don't think it is an all day thing, but I really think this is what is causing his ED issue is "over-stimulation" from the porn. He also always insists on performing sex acts that are pornlike...which I didn't mind at first it is fun, however it is now dawned on me that this is a problem. He is 32 and he can't keep an erection. If I even attempt to bring this up he says its normal for super sexual people to watch Porn and then says we are super sexual and swingers. I have no idea how much Porn other swingers consume...
  7. My boyfriend and I swing sometimes (i did this in a previous relationship and brought him into this while we were dating). Anyway I wanted to see your take on the amount of porn you guys watch. I ask because I think my boyfriend has a Porn problem. I get it is maybe weird for me to say this on here since him and I are very sexually open, however I'm starting to think that this is a problem. He has an issue of staying hard for very long and the more I research this the more I'm convinced it is due to porn. He has gone to the doctor about this years ago (he's had this issue since he was in college apparently) and the doc said there is nothing wrong with him. When I bring up the amount of porn he watches or the amount he masturbates (we don't live together so when I'm not there he is at it)...he just says well we are very sexual people and that I knew that when I got together with him. So is this something normal of a very sexual person in the Swinger community? Do you guys watch a lot of porn? I'm just trying to gage if this is something common or if it really is an issue.
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