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  1. Hello! Blake here again... I looked for a thread asking something similar to my question but didn't find one. Hope I didn't miss it by accident. Anyways, I recently purchased my wife a very realistic, large dildo. It's about 9 inches in length with a 6.25 circumference. Needless to say she has been enjoying herself endlessly for the past couple of nights with the toy, much to my delight. So my question is this: How much different, in you fine folks experience, is a realistic big dildo compared to a "real" big lap rocket? My wife has never been with a very large real penis. In my mind I'm packing serious heat but you know, in reality I'm about on the higher end of average. Luckily, my wife is very sexual and can be pleased with really any size penis as she has a 5-inch dildo and a 9-incher and enjoys both. BUT... It's clear the 9-incher does a bit more intense pleasing, which makes me salivate watching her take all of it until climax. I'm sure a real penis is going to feel even better, but how much better is the experience? How much added pleasure can I expect my wife to receive with a real one? Ps. I've never used a pocket pussy or fleshlight or any sex toy really on myself so I can't formulate a possible comparison based on fake pussy vs. real etc.
  2. Hello! Thanks for sharing a bit about you and your husband.I'm also very new to this site (brand new to this lifestyle) and it's quite exciting. I'm 26 and my wife 25. Finding another female to "play" with seems way harder than finding a male, but I know they are out there. I hope you find what you are looking for soon!
  3. Please don't feel that I was implying you aren't "normal." I was more so trying to explain my thought process on how a lack of jealous feelings and a good marriage can exist. I hope I wasn't coming across as rude. Like I said earlier, I'm maybe a bit strange and was just offering insight to my own personal inner workings. Your feelings are your feelings and obviously you know what's best for you and your marriage. But bravo on actually going through with your fantasy
  4. That's great to hear for you and Mrs. CoupleInMD. I'm sure she was beautiful to begin with, but I bet she's absolutely stunning with her increased sexual confidence and self-ego. I'm hoping my own beauty will have similar results to yours!
  5. Consider me a big fan of "sperm competition." The idea of another man giving it good and hard to my wife to the point where she is literally melting with pleasure makes me go crazy with sexual energy. Then when he's done and has pushed her to her pleasure limit, I want to take her over the top with every ounce of intimacy I can produce. Fantasizing about it makes me want to just pounce on her. And I think this way ALL the time. Not just during sexy time. I got my wife a rather large dildo to "practice" with and am loving watching her work it. The anticipation for the real thing is incredibly stimulating. And the fact that she loves me being turned on by her getting extreme pleasure in any way possible makes for a perfect storm of sexual intimacy. But yeah, if feelings started for another guy then I would be irked. But I kind of compare it to a girl with much larger breasts than my wife. There's no way in hell I would leave my wife or think higher of this larger chested woman or find an emotional attachment based on a body part. All my emotions are strictly on my wife as hers is strictly on me. We are a team
  6. "As far as I'm concerned anyone that says they didn't have jealous feelings or other feelings seeing their wife with another person in a sexual act isn't in a good marriage. I did enjoy that evening and so did my wife. It was a life changing experience for both of us and one we are going to continue to explore. " See, my wife and I are extremely new to this lifestyle so I can't say with concrete certainty how I'd feel. We haven't done anything yet as we first shared our desires only two days ago. I'm sure it would bring a lot of different emotions seeing another guy "have" my wife for a time. I'm also a bit of a strange creature. But who knows, when the time comes I may have a change of heart when the talking nears becoming reality.However, I completely understand where you are coming from and think you have a lot of care for your wife. I can assure you I would be jealous... no enraged, if my wife went behind my back. That would obviously mean she has feelings for this person and is making an effort to see them without me knowing... Yep, I would explode if something like that happened. But in an environment where we mutually choose a candidate and it is being done for our mutual pleasure to enhance our own personal romance, then I'm all for it. But I guess I wont know for sure how I feel till we cross that bridge.
  7. Thanks for the kind words CoupleInMD79. She always wants to look better. I know how desirable she is because guys are always looking her way and obviously thinking dirty thoughts lol! She looks like a young I dream of Jeannie. She's got ivory skin along with the long blonde hair that she puts up into a tight pony tail like a fountain. Combine that with her cat eyes that almost look Asian in appearance. Put her in some yoga pants and a tank-top and good god But sadly she doesn't realize how pretty she is. With time I think her sexual confidence will rise and I cross my fingers that her being self conscious will be a thing of the past. Naturally, she has full control of what she wants. And I want whatever she wants
  8. I've thought about the size factor. Do you guys seek out a larger endowed man or is it a lottery? I have been thinking about whether I would have feelings of inadequacy compared to a larger male, but I dont think I would because I get off to the extreme at the thought of my wife receiving maximum pleasure. I guess I'm also fairly confident in how I use what I got. But I can see where watching another man ravaging your spouse, especially when he's well endowed, could cause some mixed emotions. I don't know, maybe it is my serious voyeur tendencies and confidence in my wifes true love for only me that keeps me from getting to anxious at the thought. But I guess I will find out soon enough
  9. Thanks for your input MrDiscover. I can see where it would appear that we are making it a chore instead of pleasure, but for us, the gym is viewed more as a pleasurable experience. I've also noticed the swinging culture is quite prevalent in gym atmospheres.But hey, anything to get me motivated for more exercise! Lol
  10. I think you hit the nail on the head Lionheart72. I think a lot of the increased sexual attraction has to do with sexual repression being erased. I told her I wanted her to open up fully to me and don't have any fear sharing what she thinks about and what she wants. And then she did open up and I about passed out from excitement! During our session she was talking so dirty and I found myself more vocal than I've been in years. While using her oral talents on me after our talk, she stopped for a second and asked if I would like for her to "look at me" while she orally pleasured another man. I pretty much lost it at that point and made love to her hotter than I can ever remember. I asked her to show me how she would pleasure the other man with her mouth and she then proceeded in absolutely blowing my mind with her mouth. When it was time for me to show her how much I love her, she was incredibly wet. Knowing how much she enjoys the thought of all this is just.. Awesome. And then after we were finished making love, we just continued to really enjoy each others company. Our energy has been stunning. I plan to have a nice bouquet of flowers for when she arrives home from work.
  11. Thanks kikonkrome. It's great hearing others with a similar experience/thought process. On the topic of my wife becoming hotter after the discussion, she is all I can think about today. After being married for 8 years and to feel this way again... It's pure ecstasy. We plan to just take it slow and really enjoy the "building up" to our first encounter.. Again, thanks for your input
  12. Thank you all for the excellent advice. I feel it will be an experience for us that will be well thought out. The euphoria from the initial conversation is still high and I feel I want to pamper my wife a little extra for how good she made me feel when we spoke about swinging. I made it clear that I wanted to see her pleased by another man. She said her only hang up with that is me not getting enough attention, which I then had to explain the beauty of her being pleased, pleases me. However, I am wanting her to control every aspect so she has nothing but fun. It's been so great today. There is something more sexual about her since our talk and I can't quite put my finger on it, but wow it's hot. It's like a sexual aura:drool: We are going to continue to keep the book open and fill in the blanks until we are secure with a first encounter. I know she has some things she wants to do first, like increase her gym routine and whatnot. I am going to have her read your guys' advice as it definitely helped me. We got a lot of homework to do!
  13. Hello, Blake here again. My first post was a couple hours ago and I mentioned I am very interested in swinging. I hadn't expressed my interest to my wife and at the recommendations of a few other users, I just came and told her everything I was thinking. Complete, no sugarcoating truth. I told her that I got off to the thought of watching her with another guy and that finding a couple like ourselves to experience pure sexual pleasure with was what I desired. I told her how much I wanted to make love to her right after she finished with another man and how I want her to be fully sexually satisfied (she has an insatiable appetite) and that I would do whatever to make her happy. And that as a bonus I would thoroughly enjoy it too I knew she wouldn't be weirded out by it, but what I wasn't expecting was for her to be so turned on by all of it. After we were done talking we had back to back intensely intimate sessions. We haven't been that sexually romantic in some time. It feels so freeing to finally have it all out in the open. I didn't want to continue keeping my feelings from her, and even though I didn't know if I was ready, I went ahead and took a leap of faith and did it. Whew.. Sorry.. Lol.. So now that we are fully open and both very much interested in this lifestyle, what do we do? Is it best to seek out an experienced couple first or a novice pair like ourselves? Any tips at all for a first time swinger couple would be very much appreciated. Ps. We both agreed on same room.. at least at first. We both have voyeuristic tendencies
  14. Hello, I am new and curious to the idea of swinging. My name is Blake and I'm a married 26y guy to a 25y lady. I guess I am just trying to figure out where to start. I have a lot of questions but it's tough to figure out which to begin with. First off, I haven't yet told my wife about my interest in this, but I know she would be open to it (trust me on this one). She wouldn't care that I was on here or anything. I'm just not quite ready to propose the question. I am mostly interested in watching my wife with another woman or orally pleasure another man. Is that technically the definition of swinging? Anyways, I am a little unsure how to propose this to her. I know she wouldn't be upset or shut me down, I guess I just don't want to be blunt about it. I want to work up to it but quickly. Is it strange to not necessarily be interested in myself being with another individual and would rather watch my wife instead? My wife has a very high sex drive and I am quite capable of pleasing her, it is just the amount of sex she craves. I sometimes feel like I need a backup Quarterback to my starting Quarterback position My wife is a very good looking girl. Sometimes I feel I just want to see her being pleasured to the full extent that which she craves. And it doesn't bother me that I can't keep up with her appetite. I am not a sex robot lol. I also want to see her pleasuring someone else. She is great at oral sex and I feel I want someone else to experience her talent. Like it's almost selfish of me to keep it to myself:) I don't want to "use" her but instead just let her flourish sexually. But at the same time she is one of those women that enjoys being a sex slave in a way I guess. Sorry for rambling and I hope I'm not way off the mark here.
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