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About loosegravel

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  • Birthday 01/06/1957

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Texas
  • Occupation
    retired
  • Swinging Experience
    13 yrs
  • Anniversary
    02/01/2007

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  • Favorite Club(s)
    Austin Players

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  1. Does that mean you still have the fantasy of doing your husband & his brother?
  2. I agree with sunbuckus, fantasy talk during sex is a nice time to introduce the concept of mfm encounters with your wife. See how she reacts and you might get a clue on how to proceed.
  3. Ditto! However we not only have sex....its intense fucking!
  4. Truth be told, my wife is 40-something. She definitely still has what it takes to turn me on and if given the opportunity, to turn on any man. I know, cuz I've seen her do it.... She just feels that time is catching up to her and those men she feels are handsome & attractive don't seem to feel the same towards her - at least in the 'introduction phase.'
  5. Initially, we had set a rule that it would be same-room sex only....my wife is usually the stickler for rules. I can recall one specific house party we were attending on the outskirts of Houston about 9 years ago....there were about 30 people so it was a fairly large party in a very large house. As per custom, my wife and I dont have to hang together and we did know some of those in attendance, so it's not unusual to find ourselves separated. All of a sudden I realized I couldnt locate my wife...I was walking around the house, peeking into different bedrooms where there would be several couples fucking....all of a sudden I walked up to an open door and there was my wife taking 2 dudes at one time....at first I was not too pleased, but I definitely wasnt gonna make a scene. I watched for maybe 30 seconds and got really turned on...watching.... So after the party & on our drive back home, I briefly mentioned the incident to my wife who was apologetic....I told her it was all okay.....I saw her and I knew she was really enjoying herself. Now it's basically play it by ear.....
  6. At the very beginning, it was sorta difficult to imagine either one of us engaging in kissing another partner, but once we got into the 'swing' of things (pun intended) it was a complete 180! Why not kiss - it's only natural and as was mentioned in an earlier post - it's a bigger turn on. We both engage in kissing the other partners we're involved with...it only heightens the pleasure.
  7. While dating my future-wife, I openly discussed my prior dating history and she became aware of my swinging experience with a prior GF. This intrigued my future-wife and we began swinging shortly thereafter. After 13 yrs together, we still swing but with less frequency.
  8. I think you summed it up very well. That's what I'm seeking an answer for...I think some of the suggestions - yours included - are spot on. I know house parties offer the best opportunities for her (and me!). Hopefully, these opportunities come sooner than later.
  9. Not a swingers club or resort, but I did get to meet Sunset Thomas at Super S Grocery store in George West, TX back around 1994. Her and her hubby owned a ranch in S. Texas. Though she wasn't in her porn-star attire, she was a knockout.
  10. Currently, those are the two sites we are members of. We've been lifetime members of SLS since 2002. We used to be members of CouplesTouch about 5 years ago and thoroughly enjoyed it. But when we moved from the Houston area to near Austin, we found very few members. We miss it. We used to also be members of Kasidie, but didn't get much from it.
  11. Well, she's happy with herself - she's just not happy with the rejection factor. That's something she has to learn to cope with and not let it get the best of her....easy for me to say, but I'm unsure how to help her realize it. That's an idea that I consider more promising. We met a SM in the lifestyle about 8 years ago who at that time was part of a couple. We still consider him a good friend and maintain contact. Unfortunately, we moved about 4 hours away and our opportunities diminished due to the distance. We have since met another couple much closer and have been fortunate enough to have been able to attend two of their house parties. Hopefully, there will be more. I have to add, that one of those house parties about a year ago was a big positive for my wife - she had a fantastic time. Over the course of the party, she was truly busy with several of the male guests and I know she made them very happy, too.
  12. My first ever experience was spontaneous when a former GF & I invited a mutual friend of ours to come over since he was alone that night.
  13. I initially met my wife thru an online message board. She lived up in NY state and I was in Texas. I shared everything about myself with her - including swinging. She was very curious about it. A few months passed and she flew down to see me. It was an instant connection! I took many trips to see her and she reciprocated. Whenever we got together, the sex was intense. Whenever we talked on the phone together, the sex was intense, too! Anyway, we joined the SLS site and immediately attempted connections. It was difficult to meet others in the lifestyle since we were physically together only for short periods of time. Eventually Patricia, my girlfriend, made a connection with a SF up in the northeast. She decided to surprise me when I arrived for my next visit from Texas. The girl's name was Melissa and she also was an amateur masseuse. That afternoon, Patricia finally broke the news to me that a SF would be making a visit to her condo. I was nervous to say the least. Too much time for me to think about if I would be able to satisfy both ladies. Little did I realize that I had little to worry about. Melissa arrived and after some small chit-chat, Patricia suggested I go upstairs and get comfortable in bed. I did so. Shortly thereafter, I heard the ladies walking upstairs and watched both of them as they undressed each other. Their hands didn't stop with the clothes....they wandered over each other's naked bodies in a caressing way. They shared deep kisses with each other. Needless to say, I already had a hard on. Patricia glanced down and saw my situation and immediately they got on both sides of me and began to touch my thighs and lick my balls....slowly until they got to the head of my cock. I didn't know how long I could contain myself. I think Patricia knew that because it wasn't long before she motioned to Melissa. Melissa began sucking my cock and wetting it down with her saliva.....Patricia came to my face where she straddled me so I could begin eating her pussy. My hands firmly held her hips tightly to my face. I was in ecstasy. The next thing I knew, I felt my cock penetrating deeply into a wet pussy - it was Melissa's! I don't think much time passed before I exploded. I was so embarrassed, cuz I don't believe I brought Melissa to orgasm, nor Patricia for that matter. Both of them claimed all was well and they enjoyed the experience. I know I certainly did. I realize that Patricia set up this fmf experience just for me. I loved it, but I wasn't about to let her good deeds go unrewarded. We've shared many experiences together over the past 13 years - house parties, lifestyle clubs, dates, mfm, fmf and 4-somes, too. In my humble opinion, the best is when I can join in with her in a mfm experience. I love to watch, hear and feel her whole body cum.
  14. After that relationship ended - I found myself involved with my future wife. I made her aware of my interest in the lifestyle which she embraced - even as we were dating. We shared some experiences while dating and then later after we married. I plan on writing another post on the first lifestyle experience my wife & I shared together about 13 yrs ago.
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