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San1776

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About San1776

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  • Birthday 08/13/1979

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  1. Hey there! Thank you for the inquiry! Not too much really. There have been a few interesting things though. When we first started dating she always wanted to know about my past experiences, but I was reluctant to say anything. She wanted to know how big of boobs the girls had, and other anatomy type things. ;-) Looking back I can see that that was definitely part of her "development", can I even say that? or her way of opening up about her true wants and needs. I didn't want to make her jealous, or feel odd, I never had that been asked of me before. Fast forward a week or so ago, we were just sitting around talking, watching hockey, and sex came up. She said that one time with her ex, he went too deep, and it hurt a little. I had done this before with a different girl, so I decided to tell her. And she got this perfect little jealousy about it. She immediately got turned on. She asked how I did it. I said I had her on the couch and was holding both her ankles and I all of a sudden the angle was just right and I "bottomed out" on her. The only thing she had known about this girl was she had big boobs, which we both love. She got all hot and bothered and jealous that we hadn't done it that way yet. She stood up and started stripping and walking to the bedroom. Once in the bedroom she started to ask me more about other experiences. I was going down on her and she started asking me about my ex wife, whom is a complete horrible person, different from the couch girl. Anyway, she's asking if I want to fuck my ex wife again? I said not at all, she asked me if I ever think about fucking her again? Not even close. She asked me who's tighter and who tastes better. My fiance wins on all accounts. She's almost at O by this point, a lot of the time I like to get her off orally before I even enter her, that we she gets a couple! Anyway, she tells me she wants a girl so bad. (I know this is during sex) I ask her what would she want her to do to her right now. She said I want her to lick my nipples. She orgasms, hard, as usual with oral. Sometimes I gotta let her rest a min. But not this time, she pulls me into her and starts swing talk. How bad she wants a couple and how much she wants to see me with another woman. She wants the other woman to ride me, which is my fav position, so she and I can play with her boobs while she sucks her husband dick, that's when we both finish! So I'm glad I started telling her about my past, the fact it fired her right up from watching hockey, certainly tells me she would enjoy having a girl to play with us in the bedroom. The girl on girl talk has started to happen more frequently outside of the bedroom. She talks about it matter of fact like. In the bedroom she says she wants it so bad and soon. The swing talk is only during sex, but that's how the girl on girl talk started too, so I'm sure that will progress the same way. At a bar on Saturday the bartender was this very cute blonde, with peaking tattoos on her rib cage, and an ass that wouldn't stop. I wouldn't watch her, I'd watch my fiance follower her every move, bending over. Sneaking peaks down her tank top. What a turn on watching my fiance watch this girl! The next morning I had to take off early, when I came home, we were just cruising our phones doing nothing, she tells me outta nowhere, I masturbated after you left, I asked to what? She said, girls of course. I asked what they were doing, she said licking each other. I asked her if she like the bartender from the night before, she said yeah and the one upstairs! I didn't even notice her watching that one! So hot and sexy! I'm reluctant to even bring this up yet, because it just started happened really, to my surprise, but there have been some hints from a girl I work with that she's interested in my fiance. And my fiance likes her as well. My fiance hasn't talked about this girl in regard to sex, but she asks me about her after I get home from work, even retelling stories I told her. And the girl at work asks me about my fiance and such. The work girl brought up "something new" she just found out about on Craigslist. She's telling me, "single girls are on CL looking for other girls in relationships to do girly things with, hair, nails, shopping but also sex with each other, and then either they both go home to her guy, or not." I said, yeah that sounds about perfect doesn't it? She responded with wide eyes, "YES IT DOES!" This girl has made comments in the past about how hot and sexy my fiance is and how perfect her boobs are. Now I didn't read anything into that until this discussion about CL today. I haven't mentioned this to my fiance yet, but I most certainly intend to, wondering how my fiance will receive that news....I'm not the brightest person when it comes to hints girls make, but I pretty much can read that one loud and clear! I think it's time for all of us to hang out more.
  2. Thank you both for your responses and points! I don't want to come across and blunt, but I'd like to say I never start the conversation, aside from that one time at the bar last Friday, every time the topic comes up, it has been her initiating it. The dream I had I only told her after the conversation was going. I've also made it clear that this is not something I need, and that regardless of what transpires my love will never change or falter. And she tells me she knows and says it's something she's always wanted. I love her more than anything, and if I can be her rock of support while she navigates these waters, I'm here. From some conversations I've read on these boards, some women have had this kind of want and urge and have repressed it for years, but have found the right man to support and trust this type of desire with and have opened up a world they never have known. I found out the other day that one of her good friends started her sexual journey at 13 with girls, we didn't get too much more into it than that. I had known this women had had experiences like that but not at that age and that it continued for a few years. I don't know if this information is relevant at all, if not, I apologize! You're both absolutely correct, if this is just a fantasy she wants to keep in her head, I'm fine with that, but that's why I was asking if I should initiate the conversation more to help her know it's ok and I love and support her. I've told her countless times, I don't have to be involved at all with the other girl, and in fact if this does move forward, I don't think I would at first just to make sure everything is ok. I have no issues with taking it slow. Like I said from the first time she told me until now it has been a nice smooth progression and I've noticed a higher confidence in her about it as the time has passed as well. Thank you again! The support and honest advice is refreshing!!!
  3. OK so here it goes! My question for advice and opinion on how and where my fiance and I are "progressing" for lack of a better term, towards our first three some. When my fiance and I started dating, about 8-10 months into it, she starting telling me her thoughts about a 3 some. She's fantasized about women since she was young, 13 or so, she's now 26. She has never told anyone about her urges ever, until me. She trusts me with it and trusts me to have another girl join us. Every time we have sex even if its multiple times in one day, she talks about having another girl there. She says she wants to share my dick with the other girl. Said that since I can make her cum multiple times she wants other women to know how good I am and would love to switch back and forth. I asked on another occasion why she wanted to watch me with another women, she said, "I want to see you pleasuring another women I want to watch her experience you." I told her about a dream I had where she was cowgirl on me and there were two girls licking her nipples, that sent her soaring and now she wants to hear about it all the time. Whenever she/we watch porn, which is quite often, it's always either girl on girl or three some. She loves big breasts and wants to have oral from a girl and reciprocate that. She wants to experience multiple mouths and fingers exploring her body and feel nice breasts on hers. She has now grown more comfortable with it and told one of my/our good buddies about her desire for this many times. She flashed him once on the boat, little bikini pull! He's even grabbed her breasts a few times which I know turned all three of us on! The other night the three of us were out at a bar and my fiance said how hot this waitress was and would love to know how she is in bed, said it to both my buddy and myself. That's the first girl she's said that about, not some fictitious person, and I think she noticed this girl before either one of us did, and my buddy is single! A weekend after that we were all out again at a different place. I asked her, (I usually don't initiate because I don't want her to feel pressured) but I asked her if she found any one there attractive. She had been clearly people watching, she said she didn't really see anything that peaked her interest. I asked about our waitress, who was well endowed, tattoos, which we both have and find attractive, and she immediately said no, not enough ass! To be honest, I was taken aback! She has never brought up that feature before but it makes total sense. I just love that she had already looked at and considered her even if we had no intention on progressing with this specific women. The next day right when we started to fool around, she wanted to hear about my past experiences with women, things she knows, but has started to ask in this situation. Full disclosure, I was a late bloomer due to nerves so I really didn't start until late high school. She wanted to know who the first girls breasts I played with, first oral, what she did when I finished, etc. I'm a boob man so she wanted to know when I knew that. There's a lot more dirty things I could explain that we talk about that may or may not help, but as I'm new here, I don't want to overstep protocol. The things we talk about, and her desires are hot! We've been in discussion about this for about a year and half now, it does seem as though it's progressing and might actually continue to move forward. To be honest, it's all about her, I want her to have all this attention I can't even explain it. I've told her it can be just her and the girl at first, me watching, I would only touch her and she could have all the fun with the other girl, but she wants to have a full on three way. My fiance is such an extremely sexual person and she's had this desire for so long I want nothing more than for her to experience it. We would both ideally like her first to either be or grow into a good friendship. Let me know what you all think, does this sound familiar to any of you? And should I just keep on this path? Support and encouragement. Should I start to bring it up more when we're out? She has told me before that she's seen me checking out women, (tilted kilt for example, how can you NOT look at that place!) and she said, those girls are gorgeous and I know you're looking for what I would like. Ok I'll stop rambling now!
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