So. Gentleman

Ok here is an update for everyone. We have been involved with the other couple several times. With both of us there and with just me and the other woman and my wife and the other man seperately. We all have been ok to a point. The other man was feeling left out and felt his wife was not paying enough attention to him. That made him jealous. Things cooled for awhile until they had a FMF experience (that I had already enjoyed ) I had no problem with that. NONE at all. Especially since I had already been there and done that. There has been some miscommunication between everyone and now he wants to call it quits and be friends. At least for awhile. Although the other 3 of us would like to continue. Any ideas on this? He felt like I got upset about the FMF thing which I was not a part of. That is farthest from the truth. Just wanted some input from folks that might have been thru this before. All of us are going to stay close but ............some of us want more. Any thoughts on this?

Not really sneaky but less than obvious. The other female was on the same couch with them and I was sitting across from them. I feel they both knew that I knew what was going on. As did the other female. (Knowing and that I knew) I guess we are taking baby steps with this. And as I have heard from all of you that is the best way to approach it. Once you have finished there is no going back and trying to change something. At first I was worried about the other husband but he is really cool about it, as is his wife. Actually found out from her that the other three had discussed this before I was brought up to speed. Of course they wanted me involved so we have all talked about it. Hell I am the one that has wanted this to happen for a long time. Evidently they (all 3 of them) have too. Just a wait and see type thing. We are to get together this weekend so I will keep everyone up to date what has happened. Thanks for all your valuable advice.

Still has not happened as of yet. All 4 of us are still in the talking stage. The other female half is VERY interested in me and the other male part is very interested in my wife. Hell as far as I can tell my wife is interested in him. They flirt all the time. We have one problem tho. In the past I was very jealous. (Not very mature and insecure) I have finally grown up and put that behind me as long as everything is in the open and there is no lying or hiding of things from me. My wife is still a little hesitant to follow thru with things. I sat and watched the other male play with her breast as they were trying to be a little sneak about it. (or as I call it playing grab ass) Told her I knew what was going on and that it was fine. Even excited me. It surprised her that it excited me. Sorry to ramble but I am looking for a way to assure her that everything is more than OK with me. Probably just a situation where I have to be paitent and let things take there course.

The wife is all for it with the other couple. She has even went as far as talked to the other female about the possible encounter. She is all up for it as is her husband. Now it will be just a matter of timing and everything.

Yes I do shave the balls, shaft and at the base. I find it more stimulating to keep it that way. Plus getting head is a lot better because the wife does not have to stop to spit out hairs. (Not a turn on and she likes that better)

Actually it is not our neighbor but that does not matter. I brought the subject up last night. Wife said that she had not thought about before. We did not get to finish our conversation but she knows how I feel. She did not come out and say no but has not said yes yet. So it sounds like things may be heading in the right direction. We did look up drinking games that would help break the ice. So who knows. We are one step closer tho as I have at least got my feelings out in the open. Now only time will tell.

She has brought up plenty. Like telling me that the other female wants to show me her tits to her keeping her pubic hair shaved. Both of which my wife nows I like. But how do I approach it?

I have a question or two for those that are active in the lifestyle. My wife and I are not active. (This may become rambling and if so please forgive me.) Our sex life is very good just not often enough for either of us because we have a child. During sex she sometimes talks about being with another woman. To my knowledge she never has but who knows. My question is we have a female friend that acts interested in more than friends. She has said and done some things that have peaked my interest. And some that have been said when I was not around. My wife later told me about things that were said. Things that the about the other female that my wife knows would interest me. She is also married and the thought of us swinging with them sounds good to me. Would love to see it head that way. Does this sound like it could lead to more or am I just hoping. I am afraid to bring it up to my wife for fear she may take it the wrong way. (Dont think she would but you never know) And is there anything that I could do to help send this the direction that I am hoping for? Any thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated.