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2ofUsHavingFun

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About 2ofUsHavingFun

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 07/04/1980

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Married Couple
  • Location
    Massachusetts
  • Interests
    Cooking, traveling. Also fixing the house, but that's out of necessity.
  • Occupation
    Paying bills
  • Swinging Experience
    -1 year. Never done it. Only fantasized.
  • Anniversary
    Summertime

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    2ofUsExploringTogether
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Never been
  1. Hi, everyone. Let me just say how much we appreciate your input on this. And we're trying to take your advice - because we trust that you've done this, and we haven't - and therefore you have wisdom we can't possibly have. To that end, we've registered for a hotel party tomorrow near us called Darkest Desires. It seems they have a few decent reviews on SLS, but we're still nervous - how do you know if you've found a good party? Has anyone ever been to a party that was really skeevy? I guess the question is how you vet if a party is a good one or not. Many thanks for your continued advice. This a big step and we're looking to not screw it up.
  2. Yes, that's our story! Thanks for the tip - and also thanks for the input. I guess one of the things that's a bit difficult is that both of us feel like we kind of want to be friends before we hop in the sack with another couple. Neither of us have ever been one-night-stand people. We're not looking for a poly deal, but we'd like to know that we can hang out and go on a date without being annoyed, freaked out or saddened by our company. Regardless, you think it's best to just straight up meet sooner rather than later? We were looking into some parties, but were worried we might be overwhelmed or not welcomed. Though probably not ax murdered. Is a house party a good place to start for a first time couple?
  3. So, a while ago, we had a wonderful cam session with some good friends of ours that really sparked our desire to likely get active in the lifestyle. We posted the story here a few months ago, but it may have been removed in some sort of conspiracy (or maybe just general maintenance.) Anyways, several months (and lots of really good discussions later) we have signed up for an SLS profile and sent out a few message. Because we're being quite timid at first and didn't put up a picture - we only got one response - but we've been going back and forth with them from our "sexy" email account and we're at the point of picture sharing now - which is a turn on for us. We're pretty sure we're going to be soft-swap lifestylers over the next month or so, but we're getting nervous about safety stuff. Some of these questions have gone through our heads: How do we know this is a couple that likes swinging and not murdering? How do we keep our address, phone number and employers private for now? How do we make sure that they aren't willingly trying to infect us with AIDS, Zika, or the flu? How do we know it's even a couple and not Gary Busey pretending to be a couple to jerk off to some pictures? When do we feel comfortable putting our picture on a public swinger profile? Some of those are tongue-in-cheek (not as much fun as tongue-in-pussy) but you get the idea. How do we play it safe and make sure we aren't walking into the next episode of 20/20? We want to play, but we want to know how to do it without risking our - or our kids - well being. Especially our kids. Ain't nothing worth risking their safety for. So - we're turning to you - the upperclassmen of the lifestyle - what do YOU do? How do YOU stay safe? We're all ears!
  4. So, a few months ago, we posted in the introductions thread that we were interested in trying a sexy video chat with another couple and fooling around remotely. (I know... incredibly tame by the standards of this group, right?) I wanted to add this follow up note to that thread, but it looks like it got deleted somehow - can't find it anywhere. Anyways, we did it a few weeks ago! It was actually even better than we had imagined. We had another couple we've been very open with in the past, and I had purchased Mrs. 2ofUs a new vibrator as a present (side note - the Lelo Gigi 2 is fantastic, apparently.) Anyways, we were talking to this couple about the present, and he said he was thinking of it for his wife and he wanted a report, complete with video of the first use of the toy. I looked at Mrs. 2ofUs, and we decided to bite (and/or call their bluff.) So we offered to broadcast it live if they wanted. Well, they decided to pass on Game of Thrones that night and join us for our first video group sex event. When we logged on, we all got undressed and the ladies started playing with themselves while we watched (also, it was pretty difficult to watch the screen and my wife at the same time, but totally an awesome problem to have.) My wife came first and then started to play with me while we watched the other wife to finish. After she finished, we both kind of forgot the camera was there and had sex in front of each other. After it was over, we all agreed it was awesome, and will do it again. Hopefully we get the chance to see the other couple in person soon, because we'd love to see where this goes in person. Anyways, super mild from your perspectives, what with no crazy double penetration or three-way blowjobs, but it was the craziest thing we've ever done... so far.
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