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allmylight+dark

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About allmylight+dark

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 09/30/1980

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Boise, ID
  • Swinging Experience
    Since 2012
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. DH here. We're nearly three years into the LS (nine years happily married). Last year, we experimented with DW having freedom to do solo play with a few stipulations. We branched out into separate room at parties and then being expressly positive towards developing FWB's on occasion, including me (I was the hang up, not her holding me back or anything). The thing is, this is a woman's market and DW is terrific at finding play partners; me, not so much. Perhaps I'm too much a gentleman, but I have a difficult time anticipating rejection because a girl I'm flirting with will see my ring and think I'm an asshole. Or she won't believe me that my wife encourages me to pursue sexual chemistry NSA-style. The other day I found great chemistry with a girl I was attracted to, but I had no idea how to take it to the next level, and at what point to make it known that I'm not looking for a LTR, but something NSA, a booty call when the stars align. Anyone with experience of developing NSA's? Neither of us want to advertise anything that communicates that our play partners could be involved with cheating, nor that we are emotionally available for our play partners. But guys, how do you do this without being perceived as a dick? Also, where do you find the most success with these hookups? Online, or in person at bars?
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