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  • Birthday 05/26/1951

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    Married Couple
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    N.J.
  • Swinging Experience
    13 years
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    xx/xx/xxxx

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    Moxy1
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    Diva's

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  1. I'm not really sure what MrDiscover means exactly. I don't think she has any issues when she sees me with other women. The story I posted happened a long time ago, when we first got into the lifestyle. She and I have discussed my concerns. She says that the general atmosphere at parties and on 2 couple dates is the reason she gets so excited...more excited then when we are home alone in our oun home. The newness, and being away from home make it easier for her to "cut loose." I do tend to believe her about this since she is always hotter for me away or on vacation than at home. We think the issue of my cock hurting her is about her levels of excitement. The more excited she is, the wetter, relaxed and receptive she and her vagina are. When she not "feeling" it, or fucking just to make me feel good, it is more likely to hurt. She acknowledged that having other women around who also enjoy sex makes it easier to enjoy herself. When I said something like, "But why does it always seem that you have better sex with other guys than with me?" She answered with a very valid point. "Oh come on, it's better for you too isn't it?" Well, she does have a point. We've been together for a long time. We know a lot of tricks and ploys, have used clothing and toys, but really, we got into the lifestyle to spice up our sex and that is exactly what it has done. So, I'm committed to "get over myself" and admit that she has better sex with others than with me. I enjoy sex more when we are with other people, too. Lately, nothing turns me on more than watching her get fucked and then going in for "sloppy seconds." Last time, the guy said, "I got her ready for you. I should charge you for the lube I left in her." I came within seconds. Maybe I kinda do have a little cuckold fantasy in me.
  2. To be clear, she says it hurts when I enter her. She has not had pain with anyone else that I know of.
  3. My wife and I have enjoyed swinging for 10 years now, but lately, things seem to be changing. These changes are troubling to me. I think I'm gradually being made into a cuckold. Let me explain. My wife Lynn is not so interested in having sex with me. She SAYS sex with me is great, but she seldom orgasms unless I eat her out. When I try to seduce her, she has excuses to avoid having sex with me. But when she is with other guys, she can just about always orgasm. The other night I asked if she wanted to get frisky with me. She said, "We're going out with Amelie and Jacque tomorrow night. I don't want you to get me sore tonight." I said that it sounded like she was saving her pussy for Jacque! She told me to stop being silly. When we got together with Amelie and Jacque, she had at least 8 or 9 very strong orgasms. He ate her and she came. Her fucked her and she came. He fingered her and she came. He fucked her again and she came. When they took a break, I came over to play a little with Lynn's sloppy pussy. I'm very sure she "tsked" subtly as if to say please don't bother. I didn't feel at all welcome. We have always interacted together when playing with others, but I definitely got the feeling she preferred I leave her alone. When we discussed this later she said she was just tired. Of course not tired enough to stop fucking Jacque doggy style then reverse cowgirl, cumming several more times. This kind of scenario has happened several times in the past few months. She cums like mad when she fucks other guys, and claims that it hurts when I fuck her. Now, keep in mind that I'm not certainly not more well endowed than these guys. On the contrary, I'm not very large. So would it be uncomfortable when I fuck her? I suspect it psychological. I believe she is so much more excited with other guys that she loosens up (both figuratively and literally). With me, sex seems to be an obligation or duty. Her real sexual pleasure comes from getting slammed by these men. She has never complained that it hurts when they fuck her. I am the only person that causes her discomfort, no matter how well lubricated she might be. When I try to talk about this with her, she says I'm crazy. She that maybe the shape of my penis causes the pain. Honestly, my dick is very normal, slightly upturned, but not unusual in any way. She has taken in guys bigger, fatter, longer, and even with more curve than my cock. But no one else causes her discomfort...only my cock. No matter how gentle or careful I am, she'll make noises of discomfort. I've asked, "Are you OK?" And she'll say, "I'm OK, just finish." Just finish? Hell, I'm trying to give her pleasure, to make her cum. No matter what I do, my cock is incapable of making her cum. I seem to be the only guy who can't make her cum. I don't like being a cuckold. But I think that is exactly what's going on here. Not blatant humiliation, but it seems like she is passive- aggressively immasculating me either consciously or subconsciously. I know many of you are going to suggest that we talk about it. Believe me, I've tried. She says she likes sex with me, but it is SO apparent that she is not enjoying it. What the hell is happening here? Any ideas?
  4. A very interesting question. To me the big distinction is between being a real cuckold and being a pretend cuckold. Years ago, my wife apparently was unhappy with our relationship. I thought everything was OK, but I was being very unobservant. There was a man that she worked with that flirted with her and made her feel sexy. Our kids were young and we both chipped in to take care of them and I think she felt more like a mommy around our home, and less of a hottie. The flirting grew and she eventually hooked up with him at an office Christmas party that was being held at a local hotel. I was home watching the kids. They ended up in his room having sex. They had at least several more liaisons in hotels after that. I eventually found out about it and the shit hit the fan. It's a miracle that we didn't break up. I was so unbelievably hurt. I was a real cuckold. Eventually I came to understand that her needs were not being met. I had to let go of the idea that she was mine. We decided to get into the swinging lifestyle. We love each other very much but both wanted to experience other people. We met mostly other couples, and occasionally single women or single guys. We were always together even if sometimes in separate rooms. Years later, my wife had an opportunity to get together with another guy without me being there. We discussed the idea. She was concerned that it would bring up bad memories. But I had control of the situation this time. This time, my permission was given. I got a rush of excitement when she told me all about her adventure after it happened. It was a totally different experience this time. I enjoyed playing the cuckold. Maybe it was extra exciting to me since it was in a way an opportunity to gain control of the cuckolding experience. I was able to turn one of the worst experiences of my life into a game and then have fun with it. I'm sure a psychologist would have a field day with my way of dealing, but I don't care. I could never have left her, and this works for us.
  5. About taking pictures and video. My wife, Lynn, never wanted to allow pictures to be taken. Since then she has seen photos that a friend of ours, Richard, took of his wife, Karen. His photos were beautiful. When he asked if he could take similar pictures of Lynn, she agreed. Karen joined in fixing Lynn's hair and doing her makeup. The photos he took were so hot and sexy. They made Lynn feel so beautiful and comfortable. We have since taken sexy videos of each other. Watching these videos later proved to be mind blowing for everyone. One evening when certain issues prevented Karen from being involved in sex play, she and I decided to watch and to make video of her husband, Richard, fucking my wife, Lynn. It was a remarkable and memorable night. And Lynn and I now have the video to relive the experience whenever we want to. We talk about how it felt as he entered her, how excited she became when his balls banged against her ass. Taking and watching videos we make has become one of the most exciting experiences we've had. We see things in the video that were missed as the action was happening. Lynn has gotten so much more comfortable being photographed and videoed. An added bonus is that we discovered the excitement of being verbal during sex. Lynn has gotten comfortable with talking out loud to encourage and excite the people she has sex with. When I hear her say explicit things like, "Oh, God, the make my cunt so wet. I love your fat cock." Or, "yes, I want all your cum deep in me. Fuck me! Harder!" Lynn never used to say very much during sex. She has opened up so much and I am thrilled with the difference.
  6. We have vanilla friends that we might go dancing with, have a game night, hang out with, etc. We love and care about these people. We have other friends that we meet with occasionally that we do some things that friends do, but always with the intent of having sex with them later. Sex is the main goal here, and while we love being with them, it's really only because we have a hot sexy time with them. Then there is a third group. They are really friends that we hang out with, dance with, play games with. We talk about each other's families & new experiences with. We truly love these people as the closest of friends. Sometimes, when we get together, we have sex with these couples. The sex is always awesome. We plan and have adventures together. To us they are friends with benefits, and they are golden.
  7. Thanks for your point of view. See? This is exactly why I posted the question. Getting your input seems to put everything in proper perspective. Thanks to all of you for your views. My wife and I talked about this since the original post. She said that of course the sex was better when we swing. "It's better for you, too, right?" I admitted she was right. For all the reasons mentioned in the responses from all you good people. I shouldn't let my stupid male ego get in the way enjoying such wonderful experiences with my lady, right?
  8. Linde

    Sex Club Threesome

    My wife, Lynn, and I were planning on meeting Mark & Karen at the swingers club in a town a few miles from our home. Karen wasn't feeling well, so our date was cancelled. We figured it was a good opportunity to meet new people, so we went to the club anyway. Beth & Christopher, a couple we have played with several times before, were there. Beth had brought her younger sister, Joanne. It seems that about a year ago, Joanne found out about Beth's & Christopher's extra-curricular activities. She was at first appalled and disappointed in her big sister. How could she think of having sex with other people? After many discussions with her sister & brother-in-law, Joanne became more and more curious about the "lifestyle." Several months later, Beth brought her to the club for the first time to see what it was like. Joanne thought it was interesting, but didn't find anyone she wanted to "play" with. On the night we met Joanne, she was very curious and asked a lot of questions about my & Lynn's relationship. She wanted to know things like how Lynn felt when she watched me fucking someone else, and did we kiss the other people we fuck? We explained how we were able to overcome jealousy and were truly in love with each other. We were very open with her, and before too long it was obvious that there was a connection between the three of us. (OK, perhaps the alcohol was having its effect as well.) Joanne was looking for a sexy adventure to tell her boyfriend when she got home and was very interested in trying a FMF three-way. And she wanted it to be with Lynn and me! She had never been with another woman before, and she thought my Lynn was "just adorable." The three of us went to one of the club's playrooms and undressed each other. Both women looked incredible naked. They began by hugging and kissing each other while I watched. Seeing their bodies pressed against each other certainly made me more that ready to join them. Joanne had some things she wanted to try. Lynn also had some ideas, and of course I had a few fantasies to fulfill. I have seen a lot of photos of combinations possible between one man and two women, and I believe we tried most of them. Joanne ate Lynn out like she'd done it for years. Her blowjobs were strong, deep, wet, and wild. Joanne was able to take in most of my modest seven inches. I have always wanted to try the position with the man on the bottom, and two women on top; one fucking him and the other sitting on his face. This position was as much fun as I thought it would be. The two women made-out with each other like crazy as they rode my cock and my face. We finished, after each of the ladies came several times, and when I came all over Joanne's face, Lynn licked it all off. Just as we finished, Joanne's sister, Beth, came into our room to check up on her sister. My wife and Joanne both thought it was wrong for Beth to be the only one in the room with clothes on, so they got Beth naked too. (Beth's hubby, Christopher, remained at the bar, meeting some new club members.) Joanne begged Beth to take a picture of the three of us. She wanted the pictures to bring home to show her boyfriend. (Taking pictures is a huge no-no at the club, but our room was mostly private, so Lynn, Joanne, and I posed as Beth took several pictures with her digital camera). After Beth finished taking the pictures, I was treated to my very first two sister blowjob. Yes, it's true. Beth & Joanne were both between my legs, licking, stroking and sucking my cock. Lynn was playing with both of them from behind. She told me later that it was totally hot switching back and forth licking the sister's pussies and asses. I'm no young stud, but with this action, I was able to cum again. Joanne & Beth shared my cum, then they both went down on Lynn with their tongues. I just sat back and stroked my cock as I watched my wife be devoured by these sexy women. Joanne promised to give us a call when she is in town again. She said she'd like to bring her boyfriend next time, which is fine with us. Joanne said that she'd email the pictures to us when she got home. I can't wait to see the pictures and for Joanne's return visit.
  9. Linde

    Fuckin’ in Tents

    My wife, Linda, and I have been swinging for a few years, but until recently she has not wanted to meet with another guy alone. This seems to be changing. Let me explain. We planned a weekend camping trip to a PA nudist resort with friends we have played with in the past. We arrived on Friday night and after getting the camp site set up, we all played together in our friend's tent. It's always fun to play with this hot and sexy couple, but I still longed to fulfill my fantasy of having Linda fuck a guy on her own. Throughout the next day, we met several other couples with the intent of hooking up with them later in the day. It turned out that the people we spent time with turned out to be true nudists and we're not into playing with another couple. The day went on with no prospects until we went to the resort's dance club on Saturday night. The nudist resort custom dictates that people dress for the dance club. Linda wore a short and snug black dress that was cut very low in front. Linda's cleavage looked magnificent. Of course, she wore nothing underneath. We danced a few dances and decided to rest and get a drink. On our way to the bar we met up with a guy who looked familiar. It was Charlie. Charlie and his wife Veronica had played with our friends in the past, but we had never hooked up with them. Charlie walked over to say hello and explained that he was at the resort by himself this time, since his wife was unable to get away from work. After some small talk, I excused myself saying that I was going to get something to drink at the bar. I was hoping that this might just be the opportunity I had been waiting for. Charlie is about 10 years younger than me and very different. Where I am tall and slender, Charlie is a real man's man type. He is a bit shorter than me but with a large chest and muscular arms. I'm an elementary school teacher and he is a Harley-riding building contractor. I was a little surprised that Linda was attracted to this kind of guy. She always said she likes sensitive, gentle men, but Charlie was more of a macho guy. Once I got my drink, I decided to wait, watch, and see what might happen. Linda knew I was watching, but I don't think Charlie did. They both watched the dance floor, her back to him, as he placed his hands on her hips. Apparently Charlie isn't a dancer. I could see that they were talking, but I had no idea what was being said. I did notice her laugh a flirty laugh from time to time. Then she turned to face him and they kissed. His hands were on her ass as the kissing became more passionate. His hand went to Linda's ass as she ground herself against him. She turned around again to face the dance floor and, with her back to him, his hands embraced her around her waist. Her head tilted back and rested on her chest, with eyes closed. I watched his hand reached down to the hem of her dress and he lifted it, just barely exposing her pussy then used his finger to manipulate her. She seemed to really enjoying his advances as her hand reached behind her. It appeared to me that she was rubbing his cock. Linda turned and whispered something in Charlie's ear. She took his hand and brought him over to where I was standing. Linda told me she wanted to go back to our tent, and asked if I minded if Charlie came also. I said of course not. I had an extremely hard erection as I hoped my fantasy would finally happen. As we walked outside on our way back to the tent, Charlie said he would meet us at the campsite, since he had brought his Harley. Linda and I had walked to the dance club. I suggested that Linda ride with Charlie and I would walk back and meet them at the campsite. When I got back, I found that Linda & Charlie had already gone into the tent and from what I could hear, had begun their encounter. I heard her moan the way she does when her pussy is being licked. I tried to imagine what they were doing, but I felt it would have been wrong to go in and expect to be part of the action. I brought a camp chair closer to the tent so I could listen to what happening inside. I knew when they started to fuck when she commented on the thickness of his cock. I heard her say that she wasn't sure it would fit in her pussy, and she asked him to start slowly. From the sounds I heard, it didn't take too long before the pace quickened. I could tell when she was cumming on his cock from the sounds of her moans of pleasure, Charlie's grunting and the sound of what I knew was his balls slapping against her ass. I didn't know whether Charlie came inside her or not. Charlie asked her to suck his cock again. Then a few minutes later I heard Charlie ask her to lick his balls. That's when I heard the sounds of Charlie's orgasm. After that I could only make out soft whispers and giggling. This continued for much longer than I expected. When they came out of the tent, Linda came to me and said, "Thanks, sweetie, that was awesome." Charlie shook my hand and said that Linda was a truly great fuck. He asked if it was OK with me if they get together again. I replied that it was fine with me if Linda wanted to. Linda and Charlie exchanged phone numbers and kissed. He then started up his Harley and drove away. When he was gone, Linda shared more details with me. She told me how thick his cock was. She told me that his cock was no longer than mine but so much thicker. Charlie had filled her up entirely. She described the amazing orgasm she had when she rode Charlie cowgirl style. She told me how his balls slapped against her ass when he fucked her doggy style. She enjoyed touching his muscular chest and arms while he banged her in the missionary position. She verified my guess that he came all over her breasts, face, and hair when she licked his balls and ass. She said she never knew a guy could cum so much. She had wiped his cum off her face with the dress she had been wearing, but missed some that remained in her hair. I told her how excited this all made me and I asked her if she wanted to fuck me. She asked if we could put it off for tomorrow because her pussy was so sore from his thick cock. I went inside the tent and found her black dress. I almost came when I saw all of the cum that was on it. I asked Linda if I could watch next time. I think she enjoyed herself more because I wasn't there, but she told me that she would consider it. She said that she felt extra sexy knowing I could only listen. She thanked me for not coming into the tent. It was very obvious that this would not be the last time she would fuck another guy. I told her she could do it again anytime as long as she told me about it later. She smiled a sly little grin and said, "Maybe." I just hope she continues to tell me all about her adventures. I think I'm going to like this. By Linde
  10. This probably shouldn't bother me. The input from other readers would interest me. When my wife and I have sex she cums. Mildly would be a good word. When she has sex with other guys, she cums loudly, with spasms and shaking. These are wild orgasms. She has squirted with others, but never with me. (I have tried.) I don't think its about technique. I do understand the process, watched the videos, taken suggestions from the guys who made her squirt, etc. She says she doesn't get into squirting all that much, but she really seems to like it when it's happening. I suspect she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She says that sex with me is the best, but I seriously doubt that. Now, I'm really not worried that she'll leave me for another guy. We've been together for a long time and have been very happy. So my question is: Am I making something out of nothing or should I be concerned? Thanks for your thoughts.
  11. Semantics! Gotta love it. To me, "swingers" makes me think of the "rat pack" (Frank Sinatra, Sammy Davis, etc.). "The Lifestyle" doesn't work for me since everyone has a lifestyle. Swappers? Meh. If anyone has the perfect word that conveys the meaning of our wonderful hobby, please share!
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