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    Couple
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    Roanoke,VA
  • Interests
    sex
  • Occupation
    remodelling contractor
  • Swinging Experience
    9 yrs

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    hmr
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    carolina friends

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  1. Love it. Went though a lot of the same, then realized it was done together and in love. Been doing this for 10 years now, and still feel like we are "good' people. Besides, according to an ABC poll a few years ago, this is much more prevalent among "conservatives", then " liberals" ( the wording they used on the poll)
  2. Our doc knows, but it is not in our records for a very good reason. Mom works at the office.
  3. Well, Mrs hmr and I had met this new couple and decided to play. We get a motel room and get on our respective beds as things start getting going. Lo and behold as my partner and I start having intercourse, the headboard start banging the wall. Trying to not totally disturb the next room I stuff a pillow behind it. Still it goes on banging the wall Ok, what now. Ahh, I'll hold it while banging away!! Which proceeds to pull it off the wall and on to her head As you can imagine, after the initial shock and the assurances she was ok, we bust out laughing the rest of the night. Sorry , there is no way to maintain an erection during a Gut busting laugh. Well, things calm down enough for mrs and her partner to try to get down to business. Somehow we do not think this is fair, as we are still caught in the giggles.So, we quietly sneak up behind them ( they are on their sides ) and poke them both in the butts I know, we were bad, but it was worth it for their reactions We still laugh whenever we see them.
  4. Always much easier to tell once you do it. The anticipation of a problem is worse than the problem itself. All mrs hmr said was ok.
  5. We do have one couple who we all have to avoid because if you even speak to her she assumes you are going to "do " her. She is loud , obnoxious and not exactly the best at cleanliness. Unfortunately she has become a mamber of a group we are in on AFF and makes sure she is at all the meets.
  6. Most times no, we try to get to know the folks we meet. occasionally we do, but rare.
  7. Actually there are studies , which the Mrs found, that show people in the lifestyle tend to have much less STD's then the vanilla community. Something about we are more likely to be tested and are more aware of the issues. I'll see if she can find it again, but I do remember it was only a google search away.
  8. Depends on the relationship between you wife and her sister. In my case they had been very close forever, and still are about 3 yrs after it happened. Just make sure she is more practical in her outlook , less likely to let emotion rule.
  9. I remember when I met my wife. She said , "I have epilepsy." I said," Ok." She could not believe I did not freak out like most. I do understand your worries, however we have found most people over the age of child (this is not always a number) just accept it a part of her being and are not bothered. Please enjoy your new found "hobby".
  10. Dru, are you keeping us in suspence? Its 2 days after the fourth and what happened? For us, It was the mrs idea, although I was the pervert? in general. definitely talk as everyone has said and you will have wonderful times. You will find most people were limited in their playing at first, before plunging in. Also, most people will tell you, your marriage will get even better. Mrs and I have have a lot in common with you in the medical issues and her not being able to do much for a long time. However, once you can discuss how good giving head to someone alse was, or how good a screw so and so was, talking about the bills becomes much easier. As others have alluded to, go at the pace of the slowest person and most things will take care of themselves. Oh, and enjoy!!!!!
  11. This has got to be the best post I've ever seen with some very divergent opinions and no flames. Keep it up.
  12. Yes. We all made similar mistakes when we first started. Communication is a must. As long as you talk things out, times will get much better. Also, if you read another thread here about rules being broken, you will find out not to get too upset when it happens. At least it seems you were able to keep your sence of humor about the whole thing,I believe that is about 90% of the way there. Mr hmr
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