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satiromode

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About satiromode

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 11/13/1980

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Male
  • Location
    Miami
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. First of all. THANK YOU VERY MUCH! I came here trusting that swingers community are the most honest and healthy people concerning sex and couple. Thank you because you had really reply to me with a lot of love and a lot of assumptions heheheh. Ok, first of all, I have been talking to her sincerelly, clear, looking to the eyes, sometimes angry but the most of the times in peace, since 2011 when our child was born. We have had a complicated life, I dont want to minimize anyone's story but ours had been really hard, full of migrations and other external conditioning that would put any person on a bad state of nerves. We had talk about it a lot. I allways tried to find solutions and crazy ideas to have fun with her. She allways answers, I am under stress, I am tired, I feel I don't want sex anymore in life, on the other hand, I catch her few times watching porn (unfortunatelly never on the right moment) and also catch her flirting, or letting other people to tell her really nasty things while enjoy it, if you add this to the fact that she had never told me something similar to a solution, that is very clear to me. I think we are still living together because I am a big fan of her and she just needs me because I am useful and there is no other secure ground around. Believe me, I was applying for the world awards for Blue Prince. I was seriously into that ideology, trying to be the perfect man. Now I realized that I dont want to do it anymore because it makes you feel like a stupid. I dont think the lack of sex is connected with any physical health problem, of course, we depend on perception and everything is on mind. As a grown man, even when it is very paiful to me, I must asume that love is the one that went away on this marriage. We both made mistakes at the beggining so trust started to be affected, we still have comunication, very clear and mature I must said and yes, she wont let me have a date in peace, but it is not that I want to cheat, is just that I feel we are not couple anymore and I have the right of meeting anyone. Of course, this is the part that not only swingers are avoiding. Sentimental dramas are really dangerous... She doesn't want to find a solution, till today she didn't bring one single idea to the center. It doesn't make her a bad person, I love her and it is very human, we were grown on societies where catholic ideology did a lot of damage to our education, but the real things comes out from life, I don't blame her but I am having a very hard time. I know swinging wont solve my relation, this is not what I am looking for (I WISH!). I dont think is gonna happen. I just need to find my own way to be happy so guys, thank you very much for trying to do the right thing! I love to see that you all go inmediately to the light, that makes me love this comunity now. I will try to replace porno by reading I just want to have a partner I can totally trust, so we can even share our fantasies and taboos, that way I will know that I have a partner for life, for those days when sex is not needed anymore. My relation is lost. I am the first one sorry about this. Now, do you think I need to present a divorce receipt? hehehehehe (joking) What do I need to do in order to meet healthy minded people like you guys?
  2. Hello everyone! I am married but it is already four years since my wife lost her interest in sex at all (apparently). On the other hand, I am young and full of body energy to share. I am also naturally interested on exploring/studying the orgasm; for me it is very healthy and stabilizing thing and I love to give pleasure to another person. We are separated in fact but living together. I dream about sparking her desire and going back again to what used to be a very hot couple, tide by tongue as we were called before, but not sure if it is possible and now I am already desperate, becoming addicted to porn. I think this sad end is the result of following a counter natural model of marriage. I want to explore what are my real desires without any barriers. I wonder if swinging lifestyle would help me on this. I wonder if, now being a married but single, I would find partners for my explorations, and how and where. And I wonder if I will be able to bring my wife to this lifestyle as well so she can also enjoy and we start having happy lives again. Any kind of advice is welcome. Thanks!!
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