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    Washington
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    Games, toys and sex
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    A while? Depends on your definition of swinging.
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  1. Got a good chuckle out of that one. Sounds to us like that was very inappropriate and unacceptable behavior. If anything always answer questions like "is he good in bed" or "do you give good BJ's" or anything sexual like that with sarcasm. We find it annoying when people ask, are you good in bed. Who responds with "Oh, I'm terrible." Even if they sucked they would still respond with "I'm terrific." Even saying so, the moment she "shoo'd" you away that was the moment to just be blunt and say not interested. So it hurt her feelings, too bad but you have to make sure that you guys are comfortable first. Doesn't sound like you guys did anything wrong, except not telling her you weren't interested.
  2. This right here sounds like you're setting yourself up to fail in the lifestyle. At least in our opinion. And quite frankly this sounds very homophobic. Let me add this edit in, if you're using condoms yea the guy would have to do it intentionally, but you know as well as any guy here, unless there is something to stop your cum, that thing will go flying up, down, left, right or any of those directions combined. We've certainly seen it happen. Also to OP just saying this whole thread sounds a little off. I am still not totally understanding it. Are you playing with someone elses missus? If so and the hubby nuts in her first you would be offended because you didn't get first dibs? As much as I'd like to put in a some helpful information here, I'd suggest taking the advice one of the other posters gave you and just avoid group play or just play only with females. Maybe we misread it.
  3. Also to add to what SwingAcademic said, there is also a documentary about a guy with a not so average penis on Netflix. Its titled "Unhung Hero". It is a pretty interesting watch.
  4. Given the limited number of responses you will get from this thread it is safe to assume that we are in the minority of agreed upon opinion. For us, the size of your junk is a factor. Not because we're shallow or just trying to find the biggest out there, but because it's out of preference that our play partner be at the minimum, the same size as our male half. But as sunbuckus pointed out, attraction is a must if play is going to be successful. And while the thread is just about penis size, we also factor in whether the other parties like or prefer if the male is cut or uncut. Aesthetics are also a big factor for penis play (albeit overlooked). That seems to be a missing point from this thread, at least from how we're looking at it. For example, B likes her male playmates the be cut because she finds them more aesthetically pleasing to look at while J is uncut (penis size aside). So there are a bunch of variables that we take into consideration when it comes to just penis size. Just because you're 8" and thick, if it looks like a toad, we'll probably pass it up. If it's 6" and smooth, we'll probably lock you in our basement for a few days (attraction aside).
  5. You can't really do anything about cock size but you can do something about looks. Do you work out regularly or are you complacent and don't want to put any effort into looking good? We try to stay active to keep ourselves attractive or at least be eye candy for people to oogle over. Just saying everyone wants to fuck prince charming, but no one is going to want to fuck Shrek. Just saying.
  6. This right here. We can't just assume he doesn't care about her or whatnot. Who are we to judge what they do or how they spend their free time. I am guilty of doing this quite a bit, but not with a TV or sports. I bring my 3DS and play monster hunter when we're out or whatever to alleviate boredom. One can only talk about so much before there is nothing left to talk about in one sitting. We shouldn't jump the gun and assume that he was neglecting her. And the truth of life is, it doesn't matter how gorgeous or attractive a girl is, some guy is going to be tired of her shit. OP also said there was drama in the air so I 'm pretty sure that saying is not far off the mark.
  7. Work stories are always believable. Like what was said before, make sure you're both on the same page about it. Otherwise, the person that was directed the question should be the only one to respond and tell the story and have the FWB say yes to everything. Or just make up some long winded story about how you were being hunted by ninjas and you were off to save the world and your FWB was trapped in a curse spell so you broke the curse now they owe you a debt so they have to stick around you so they can fulfill said debt to you. End the story with something along the lines of ultimately saving the world and just start telling every one "You're Welcome". That usually gets the job done for us. But then again it's believable because I am never serious with anyone....not usually anyway. There are no usual follow up questions, and if there are, reiterate said parts about them owing you a debt? This might be bad advice.
  8. Well just make sure that he goes balls deep....get it?
  9. I suppose Grand Theft Auto V if you want a really good story that's gritty. Or maybe Dead Space if you're looking for something that will give you nightmares. But I suppose that's not what your looking for. Beer pong? Nude twister? Strip poker? Hide the sausage?
  10. Just throwing our $0.02 in. This is pure speculation and some may not agree with it but the way we see it is that 90% (being very lenient here) of the couples profiles online are fakes. Either they are just picture collectors or males trying to cheat on their SO. Very sad lot (we've called out two for doing the latter so far). And then there is the 8% that pull the whole bait and switch. Then there is that tiny 2% that are actually REAL COUPLES. That's generally how it goes. But I suppose that doesn't answer your initial post. Yes, it seems this is pretty much a normal thing, especially when it comes to online. We're in the same boat you are. Sending off 5 messages and getting 0 responses. (I think our boat might have a hole in it )
  11. Welcome to the club. It's not easy meeting people you're compatible with. Especially a couple, we could get started on our experiences and they will have you face palming so hard you'll have a permanent hand print on your face. We've tried to have that exact same thing you're looking for and the same thing happens to us. No one want's to hang out, some one says something and expect it not to get back. A lot of reasons. We know child care is our biggest issue with meeting people. Sometimes we're too busy and forget to respond. We wouldn't be too harsh but at the same time take what we say with a grain of salt. We speak for ourselves and if a swing couple wanted to hang out we'd be down for it, even if it was for coffee. (Don't drink coffee but if you pay for my Italian soda we are so there) All we can say is keep trying, you'll find one eventually. I know we are still looking.
  12. I believe the term follow through being used in this context is for the other party to commit to meeting up again outside of play. Making plans if you will, and following through with the plan. Like going to wild waves and wild waving Anyway we're probably the worst people to give advice about this.
  13. Is there such a thing as being too overdressed for the occasion? Problem we have is either we overdress for a situation or are not dressed up enough. jeans and a Tee-shirt or dress/ slacks and button down with a tie. Which one is it? Although to be honest, wearing slacks and a tie and a black short skirt dress feels like we're being dishonest. Kind of like being in a club you don't belong in. Also that thing about girdles, has anyone seen a man wear one? I seen one in an animated show (Bob's burgers) where he shows it off.
  14. Unfortunately this is pretty common. We haven't tried going to the clubs so maybe you might fare better there. We did attempt to go to an orientation at a swing club in our state but they didn't want to honor the membership rate they had posted on their website so we decided not to go, but chances are you are better suited to find people who want to hang out more there, than online. A lot of weeding out.
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