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N&G

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About N&G

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    Couple
  • Location
    Delaware
  • Occupation
    Retired
  • Swinging Experience
    Since 2001

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  1. We look for people who are willing to play on the first date. If that doesn't happen we don't mind meeting a second time but we make it clear that we are looking to play. There is no 3rd or 4th date.
  2. What is the wife going to do with the male? Only touch above the waist? We did that once with a couple. The female just wanted her boobs played with while the male half got nothing. It was a waste of our time and one of the reasons we now play with full swap couples only.
  3. If someone has a fear of STD's why would they be in the lifestyle to begin with?
  4. It's not going to happen if they keep bringing the kids. Maybe they are not as interested in playing as you think.
  5. N&G

    I like "chubby"

    I (male half) enjoy all shapes and sizes. If every woman (or guy) looked the same life would be boring.
  6. We've used GMRS on road trips where we were traveling in more than one car and at large areas such as at the different Smithsonian museums in DC. Channel 6-9 of course.
  7. If it's not something that you want to do then don't agree to it. Don't think that things will change later on either. I'm always suspicious when the female already has the male picked out. Maybe there is more going on than you realize. Do you think that she would agree to playing with another couple that neither of you already know and everyone gets to play? If she says no then you already where you stand.
  8. We've had that happen to us a few times. It's not worth trying to figure out. Life is too short too worry about the people who don't want to play when there are plenty of others who will.
  9. We use the term "voice chat" and require that the females talk before meeting. Until we know them we assume that all messages are sent by the male regardless of what gender he claims to be.
  10. We've been hosting parties at our home for 15 years, many times with 12 or more couples. We only invite people that we already know and feel that they will fit in with our style of group play. The parties have always been by invitation only and are never publicly advertised. Guests may recommend someone new as long as they have actually played with them and feel that they would be compatible. So far it has worked out well for us and we prefer house parties to hotel parties.
  11. It sounds like the other couple wasn't sure about what they wanted but in any case weren't on the same page as you. This sounds typical of newbies but everyone was a newbie at some time. How long does it take? I would say as long as you are willing to wait before moving on. We look for people who are willing to play on the first meeting if all agree. We've found that if we don't play that day we will usually never play at all. How well do you want to know them? For us it's as soon as they are naked. We're not looking for a dating relationship. If we become friends afterwards that's great but our purpose in meeting is for sex. Of course I am not speaking for anyone else here. If you require more of a relationship there isn't anything wrong with that, it's just not what we got into the lifestyle for. With enough time you will become more confident about what you want and don't want and will only put time and effort into those contacts that you think will work for you.
  12. It's the host's job to start the party. If you set up the date then you have to come right out and ask if they want to play. If you met them twice already then it should have been clear that it wasn't going to be a social meeting. What was the reason that you spent two days with them? Unless it was some kind of lifestyle hotel takeover we would not go away with another couple unless we knew them fairly well. It sounds to me that you wasted a lot of time with a couple that was never that interested in the first place.
  13. We've known woman who had mastectomies and it was never an issue. Usually at at party they keep a top and bra on but may get completely naked with those that they are they are comfortable with. Just be honest with people and there should be no reason to worry about being accepted.
  14. Yes it's possible that you were set up but it's more probable that her partner talked her into something that she really didn't want to do. We've met a few couples like this over the years and we've learned to sense when the female isn't really into it. We also only do same room for the first time to make sure that everyone is on the same page. My female half watches my back with a new couple and the other male wouldn't be fucking her if the female left the room.
  15. There are no rules in the lifestyle other than those that you make for yourself. My female half doesn't need my permission to communicate with other men and I don't need her permission to talk with other women. Of course other people here may have different views but it's really something between your husband. If you gave the other guy your social media information I don't see how it's his fault for contacting you.
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