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  • Birthday 06/09/1965

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  1. Just a question regarding couples that contact you on sites like AFF, if you are not interested in the couple, do you have a polite way of saying no? Yes, a lot I ignore, but if it's a couple that you see locally... Nice people, but I not interested in the female. I don't really want to say why... now we are polite people.. good old country folks. Just wonder if anyone had any ideas... sorry, if this is a stupid question.
  2. Hi folks, sorry for delay in replying. I am happy to say our 4some in same room went great. and again and again. Thank you all for your advice and wise words!
  3. I been telling her that as well. I told her everyone is different and she will hook up with someone larger.. better.. whatever. I told her I love watching her have a good time, and it doesn't matter to me if she enjoying too much, after all that's what we are there for. We are making progress. I been using advise from here and thank all of you.
  4. We are headed to Cuba April 6th.. hope we come back with a similar story.
  5. We will try same room, possibly this weekend.. I hope if plans work out. I so much want to watch her, but my first priority is to make sure she is comfortable and happy. Perhaps same room may never work for us. Her happiness comes before my same room fantasy.
  6. I did talk to Mrs Jafo, we both agreed to same room. When the night finally came I could tell she was extremely nervous. I did tell her if she want to do separate room the first time be ok. Perhaps I chosen poorly. I do think back and regret that decision. The other lady and I were in a room (home bar) right next to them, she knew I was there it is pretty open. I had to walk by twice and each time she stopped. Perhaps it is like throwing cold water on it. She says she was embarrassed. Mind you, originally they were to come upstairs and join us. The other lady and I played upstairs until it set in that they were not coming up.. and well then I was done. Disappointment set in and ruined my night after that. Of the three times we did once watch each other. Only because I started it by asking if she wanted to see the other lady give me a BJ, she kinda in shock and said yes. (shock cause I used to be shy about my body, then for some reason I excepted who I am and realized.. ain't no one perfect) Then bending her over the bed ask if she wanted me to take her (worded differently of course) and she said yes. She and the lady's husband watched. The husband unfortunately paid attention to his wife and kinda ignore her. That didn't help. After that she gave him a BJ while I played with her, but can to an end shortly when the other fellow had an issue. That didn't help either. She says she wants to have sex in the same room. We talk about it quite a bit. As she says that night was a clusterf*ck, I think she thinks the other guy will ignore her if we are in the same room. Then our next night together is when it start separate.. again. We have chosen not to be with that couple again. I have been trying to reassure her, she has a beautiful body (she not quite comfortable with it, but trust me she is beautiful). I tell her I want to see a man pleasure her. I do believe I tell her the right stuff.. I like your idea with the pillows and mats. I will try that. Thank you for taking the time to reply. We did agree next time same room and if she still not comfortable we shouldn't do it at all.
  7. I just one question.. when you going again?
  8. Thanks Mrs Doe. I see your point. Maybe she was embarrassed and thought I wouldn't approve. She going to get some reassurance.. I approved and loved it. We talk about it too which seems to help her as well. Thanks again!
  9. We have been together for 16 years. With both of us the longest was 3 years before. We have a great relationship and are very open in communications. Hmm.. Just typing that I realized maybe she is just embarrassed. We are very open with each other. Sometimes I over think things. We decided to try one more time with a couple we both like and both agreed if it doesn't work out, we would stop and we'd both be fine with it. But our relationship means more to us then swinging. I just like to share
  10. I'm sure this has been posted a lot, sorry. The Mrs and I are new to swinging. We have only been with two couples and three times ended up in separate rooms. I have talked to the Mrs and told her I only wanted same room because that is why I got in to swinging. I feel my first mistake was to do separate rooms the first time. Last time I enter where she was with the other guy and when she seen me came to a dead stop. I'm not sure how to deal with it. We do talk a lot about each other feelings and what we expect. She claims she was embarrassed. Is this a common thing? I will not do separate room again, and told her I would ask the other couple to leave first. We are getting together again soon with a couple we really enjoyed.. I'm honestly afraid my thoughts are going to be worrying if she is enjoying her self and distract me to appoint where things may not work. Just being honest. We are madly in love and swinging has made us even closer and our personal sex life improved.
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