NewEscapadesCT

Thanks for taking the time to read our profile! We're always impressed by this community, and investing your time for a couple you've never met, is nothing short of amazing. It's always great to have different opinions, and to see how people interpret what you've written. Careful as we were, we didn't really even notice that we had written in height and weight twice. We'll be looking to see if we can make some improvements. Thanks again!

We would like ours reviewed please! We're on both SLS and Kasidie as NewEscapadesCT.

So, we've really been looking into our local swing club. We both like the idea, but ours is, to put it nicely, scary looking. It's an old, run-down house in a bad part of town. The reviews I've read don't do a lot to make it more enticing. Frankly, it's not a place that makes either of us feel safe (or that it's very clean), and so it doesn't seem like a fun, sexy place to spend an evening. Curious if others have found this? What's your club like? Did you just get over the look and feel, and decide to give it a try?

Thanks for your responses. And thanks to this forum, we were aware we would probably get less interest because of our tame ways. That doesn't actually seem to be the problem, as we receive a fair bit of mail, stating that they like our profile, and tame is fine with them. Enough that we haven't sent out our own yet (though we certainly will). The problem comes when we write back, and say we're interested too, and open the private pics. Now it's fair to say that we won't be confused with professional models, but we're a little surprised that the sight of us has people running for the hills. Neither of us is very photogenic, so we're hoping a greater variety of pictures will give people a better sense of what we look like.

Okay, so our first few months of trying out the online thing haven't worked so well. We've gotten a good number of emails from people saying they love our profile, but when we open up our private pics...radio silence. The truth is, we have very few pictures, and they are not at all revealing. Time for some new pics. We're not interested in putting nude pics online, though we're okay with revealing. After all, you probably want to see body type, right? Anyway, we've had no problem getting some good pics of my wife, but we're not sure what to do for me. I have one that seems ok, but we don't want to have a bunch of her, and just one of me. So, what are some examples of what you like to see in the male's pic? Fully dressed? Shirt off? Feel free to make suggestions!

Thanks again for all of the advice, and sharing your own comfort levels and experiences. We've updated our profiles on SLS and Kasidie, and added a couple of basic pics. We're going to add more pics soon, we just realized we don't have many pictures of ourselves (at least without kids toys or the laundry in the background), so we need to start taking some. Hopefully, winter will end one day, and we can take off our coats/sweaters/hats!

Thank you so much for all of your responses. We're taking it all in, and we're definitely going to overhaul our profile. DigginIt, thanks for taking the time to look at our profile! We're talking about going to some kind of club or function. We looked at the SLS hotel takeover, it seemed to us (as rookies) that it was more for the experienced swinger. We'll think it over again. We're thinking of a trip to a Leisure Time (our local club) just to see what that's like. We'll be adding some photos (definitely of both of us) and we're going to make the text a little less matter-of-fact. Thanks again everyone for your input!

We're still getting our profile going, and right now we have exactly one pic. It's a face pic, G-rated, and it's private to boot. So we have a series of questions... Would you email someone that only has private pics? Would you pass on a couple that didn't have any nude pics? For what it's worth, when we email people, we include the face pic, and ask the same in return - we don't ask for nudes. Finally, what are you looking for in a public pic?