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twoormoretotango

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About twoormoretotango

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  • Birthday 10/12/1956

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    www.twoormoretotango.com
  • Swinging Experience
    About two years
  • Anniversary
    July 17th

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  • Favorite Club(s)
    Couples Choice Chicago!

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  1. Like most here, we have to be with people we like and trust, but we generally only play with people we like and trust. We video-ed our second play time, G/G only at the time, and we're so glad we did, it's so hot/cool to be able to revisit it. We often find as we talk about a recent playtime on our podcast that we don't remember the details, or one of us saw something the other didn't, and it would be great to have video or pics of it to see what happened, LOL! We like video and taking the pictures from the video (as you can then pick the exact moment for the hottest pics from the video.) We didn't video or have pics of our very first playtime, when Mrs. Tango was on the sofa with another woman and they started making out (unexpectedly!) and it progressed to incredibly hot play on the sofa, and we SO wish we had that on video now! For us, the trickiest part is asking the other couple or couples if they mind if we video it (and we always offer to give them a copy) and making sure if they say yes they are truly comfortable with it. But again, we usually would know them well enough to know whether they truly are and if we sense any trepidation, we simply don't.
  2. Yep, tried all of those. But the problem occurs on two separate computers as well as my iPad. I called a friend in another state, he tried, he also got the same error. I really want to see the game, because we like to tell our listeners to our podcast about games like this, so I went an extra step. I remembered when we moved our podcast to a new host, and we had some listeners who had no problem getting to our site but a lot of listeners emailing and saying they were getting this same error. So l learned a lot more about DNS propagation than I ever wanted to know, LOL! So I ran a tool that checks DNS propogation. And I think I see the problem. Hopefully that image will show up. You can see how there are some locations where the site DNS is good, but a lot of U.S. cities where the DNS is not propagated. So for some reason their DNS is not reachable from a lot of locations. Unfortunately we're one of those. If you can get to the site, perhaps you can share this with the site owner. Like I said, I'd like to try it and give them some publicity on our podcast. Thanks
  3. Hmm. Wonder what's up - I just tried it again, and I get: This site can’t be reached loveretto.com’s server DNS address could not be found. DNS_PROBE_FINISHED_NXDOMAIN Tried it on 2 different browsers, and my iPad, and I get the webpage not available on all of them. Did a google search to make sure I wasn't entering it wrong, Google showed it, clicked on the links, same thing. Hmmm.
  4. For some reason that link isn't working this morning; I just get a DNS not found error.
  5. This is the Wifey half of the couple: babe, I hope you're Bi because I think you are HOT! I have body image issues too, 3 kids, age marches on, but I have been really surprised at how attitude trumps everything. Naughty in N'Awlins is a great place to see an overview of the LS world, since you have about 900 couples all together in a hotel takeover in a hotel on Bourbon so you get to see a WIDE range of ages, sizes, looks, personalities, etc. Here's a little secret: The people in the swinging lifestyle are the most non-judgemental, welcoming, accepting, affirming people you'll ever meet. And a woman with a great attitude of lets have fun! is always attractive and never has a problem connecting! Our first NiN, I thought, with my being a bit on the older side and bigger side, we'll probably end up just having fun with each other in a really great, sexual, sexy environment and that will be great. The odds of actually connecting with someone else, I thought, when everyone has their choice of all the great bods out there, are pretty low. Well. to our surprise, every night we were there (and also once at noon!) we played with great couples. In fact, on Saturday night we had 3 couples in our room and had the kind of night I only fantasized about! The kind where afterwards Hubby and I looked at each other and said "Did this week really happen??" And from a pure physical point of view, you'd easily beat me in "hot" points! You are going to be very pleasantly surprised. First - you are HOT. No kidding. Secondly, the swinging lifestyle has given me more affirmations and made me feel better about myself than anything else I can think of. Have fun!!!
  6. First, we have a LOT of listeners who surprise us by telling us the wife is the one who brought up trying the lifestyle! And maybe more men who realize they're jealous/uncomfortable watching their woman play with another man than they expected - the fantasy is hot but for some, depending on their relationship, the reality can be more challenging! But we do think that our society is more "geared" to men looking at other women (look at how many more "gentleman's clubs" there are than strip clubs for women!) than the other way around, so there's a societal piece. I think woman fantasize about other men a lot, they certainly have affairs, they just are taught it is not as "acceptable" as it is for men. Our experience is that once couples start talking about it between themselves, and the woman realizes her Hubby won't think less of her for expressing her feelings that that would be hot!, a lot more married women are open to the LS than you might think!
  7. We like the natural approach: "Hi, we saw you across the room and we looked at each other and said "THAT couple looks like fun!"
  8. We have one and we love it. It's a great "ice breaker" - for example, we always take ours to Naughty in N'Awlins and have photos of it on our phone, we'll be chatting with a couple and mention we brought it, and often they will be interested in trying it out with us. We also have a photo of it on our profiles on boards, and have had couples say the wife would really like to try it out. We just had a couple we met online and have played with a couple of times come to the house and we had it as part of our play. The other wife had never ridden one, so she started. We started with her hubby running the controls and my wife and I sucking on her tits and kissing her as he slowly ramped up the speed until she came HARD. Once we all laughed as she collapsed and then got enough strength to get off, my wife got on it, I ran the controls, and the two women made out as my wife rode it, then she gestured and the two guys stood next to her and she took turns sucking our cocks while the other wife sucked her nipples, and it didn't take long for her to cum. One of our favorite times with it was at Naughty in N'Awlins, where we had 3 women playing on it, two women kissing on the woman who was riding while one of the guys ran the controls, then when one would cum they would switch places. I wish I had that on video, one of the hottest things I've ever seen! We do pull it out at home for just the two of us once in a while, but not every week. It's not a toy you can just grab in the heat of the moment! And our den is on another floor from our bedroom, so if we play in the den the Wifey has to have some time before her rubbery legs can make it up the stairs!
  9. My experience has been no problem getting the erection, just taking longer than expeccted to cum, but I know part of that is getting used to condoms. But yeah, we have a couple of couples now we play with regularly and we all get along very well and we laugh about if something funny happens and no biggie if a problem occurs. It helps knowing and getting along well with the couple.
  10. Thanks for all of the great replies! It's good to know its not just me. We have a couple who have become friends and playmates, and one thing that was a pleasant surprise to me (and they are much more experienced than we are) is the relaxed nature between people who play together frequently about just about everything. The last time we played, I had no problem getting and keeping an erection, but I had this whole "will I be able to cum" thing stuck in my head so it took a lot longer than normal - I was concerned she was going to say "OK, I'm fucked out!" LOL! Though she had already had about 4 orgasms, it was her birthday so we made sure she had a great time that night. But her husband had a challenge gettting and keeping an erection, and my wife tried to climb onto his cock but it just would not coordinate. He laughed and said he was distracted and my wife said no problem and gave him her killer BJ (she really has amazing technique) and it didn't take too long before he had a nice big orgasm. ' And afterwards it wasn't even really a topic of conversation as we lay on the bed chatting. Because it wasn't a big deal. We'd played for about an hour and a half and had a great, hot sexy time in a lot of different positions, etc. It was fun all the way around. We have decided practice is the key, so we need to practice practice practice!
  11. Thanks for the replies, would love to hear more. Just not something I expected - I'm over 50 but have never had any erection or orgasm issues ever with my wife, nor while playing soft swap with other couples. So completely unexpected. I'm guessing its origin was that first full swap when I was surprised that I was enjoying the f--ing but just not going over the edge; then it was in my mind the next time we played. One thing my wife said - well, we just need to do a LOT of practicing with you wearing a condom! LOL! But I think she may be right.
  12. We've been swinging for about a year and have had a GREAT time. We've been married a long time, no insecurities, and had played soft swap, everything except intercourse between couples. Its been far easier than we expected. No problems in group rooms, hotel room, events, etc. No erection issues of any kind. So we recently went full swap. Started with a great couple we knew and were comfortable with, and I knew that condoms can be a bit of an issue, even the best rated thin ones. I had no erection issue, it was hot watching my wife having full swap sex for the first time next to me, the woman I was with was hot, etc. But I realized, even though I was enjoying myself a LOT, and she was enjoying it, I was having a VERY hard time cumming - the LAST thing I expected. Of course, I know once it gets in your head.... no problem keeping the erection but I just could not cum! The next time we played full with another couple, no erection issues, great time, but it still took forever to cum! But then a week or so later, we played with a GREAT couple that we like a lot, and I was enjoying it a lot, and then she and I changed positions, and I went to enter her again- and my erection was soft/gone. I was really surprised, the 4 of us were havig a hot time. No idea why. And I had even taken a Cialis that afternoon! I just could not get it to get hard again. We all like each other, so no one made a big deal about it, it was one of those hey, it happens to everyone, etc. But it has never happened to me. Now I worry that its going to get in my head (where this all exist anyway!) I NEVER expected this, in fact I was hoping the condoms would make me last longer, LOL! Thoughts/advice? Thanks!
  13. Yeah, it's interesting, we've been members of a number of sites: C4p when we were in the KC area, now SLS and Swingvillage, and all have been much more fruitful for us than Kasadie, in spite of it's big name and fancy design.
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