Hi all,
My gf and I have been together for 2 years. We split up for a brief period near the beginning and during that time she slept with someone else. She only told me about this relatively recently. It initially hit me very hard in terms of jealousy especially when I consider myself to be quite open in that regard. I know she did nothing wrong and we're both in love with each other.
I've found that reading about successful swingers really helps though. Sometimes I can think of her as just enjoying herself with someone else, and think what the hell is wrong with that! So I was wondering if you could tell me some of the strategies you use to reduce jealous feelings?
I'd love to get to the stage where I could happily share her and even if I don't realise the act, getting there mentally is a project of mine.
Thanks