HotwifeTara

We don't consider ourselves traditional swingers in the sense that both husband and wife plays. My husband does not play at all other than with me. Although we do to go swingers clubs, it is only to find single guys to play with. Since I am not bi, I don't do couples, and my husband does not swap at all. There are times where he may play with me and another male, but that is rare. Mostly is it me playing alone at a club while he waits or sometimes watches. Or our favorite is for me to date guys without the hubby. Since I only date BBC, this works out well for us. Is hotwifing swinging? We consider it a sub-group and do not identify ourselves as swingers.

our definition is where the wife dates other guys while the husband stays faithful. Part of the experience is that the wife and husband use the experience of the wife dating others to fuel their own sex life. Even though the husband is not with others, he gets sexual gratification from his wife's date. Usually through the planning, then the after play with his wife when she returns. Hotwifing is very close to the cuckold experience, but without the submissiveness of the husband.

I would say it is. Even though the husband may not be physically interacting with others, he is mentally interacting by supporting his wife, feeding on the experience as part of his/their sexual foreplay. Then after she returns, he does become sexual fueled by the experience. Now if you have a husband who sits at home and is totally not interested, then I would say that is not really hotwifing, and wouldn't be swinging at all, it would be just the wife fucking other guys.

I view the Hotwife lifestyle as a sub-group of swinging. It does fall under the heading of swinging, but definitely is a different type of play. Hotwifing is as much of an attitude to us as the physical aspect of me fucking another guy. Hotwifing to me is where the wife alone plays while the husband remains faithful. Closely related to the Cuckold. Although when you mention cuckold, it brings up the husband as a submissive aspect. Hotwifing allows the husband not to be submissive. But this is just my opinion. I am a Hotwife and I live it. Tara

Yes, I totally identify as a hotwife. I date without my husband there. Sometimes he may get to watch, but mostly he just hears about it after the fact.

I like to lock my husband in his cock cage so there will be no jacking off while I am on my date. Usually I will text him to take a Viagra just as I am about to get laid to add to his torment. But as for what he does, e goes out to dinner sometimes, or even to a strip club while I am on a date. Tara