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Sublue

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About Sublue

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 07/19/1983

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Arizonaa
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Thanks, coupleinmd. It seems you prefer to be told if a lady doesn't orgasm so you can just not stress about it. It seems like opinions are split on telling vs. not telling. I think more men prefer to be told, and more women prefer not to tell.
  2. Thank you for the empathetic replay, Sunbuckus. I wasn't sure what the etiquette was in regards to lack of orgasms. I don't think I would like being told to let it go. Reminds me of someone beating someone, telling them to just relax lol. I think I will keep mum about it and just try not to worry about it either way.
  3. Thank you, you answered my question before I could ask regarding if I should disclose before, or not. I agree if people are laid back, then I won't become someone's challenge and we can all live and let be. I just didn't want to offend anyone of it didn't happen.
  4. Were you offended that another man helped your wife orgasm when it was difficult for you to help her? I could see this bringing resentment. And I would love nothing more than to be surprised in that way.
  5. The faking it thing is sometimes easier. So sad. It's the personal challenge thing that makes it so high pressure. I am curious as well if the change of scenery may help.
  6. Thank you! My "problem" is only a problem to people who get angry that it hasn't happened yet, and take it as a personal rejection, or to those men who say fuck it, and completely give up because they figure it isn't going to happen anyway. I'm not sure if I've been completely relaxed. I'm sure if I'm not with my husband, then I probably won't be any more relaxed with a few other people in the room.
  7. Hello all. I am a 32f. Husband is 35m. We are interested in trying swinging but something is giving me pause. I am not an easy lady to bring to orgasm. Completely alone with my own hand I can come in 5 minutes. Oral by my husband on me, takes maybe 30 minutes (if it works at all). Vibrators don't do much (not even the Hitachi, but sometimes they do. It's a crapshoot). And I don't orgasm vaginally. I am nervous that my inability to orgasm will turn playmates off. How would you react if the wife of the other couple could not orgasm? Would it be off putting if I were to try to bring a vibrator into bed? Would it make you less likely to swing with us again? I do enjoy sex and the excitement of the whole adventure, my biology and mind is just such that orgasm is hard for me around other people.
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