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Well, at least trying to keep it discrete, but I think guys gossip more than we do. There has been a few things go wrong over the years because someone said too much or said it to the wrong person.

I do fantasize that one day, my husband will learn to dance. Still holding my hopes up on that one

I think sometimes its just impossible to not develop emotions for a partner, things sometimes just feel right. I can say that I have had feelings for a previous partner before, and have had to put distance in between us, 20 years being married and I love my husband more than ever and that is what has given me the strength to do that. I have learned from past mistakes that to make this work there has to be some limits.

We don't have to agree, I dont consider blowjobs cheating. I find it wrong when a wife refuses to give her husband blowjobs for no reason other that she just dont want to, that is just not right. I would not be upset with my husband if he gets a blowjob from another women as long as he comes back to me, been married 20 years and I take care of my husband and make sure that no matter what, he is happy to come home to me, even after another women sucked his dick. I did speak about 40 guys, but I don't see them every day, only a few of them that I see on a very regular basis but there is a total of about 40 who I do this for. I have learned from previous mistakes and I am very careful to make sure that I don't get the other guys in trouble.

I am wondering if anybody else does this, or heard about it or fantasize about this. One of the things we do at home is that my husband likes for me to give oral sex to his friends when they visit, not every friend but I do this for about 30 of his friends, I don't see them all of them all the time, many of them I see once, maybe twice a month or not for months when im in Albany, we spend a lot of time in west palm beach where he has about 10 friends who I do this for, also don't see all of them all the time. My husband wants to keep me safe so this something I do only for his friends that we feel comfortable to keep it safe and discrete, I let him deal with that, who he tells me to do it, I will do it, no questions asked. Im a sub and I love it! I do this when my husband is around, but since im home during the days because of the work I do, and my husband is out during the days his friends text my husband and he usually text me to give them oral when they come by the house. I am nude when they come by the house, but all their friends have to respect my husbands limits and know that I will only do blowjobs for them. If they dont respect, then I no longer do oral for them. Simple. My husband is also very firm that he doesnt want them taking their clothes off around me. We have been married for over 20 years and dated for a couple years before that, I did this for my exhusband and its how I meet my current husband who was friends with my exhusband. By the way, my exhusband left me, not the other way around. When in in Albany, it is not uncomon for 2 or 3 of his friends to drop by during the daytime on weekdays, for most of them their wife's don't know but im dont feel im doing anything wrong since im only doing blowjobs, so I guess their work hours is the easiest time for them to drop by, but sometimes its more, 4-5, or around the holidays sometimes 10-15 in a single day, I do swallow every time. I am in West Palm Beach now, going back to Albany on Monday, today 1 friend showed up around 11 AM, yesterday one showed up around 9 AM and the other one around 2, on Sunday one friend showed up at 10 AM, someone else at 4 PM and the same guy who came first thing in the morning came again at 7:00 PM. I was on vacation for a week before Saturday, but they do keep me busy. I enjoy it, I enjoy the attention it gets me, they enjoy it, and im sure their wifes are happy since their husbands arent asking for them to do it. I know im not the only one who does this, is there any wifes who do this for your husbands friends, or any husbands who ask their wifes to do it for their friends.

My personal opinion is cumming inside. I think its sexier, also don't like wearing cum.

Im 42 years old now, when I was about 20 when I was married to my first husband, I was giving oral to a guy who was 68 the last time I did it. With my current husband, I have given oral to several guys in their 60's but the oldest one ever has been 72.

I have had sex at a theater before, roleplay because I knew the guy or guys I meet there and made it look like a hook up, but it was safe since they where not strangers. I did tease other guys in there and some of them tried to get me to do thigns with them, but I only had sexual contact with the guy or guys who came with me.

My husband also likes me naked at home around his friends, and likes me give them oral sex while they watch movies or sporting events. Not for every friend we have at the house of course, but for some who know how to keep secrets.

Husband's Fantasy 3 I am not bisexual, but my husband is really turned on watching me rimming other women's asses, I do it for him. Husband Fantasy 4 My husband likes me to have anal sex with black men, I can do anal sex but not my favorite, but will do it for him

Husband's Fantasy 2 My husband is really turned on when I go out on dates with other men, but he likes to still have some form of control. Almost every men I date has been chosen by my husband and until I meet them I know little to nothing about them, often don't even know what they look like. My husband is very picky and peculiar about the men he chooses for me to date. I am not able to have vaginal sex, or receive oral because it can be very painful, so we avoid it, so any sex with them really means blowjobs, and for a very, very, very, very select few anal, so really its only blowjobs. This limitation is one of the reasons why it is difficult for me to find guys to date, but doesn't make it impossible. My husband has been setting up this type of dates for me so long that he knows the right questions to ask to see if someone is comfortable with sex meaning only blowjobs and someone who just wants to go out with me who really wants more that I cant provide. He also is only interested on guys who will get tested and prove to him they are clean, this isn't complicated but its scary that so many guys will just say excuse and excuse to not get tested, my husband will never send me out with one of those who wont get tested. One of the things he really looks for in a guy, but isn't always possible is a guy who would enjoy having me nude all or most of the time during dates while he keeps all of his clothes on. This is also something I have been doing for many years and have many fun dates like that, of course a few bad things have happen but usually fun. since I got married, I have had several dates where I was nude during the entire date, just a few examples. Last September, I went out on a date Texas with a guy for his a party for his 20 year anniversary from his university graduation. He has never been married and on the last anniversary was picked on for it. Super sweet guy and he did a lot of work to make it possible and keep me safe. More than once, someone we know in Atlanta who owns a restaurant, he closes it early and a keeps a few of his staff who volunteer to be part of the fantasy and make the whole dinner at the restaurant very normal even when I'm nude.

Husband's Fantasy 1 My husband loves for me to be elegantly nude around fully dressed people, like an event where I get my hair done, compliantly waxed, all make up, fancy high heels and jewelry but that's it. But it has to be a regular event where nobody else is nude, not an orgy, not a nudist event, just me, nude. This isn't originally his fantasy, but my ex-husband before we got married liked me nude kind of like that too, the first day I meet my current husband I was nude. While I was with my ex-husband my now husband did not see me wear clothes. First time he saw me wearing clothes was after my separation when I bumped into him at a restaurant, he didn't recognize me. My husband is the one who has set this fantasies up most of the time, he posts on different websites asking for people who would be interested on having me nude join their event. In the 20 years we have been married, I have been to about 30 weddings, not near my house, most of them we have had to fly to but my husband wanted to. One of them was my ex-husband when he remarried for the second, and also again when he got married the third time, he is single now. Been to events hosted at bars, Superbowl parties and other events, of course all within 20 years.

My husband is the one with the long list of fantasies, and it turn me on to make them come true or at least try, some of my husbands fantasies can be a bit complicated and sometimes impossibly, but do try my best. Little background on me, 42 years old, 20 years married, I'm not bisexual, I can't have vaginal sex or receive oral because of a long term problem, I date other men but husband by choice is only with me

My husband watches movies when I go out on dates

I am not able to have vaginal sex because of issues, most of the sex I have is me giving oral to others, but sometimes when I do go furher I am only able to go anal. Its a personal thing, I don't know if I would have ventured into anal sex if it wasnt for my issues, but I kind of wasnt left with much of a choice.