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sccple29073

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    South carolina
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    bi-sexual female
  1. Does anyone ever get frustrated? I know similar topics have come up about this and maybe I am just posting to rant..lol. But we are feeling extremely frustrated in finding people. I have been actively bi for a little over 2 years and hubby and I have decided to try swinging (a few attempts, noted in another post). Now our biggest problem (and maybe it's something to do with us being new to swinging) is that we are looking for a couple that we can "play" with on a on-going basis, exclusively. But it just seems everyone we have met so far is more into one-night stands. My questions are: 1) Is "this couple" as rare as single bi-females looking for couples. 2) Does everyone start out looking for this? 3) Could it be us? Thanks in advance for any comments or suggestions.
  2. Well i guess it was a little bit of both..mentioned to hubby that i have always been bi-curious and that got him open do the idea and more :-p
  3. To me I think cheating would be anything your partner was doing that you were not aware of.
  4. I have to agree with you on this one. My first few bi experiences were just f/f, but gradually my hubby joined.(which is a turn on for me) However, he was uncomfortable with me being with another man. Now keep in mind that I am not interested in swinging to get to sleep with other men, but to add to our sex life. (the experiences we have had so far has made our sex life better and has improved our communication with each other). However, I did eventually start to feel like it was a little one sided and yes I'll admit I felt he was being "unfair". We talked about it and decided for the time being, it would strictly be girl/girl. Now 6 months later we are going to our first swing party, this Saturday (His idea)
  5. Okay question about the kissing rule...For those of us that are bi-sexual..When you are with the partner of the same sex does the rule still apply? Personally I am all for kissing with either sex. To me kissing is a natural part of sex and although i respect anyone that does not want to include it, I can't say I agree with it, but I would never try to push something onto someone. (Pushing only goes one way... and that's away) I have found many couples that are against kissing, if it is with the opposite sex, but not when it is the same sex.
  6. i think smoking does matter. We recently quit smoking and when we did smoke i prefered someone that did smoke. However now that we do not smoke i prefer someone who doesn't smoke. When you are a smoker you do not notice the smell but once you quit I can't help but think "OMG..Did I smell like that"...lol. As far as drinking..It does not bother me as long as they do not get sloppy drunk, I just hate to think..that its the only way they could participate.
  7. As far as the age thing, well i think 10 years really puts you 2 in different age catagories. I mean lets face it he is going into his 30s and you into your 20s. But besides that, I guess the real problem would be, what are you guys doing to find couples? With the internet becoming so popular I would check out other sites such as this and post ads yourself. I have had pretty good success with yahoo. (of course now they have started charging for a lot of their services) Personally I have a "rule" in which I do not meet with anyone under 21. I do this for a variety of reasons, a few being 1) Some clubs require 21+ ( I usually do first meets at a club) 2) Different Interest. As far as meeting someone older, well my "cut-off" is 40. I know this cut-off will probably change with my age, but for now anyone as old as parents is kinda "icky". I think everyone would agree to that, I mean how many 40 yr olds are interested in a 60 or 70 yr old couple? Good Luck and I think you will find that as you get older your search may become easier and your age range may become larger. (just remember when your guy is 39 you will still be in your 20s)
  8. Yes i think weight does matter...but so does a million other things. if the person sucks in bed...personality...facial features...if both the males and females are interested in the others partner. Just because you may be overweight doesn't mean no one will be interested and just because you are not overweight doesn't mean everyone will want you. It's all a matter of perference and what turns you on. i agree with K-2..Everyone has and is entitled to their own opinion. I just do not think anyone had to be rude, in their search.
  9. Personally I do not care what someone looks like. I am not looking for strictly sex, so the person has to have a personality. I don't care what your body looks like, if your personality is crappy, then there is no way we could get together. I have met plenty of women where it wasn't "lust at first site" but after talking with them i was attracted to their personality, which made their exterior looks unimportant. I have talked to a lot of people online and the ones that seem so concerned with HWP I am not even interested in meeting. There is no way I could feel comfy with someone that may be taking mental notes on any "extra padding" I may have. I am not sure if I would use the word narrow-minded for people that are concerned with HWP, but I have often wondered if those people just have that preference about people they are with in the "lifestyle" or is that in general. I mean do people that prefer only hwp actually leave their spouses or partners because they were no longer hwp or do they actually adjust to it and if they adjust would they still seek hwp in the lifestyle? lol...I think this subject could go on and on, with people just continuing to add to it.
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