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Pink_Panther

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About Pink_Panther

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 08/15/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    M. Female
  • Location
    Edmonton
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I'd like to think so too Sunbuckus, but deep down I don't think he will. He'd have to admit to being wrong in some things and take responsibility...not his favourite things to do.
  2. Can't see it going over well. He believes he is right in everything and I have no reason to be upset...then he puts up a wall around him to block out anyone who tries to tell him differently. Our relationship is not the best at the moment, and this is how he thinks we should fix it...by getting back into swinging completely under his control. I've really started to wonder if there is something else hidden there (other than the obvious control issues)... I've wondered a few times if he was interested in TVs and hermaphrodites by a few comments he's made and just didn't want to tell me that, worried what my thoughts might be...and that is why he might be withholding the password for online profile, so he can check that out alone.
  3. I wanted to thank everyone for their comments so far. I would never ask him to do something he doesn't want to do, I believe I deserve the same respect. At first the communication was very open, but as time went on the lack of it got worse and worse. I would like to find a way for him to actually talk about things like we used to, but he just gets mad and walks away. I told him we need to work at getting our marriage back on track, this is his idea of how to do it. I do not agree...I think it would just complicate the situation...and reading some of the replies so far, I'm not the only one who thinks so.
  4. That is what I thought too. I even contemplated having another woman play with me as long as I wasn't required to touch, so my husband could watch or take pictures...but I thought that would be like opening pandoras box. That once he was allowed to bring that other woman in, that he would eventually ask for more. As far as counseling, my husband is very against that (was forced to go in the past with previous wife). He is also a very over-reactive person initially, and then calms down to think about things. That can take hours, or it can take months.
  5. Hello all I am brand new to the forum and relatively new to the swinging scene. I never even considered it before my husband and I met. About three months into our relationship he told me that he'd always had fantasies about multiple men and one woman, and he would like to see me as that woman being completely fulfilled. He also told me that he was curious about being with another man, and would like to experience both situations. At first I was mortified...how could he actually want to see another man touching me...so he gave me some stories to read on wife watching, etc. I told him that I couldn't do it because I could never watch him with another woman or even have another woman in the room. I am very insecure about myself and my body, always have been. He told me that he wasn't interested in that at all...he wanted to see me with multiple men touching me and wanted to know what it was like himself. After voicing a concern that if I went through with it, that he would come back to me later and ask to have a woman brought in since I'd been with other men. He assured me that would never happen. We agreed to try the MFM once and if either of us didn't like it, we would never go back. So we started an online account. The rules were that we only read messages together, that if one of us didn't like something about a prospective partner he was out of the question, only hubby would go to meet the guy initially to protect me, and nothing would continue in the bedroom when one of the two of us left for a minute. That lasted for about a year. We had probably 8 experiences over that year. I discovered I really enjoyed watching my husband with the other men (only oral activities) and the look on my husband's face as he was watching me was amazing. I became almost addicted to watching his face and the huge smile on it. Just before our last experience, he said he was in contact with the first guy we men...who now had a girlfriend. His girlfriend was bi-sexual and my husband wanted to invite the two of them over. I told him absolutely not...that we had agreed no women at the very beginning and my view had not changed. He started with the what if's....what if there was no swapping...just two couples having sex next to each other, what if he just watched, what if he just took pictures, etc. He'd been drinking and got very angry with me that I wouldn't invite this woman over. Told me I was f***'d in the head if I couldn't handle seeing him with another woman but I was fine with seeing him with another man, and that we would just end the swinging style period. The next day he told me that he'd invited another guy we'd been with before over and continued with trying to convince me to have another woman there. When I opened his phone for him to respond to a message for him...it was on a text conversation with first guy telling him to bring his girlfriend over cause I was really into it. Only the second (single) guy showed up and that was our last experience. Since then our sex life has really hit a low. One, maybe two times a month. I'm always willing for him and I to go at it at any time, and he knows that...just he doesn't seem interested. A few months ago he came to me early one morning and told me that he was setting up the online account again so we could have some fun over the summer, and that he wanted me to work on our profile. When I opened it up, I noticed he had looking for 'women, couples (man and woman)' included in what we were interested in. I asked "we are looking for man and woman couples now? He said yes, that he thought it would be fun for us to get together with another couple. I basically started to have an anxiety attack...my eyes welled up, my heart started thumping, my hands started shaking, and my whole body went cold like someone dumped ice water over me. He looked at me and saw my reaction, got angry and told me to just delete the account...that he'd just chalk it up to $40 bucks down the drain. Nothing else has been mentioned about it. When I tried he refused to talk...said that one of us would just end up getting p****d off. Case closed Three weeks ago he went out of town for work, about 3 1/2 hour distance. A week ago he decided to open up an online account again, telling me about it 3 days after he did so. He said he wants to look for men and couples for us to play with when I go up there some weekends. I told him from the very beginning that I was not comfortable with other women and he agreed that he would never ask me to do that. I do not find the thought of another woman touching me appealing, nor am I at all interested in touching one. Am I in the wrong for going along with him in having other men in our bedroom when I knew I would not be able to handle other women? Or is he in the wrong for trying to force me into having women involved (or at least in the room)...and for starting up a profile again without consulting me first...? Am I asking too much?
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