Luv_Bugs

To say they have no class may be a little harsh. I guess they're just more of exhibitionists than we are.

Thanks, MJD. Yeah, that last paragraph was a little gruff. Added that stuff after being lead on and stood up more than once. Also took out the soft swap reference, and my feeble attempt at humor with the lol. As far as the pics, there is no way that I am aware of to have public pics displayed on the profile front page. If there is a way, let me know.

Are we the only ones that prefer to see clothed vanilla pics? To us it gives you more of an idea of who they are. To just see some boobs or an ass in the air does not spark our interest. Sure, we have some risqué pics, but you don't get to see them until we meet. IMHO it screams "I have no class" to post public pics of just body parts.

We've made some changes to our profile, and would like to know your opinions. We get a lot of views, but only a few "we're interested" messages. So far we have turned down most, not our type, and the others have flaked out when it comes time to meet. Anything we need to change or say differently? Thanks. luvsalot @ swinglifestyle.com

Thanks for the advice! I have made some changes. 1. Couples can now find us. I wasn't aware we had blocked them by choosing the "no" option. 2. Took the love references out. 3. There is a full length clothed face shot of each of us. 4. Changed people to females. 5. Got rid of the peeing reference and added our specific fantasy. Anything else?

We are looking for a swing partner(s) that may develop into friends with benefits. We are interested in a poly triad, but only if the right person comes along. Suggestions?

Hey! Brand new and just registered on SLS. Check out our profile and let us know what you think. luvsalot.swinglifestyle.com Thanks!

Haven't done it, yet, and not sure we will, but I can tell you why I have this fantasy. Quite simply, I want to see her totally give in and lose all inhibitions. I like to watch her get off, and that goes for any sexual scenario.

Thanks everyone for your input. First of all, no, I am not pushing her into any scenario. All of this was (is) her idea, without any prompting from me. I am open to couple play where the men have contact with their wives and the wives have contact with one another. Also seeing her with another couple would be a big turn on for me, but she has expressed a desire to be with another woman only. Just watching her with another woman would be enough for me, and she wants me there if it ever happens. She is totally turned off by personal ads and she is afraid of swingers clubs. Hiring an escort is an option she has suggested, but I would rather meet someone who was into my wife, not just my money. So, we are resigned to go to bars and hope to hook up, or wait for my gay friend to introduce us to someone interested. Good thing is we like to go to raves and techno clubs where open minded people hang out. Everyone says that honesty about what each of you want and what your limitations are is key to succesfully navigating this lifestyle. If we are in agreement on what we want to happen and what the boundaries are, how are we going wrong?

Hey everyone! So, my wife has discovered she likes girls and wants to experience a lesbian encounter while I watch. She said she may want me to play with her, but not with the other woman. I'm totally cool with this! The only thing is she really isn't comfortable with another guy being there, and I'm not sure if I an either. We have been together for 17 years. We almost had a threeway with one of her friends when we were dating, but it never came up again until recently. One night while at a dance club, these two hot chicks were flirting and dancing with my wife. When we got home she was all hot and ready for some action. In the midst of our love making, she tells me she wants to have sex with a woman. Then she proceeds to get on the computer and pulls up some lesbian porn. I was like "WOW!" This is something I have always wanted! She has never been into porn or girls before, at least not that I know of. Now her sex drive is off the charts! We have gone from once a week to two or three times a day. We have discussed what she wants and I want. She wants to play with a woman while I play with her, but doesn't want any contact between the other woman and I. So far we have tried Craigslist, but got nowhere. She was totally turned off by the whole CL thing. There is a club where we live, but she doesn't want to go there for fear of being hit on by some guy or me being hit on by some girl. We did ask a girl we met at a nightclub out, but she turned us down because she has a boyfriend. My question(s) is how do we find a woman who is into that? Also, what potential pitfalls could someone in my circumstance avoid? I have a gay friend who said he would try to get us hooked up with someone, but the waiting is driving both of us mad! Any suggestions on how to find someone, or are we going about this all wrong? At this point, couples and Craigslist are out of the question.