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nicecouple57

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About nicecouple57

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  • Birthday 03/13/1978

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    Miami, FL
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  1. I hear Daisy is sort of a tramp, start there, if not, chip and dale are into gang bang....
  2. I can literally hear public health employees hitting the ground as they faint.
  3. Well, she's on her trip now, and last night and this morning before she left I was feeling some jealousy and conflicted and unfortunately acted a little pissy about the whole thing, but when she left I pretty much got over it, I think it was the anticipation of it all. She is inviting him over to "hang out" and "watch a movie" in about 1.5 hours after she's done with family stuff. It's actually kind of a slow burn for her trip because of feminine troubles the action has to be waist up, which will give us both a good dry (literally) run to see how we react. She should be over her troubles by Saturday, her last night there, so it will be a pretty insane build up on Saturday all day waiting, should she decide to go for it. We exchanged a pretty heated (in a good sense) string of texts about tonight about half an hour ago, I'm actually getting pretty excited for her. I was also feeling a little weird because the girl I had been chatting with had seemingly cooled a little, but after some texting with her today she affirmed she's all in, just wants to give it a few days to make sure her SO is totally ok with it. It makes me feel a lot better, strangely, that if it doesn't work out between me and her it won't be from her lack of desire, it will be because her SO was uncomfortable . . . I'll take that. I hope it does work out, she's really attractive and a lot of fun to talk to on top of that, would be a great start for me in the lifestyle! 9 years my junior, hot as hell and an excellent conversationalist. I will continue to update.
  4. I see what you mean, my concern is specifically that, that we're signing up for calculus before we take algebra, but I think - and hope - it will all end well and lead to a great time for years to come. Frankly, it is downright hard to even get people to respond to e-mails on SLS. My wife tells me we should try a different couple as she's not opposed to "normal", same room swinging, just wasn't into the guy, and I tell her it's not for lack of trying that we haven't found anyone else. Based on photos / profile descriptions, the people we consider good prospects never respond. The ones who write us we wouldn't consider for one reason or another, but we always write back and say thanks but no thanks. I would think living in a major city, one of the more sexualized ones at that, finding dates would be easier. Many of the couples who have reached out to us are just sort of skeezy.
  5. How do you mean? I guess I'm curious what brings us up to a 9.9 prior to any physical contact. Thanks!
  6. Well, I appreciate the input and support, I knew after much reading on the forum and podcast listening we're going about this in a way even some experienced swingers won't, which was of some concern, but as stated by you guys, we have indeed talked this over ad nauseum and are both on the same page. I will definitely keep updating, it's an interesting situation for us, to say the least.
  7. OK, here's the story thus far; for reference sake, we are total noobs and have never so much as held hands in a romantic way with anyone since the day we met, 10 years ago. My wife confessed about 1.5 months ago she had an infidelity fantasy, but wasn't about to go behind my back, which of course I appreciated. We talked a lot and ended up on various sites to test the waters. We sent out tons of e-mails and only got one real response, which I was happy about as they were a young, good looking couple. We made a dinner date. In the interim, my wife went home (out of state) for a few days and, with my permission, went on a date with an old acquaintance she was always curious about. Short story, she had fun but nothing happened (he tried to kiss her but she declined). A few days later, she told me she sort of regretted chickening out. We then went on our dinner date and the female and I hit it off right away. My wife and the male had, according to me wife, insufficient chemistry. She texted for a while to see if an attraction would build, but no go. The female and I text all the time in a very friendly way and have great chemistry. My wife gave me permission to pursue anything I wanted / could with the female on my own So, my wife is going back home for a few days this weekend and I told her if she wanted to give it another go with her friend she could, and she is very excited about it and is planning on being open to anything up to and including sex. Today, I hear from the female that she and her partner talked it over and he is ok with her and I having sex so long as he is in the next room for safety reasons (although I am totally harmless, he doesn't know that). Although I can foresee it being somewhat-to-very awkward / surreal to say hello, go in the next room, bang his fiancee and then maybe catch some TV, I respect his concerns and want everyone to be comfortable. Meanwhile, my wife has a date set with her at home buddy. Is this all insane, especially for rank newcomers? Thanks for your advice. To allay any "your wife is testing the waters with another guy because she's obviously unhappy," we are totally 100% couldn't be more stable and in love, just a couple of sex crazed lunatics looking for fun. Thanks!
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