lateboomers

Mr. Lateboomer is 60, Mrs Lateboomer is 54. Just joined the board and are looking for ways to start slowly with other like couples. Right now we're still in the talking stage but the idea of going to an "on premise" club in our area has not been rejected. We've had some hot discussions about what we might like to do at the club, Hell, we're having fun just laying out the groundrules! Haven't really been able to get completely through a discussion about what we'd like to do without the talk just melting into a heated session. Is this a normal reaction for a couple after the concept of swinging is introduced into their relationship? So far, we're liking it! Regarding the club, we're both a little unsure about whether or not we'd look a bit silly attending a club at our age. The last thing we want to do is to "creep out" any of the younger club attendees. Ideas?

She has had a few swinging encounters, They happened years ago. You'd think she would have mentioned something like that to me during pillow talk sessions, but it was only 10 years ago that she finally told me about them. If you can believe this, she was worried that I wouldn't take it well. After hearing the details about a party she attended, my obvious physical arousal left no doubt in her mind or mine for that matter that I found the idea stimulating to say the least. That led to an unbelievably passionate evening for us. We had a couple of opportunities shortly after that to take the plunge into a swinging situation ( both times Mrs lateboomer let me know that she was up for it if I was) but for some reason, mostly guilt and hangups from childhood sunday school, I couldn't bring myself to do it. I guess I was worried that it was a step we ( I ) were not ready for at that time. Flash forward ten years and I've gotta tell you, It would be a different outcome today. Joining the board was our way of dipping a toe in the water before we jump in. Now we just have to find the right situation with the right people.