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LiveLoveHaveFun last won the day on June 26 2012

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About LiveLoveHaveFun

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  • Birthday 02/07/1969

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Colorado Springs
  • Interests
    Hiking, boating, camping, wine, sexual fun and exploration, live music, etc.
  • Swinging Experience
    More than 5 years
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    xx/xx/xxxx

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    2_four_fun

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  1. Sounds to me like she needs to grow up and accept that the emotions she's going through are a result of her actions. She's blaming you like a little kid would. Recognize it for what it is and be steady. Be realistic as to what it may mean for your marriage as it sounds like you have and be supportive and loving with her. Avoid arguing and do the best you can. She'll work it out one way or another and you'll know what to do from there. Best of luck. Alicia
  2. We wouldn't meet without seeing some pictures first. We're usually up front with that at the very beginning. Alicia.
  3. My typical response to this type of question is, who cares? Be who you are, have fun and let those who are concerned with labels and who enjoy arguing over trivial matters drive themselves crazy. I feel what’s more important is that you understand what you’ll find in each category so you can be successful in finding what you’re looking for. Michael and I started in the lifestyle only interested in couples. Now, we have a few couples we play with together and I have a few gentlemen and a girlfriend that I’ll play with alone. So what should we call ourselves? Oh wait, don’t answer that because I don’t care. However, the poll results clearly reflect most people agree with Julie’s disposition. Alicia
  4. Although we don't actually go to larger parties where we don't know most of the people, if we decided to try one out we wouldn't let it deter us at all. Alicia
  5. It's great that you're using the forum to get some help. Why not start with a compliment about the fun you had? You could do this any time like while out for a walk. I would agree that it might be best to wait until you knows she's relaxed and feeling a bit more normal as well. Keep us posted! Alicia
  6. For us it started when we began talking with one of our good friends about joining us. We were all supposed to go out together but Michael wasn't able to make it so he said to just go ahead. Over drinks our friend and I talked about the three of us getting together and he explained he would feel uncomfortable participating in a threesome after all. I explained it was okay and didn't think anything of it until I received a text from Michael asking how things were going. I let him know we were having a good time and mentioned that our friend had indicated he wouldn't be comfortable in a threesome. I also mentioned that I was disappointed because I was getting really horny and was hoping he would be able to meet up with us later for some fun. Michael replied back stating he wasn't going to get back in town in time and that I should just consider going solo. We had never really talked about it so I was surprised and asked if he was sure to which he said, "Absolutely! Have fun and then tell me all about it." I thought about it for a bit and then asked our friend if he'd be interested in going back to his place. He asked about Michael and I showed him my text. We went to his place and had a great time. I texted Michael and said, "Round 1 done! Looking forward to round 2!" He replied back with something like, "OMG I'm SO turned on right now!!! Tell me more!" This is how we discovered the art and fun of teasing! Today, I still play regularly with our friend and still tease Michael throughout the night. When I come home we have absolutely AMAZING sex and since then have added another single male in which I play solo with. The end result is that it always ends with incredible sex with Michael. Sometimes I'll text him a picture of me and he says it drives him absolutely crazy. I can tell because I can never get very far once I'm home without him attacking me. This is how we began and continue to enjoy our open marriage. Alicia.
  7. We never actually outlined rules but I always tell Michael whenever I text, talk or email someone. I wouldn't even think about not telling him. So I think the rule would be full disclosure. Alicia
  8. I agree with Lionheart72 in that for us, playing with others is our foreplay. Sex afterwards is AMAZING and after 24 years of marriage, has never been better. As for jealousy, it's never been a problem because what we're into more than anything else is each other and we make it a point to show each other this daily. Alicia
  9. Michael is the same way and I can't even begin to describe how AMAZING the sex is when I return home. He loves it when I text him during my encounter and give him little hints as to what we've done or are about to do. Sometimes, I'll text him a photo and it drives him crazy. There have been times when I come home after 'having drinks with a friend' at 11 PM and we're not finished having sex until 4 AM. This of course includes everything, the story telling while kissing, foreplay, etc. As I've said elsewhere, we've been married for 24 years, in the lifestyle for I think almost 4 and are having the best sex we've ever had! Alicia
  10. Absolutely! Just have fun with it, enjoy the other couple's company and don't put any expectations on the outcome. Alicia
  11. We always indicate that we like to take things slow and get to know the people. This way, there's no expectation for anything to happen right away. Additionally, we're open about the fact that there must be a mutual attraction and we've never had any problems. If everyone clicks right away then it's exciting and we have fun. If we're not clicking then we just enjoy the couple and the night out. Alicia
  12. We use our real names once we begin having real conversations and have never had any problems. Alicia
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