New2This1975

My girlfriend and I have been discussing the lifestyle for the past year or two. We will be visiting our first swing club tomorrow evening. We are both a little nervous but the anticipation of taking our first step into the lifestyle has been driving us crazy since we made our reservation. We are going to take things slow on our first visit and just get a feel of the atmosphere and let our exhibitionist side shine. I'm sure it he going to be on hell of an evening!

Thanks again to everyone for the great advice! We are less than 24 hours from our first party and to say that we are excited would be a massive understatement. We are going to go shopping tomorrow and buy her some sexy new lingerie and make sure that we are dressed to impress.

We would like to thank everyone for the input. Being "newbies" we are still a little curious about the little things. We don't want to seem out of place or make people think that we don't belong. We are both curious about our wardrobe. I know it sounds a little silly but we are curious about what we should wear. We do not want to look like fish out of the water. The club we will be attending has a dinner before hand which we are comfortable with. The question is what kind of attire to couples typically wear once things move to the back room?

My girlfriend and I have been curious about the "lifestyle" for the past few years. We made the decision to take the first step and visit a local swing club this weekend. We have been discussing our limits for quite some time and decided for our first visit we are only going to have sex with one another. We have been researching "first time" stories and have found that they differ quite a bit. We decided to leave this thread to hopefully have a dialogue with those already in the lifestyle who can give us some advice on what we should expect. We would also appreciate any advice that anyone can offer. We are very excited about our upcoming visit and are trying to learn as much as possible before then. Thanks!