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EboniJewelz

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About EboniJewelz

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 01/14/1977

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    single
  • Location
    chicago, il.
  • Occupation
    Healthcare
  • Swinging Experience
    6 months - & RETIRED
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    CocoaCure420
  1. The danger lies in modern technology - people can google your name nowadays and get your address and telephone #. It is kinda pointless to say that you want discretion then tell every person you meet your real name. Everyone in this community isn't psychologically stable and XXX web sites are a weirdo's playground. So to minimize possible drama/issues/conflict, etc - it may not be the best thing to do to offer your birth name to thousands of people that you know absolutely nothing about. To me, on websites a face pic or your real name is one and the same: YOUR IDENTITIY. And if you are like me with a very unique name then there is no way to be mistaken for someone else or to claim that's not me. I give aliases and if I meet the people and like them THEN I tell them my real name.
  2. LOL, when it comes to someone i want to hav sex with or someone that i want to CONSIDER being with, my feet are never cold either (oh God, im such a freak!). But isnt it amazing how when ur the poster child for "NO" everyone wants a piece of u - then when ur ready to say "YES" nobody wants any??? The thrill of "The Chase" is highly over rated cuz after a while it just becomes annoying as hell.
  3. Speaking as a single female it sounds like something els is up with this chick. The fact that NO ONE has ever met her is what raises an eyebrow. But im on a particular site where for some reason i can never meet up with this group. Time & days that events are scheduled are a factor but the truth stands that i just cant seem to find the time to meet any of the members. So they may also be wondering if im "real." Another possibility to consider could be what i call "singles swing-syndrome" (SSS)- its where single ppl get very paranoid of cpl's because of all the BS that cpl's hav put them thru so they ATTEMPT in their minds to meet up but then all the bad memories return the day before or the day of the meet & they just dont show up. These types should leave the swing world until they figure out what they want to do. I personally am suffering from SSS as we speak but i would never lead anybody on cuz im honest to a fault and i just tell cpl's to buzz off if i dont trust them or dont want to be bothered with them. Its easier to tell the truth & be called the "unicorn bitch" than to lie & be deceptive. Another possibility is the one we see all the time in this lifestyle: she wants to play but doesnt hav the balls yet to do it for whatever reason. In any event we are not kids and swinging altho fun is not a game so if shes waisting everyones time no one should even giv her a second thought and dont allow her to continue to lie to ppl. Shes the lil boy who cried wolf...
  4. I agree with kim34, this is a lifestyle that comes with automatic rules and 1 of those rules is that ur not going to vibe with everyone u meet, plain & simple. Standards, chemistry, kinks, attraction - they all matter and set the ground-work leading toward a successful swing experience. Doesnt always work out this way but u hav to hav some kind of model for ur expectations. The whole purpose of a meet & greet is to test the possibilities of a future hook-up (nothing is guaranteed). Its just like going to a job interview: being CONSIDERED for a position doesnt necessarilly mean that u hav the job. And if ur not what the company is looking for u dont get mad, u move on & apply somewhere els. lol.
  5. If the chemistry outside the bedroom is cool & the kinks for the most match up - I'd go for it.
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