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    Married Couple-female half
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    Elkhart, IN
  1. Yep, what YOU said, wrnakedru! I do have to add that I would never share with my children the details of my personal sex life. It is just that: Personal. This is only my opinion, but I wouldn't share the idea of swinging with my small children. Nor would I ever be in the position that they could accidentally walk in and witness swinging activities. If we ever do decide to participate in the lifestyle, we would not do anything in our house while our children are home. I think that it takes a MATURE adult to understand the concept and be able to balance everything that is necessary to be successful in the lifestyle. I think that children do not possess that ability, and might mistake swinging with being promiscuous. I wouldn't want my children running around sleeping with as many people as they possibly can because they have mistakenly understood that that is what mommy and daddy do. You can explain something to children until you are blue in the face, but they will always take away from the conversation what they choose to, and more than half of the time, it isn't the point you were trying to make. Telling your adult children is entirely a different matter, and completely a personal decision. Just my opinion, Sara
  2. Kolonel, I LOVE the term "heteroflexible"! Did you make that up? Sara
  3. I'm with you again, Sibella. I generally think of long, detailed scenarios when I do actually fantasize. I think of the whole situation, and everything leading up to the actual sexual things. And Buck, I am sure your wife is telling you the truth when she says she doesn't fantasize. I know that quite often, my husband will ask me to tell him a fantasy, and I will draw a blank... because I simply hadn't had one in quite a while. SO, more often than not, I will just make a graphic one up on the spur of the moment just to make my husband wildly turned on. Is this dishonest?? I don't think so... it's just making my husband happy. I am glad that we could be of help to you! Best, Sara
  4. I'm with you, Sibella!! I don't fantasize all that often, either. When I masturbate, I simply close my eyes and concentrate on what I am feeling. Now, I do occasionally have fantasies. My favorite is one of myself and another woman giving my husband oral, kissing each other and then kissing him... We haven't actually done that yet, so it is still a fantasy. It is just one of those things that I think about sometimes in the last few minutes before sleep comes to me. I wonder if we are different than other women, or if most are like us??? Best, SARA
  5. Well, the thing with mrd3901's post is that he didn't specify if he was, in fact, cheating on his wife. Perhaps he has his wife's blessing to swing without her. Maybe she simply doesn't want to participate anymore, but doesn't mind if he does. He shouldn't be judged based on so little information. Best, Sara
  6. Okay, guys. Nothing constructive is coming from all of this animosity and arguing. I think everyone has voiced their opinion, and everyone has been heard. I think it is time to agree to disagree-- and stop bickering. We are all intelligent adults, and we should concede to respect each other's views, even if we don't agree. Best, SARA
  7. I should probably add, in view of Nymph's above post: I am honestly not being conceited with my post. I had nothing to do with my physical appearance-- God and my mama were responsible for that. I am much prouder of my inside being beautiful than my outside. I am simply saying that none of us can take credit for the way we look on the outside. We all have to take responsibility for the people we are on the inside, and give EVERY individual the opportunity to reveal who they are, not who they APPEAR to be. Have a wonderful holiday! SARA
  8. Okay. Enough. Can't you just agree to disagree now? Do you really have to keep arguing? I think we are all aware of the viewpoints of the two involved in this "tiff". Kolonel and Ted, we all appreciate your opinions, but I for one, am weary of reading your argument. We all have our own opinions. This is mine: The club has the right to select whomever they wish to enter. Anyone has the right to not enter the club's party. I resent generalistic views-- no matter what they are, or who they concern. I just celebrated my 28th birthday this week. I am tall, thin, and sexy! I am certain that I would be allowed entry into this selective party, as well as my husband- who is beautiful. Does that mean that I would go? Probably not. Am I shallow? Nope. Am I self-centered? No way! Am I inconsiderate? I am probably one of the most considerate people you will ever meet. I also happen to be extremely intelligent, and a KICK-ASS lay! I don't agree that the people condemning this Club or "Beautiful people" are all suffering from the green-eyed monster. I think that they have probably had bad experiences with shallow people. However, please keep in mind that you cannot lump us all together. Your experience with a shallow, inconsiderate person should not be your automatic perception of me, simply because I am physically similar to them! Just my opinion... SARA
  9. Somehow, Bill, I doubt that approach would work for very many people! SARA
  10. There's gonna have to be some sort of attraction for me-- whether it be to his great personality, his beautiful body, his sweet smile, etc. I'm not going to be attracted to an empty-headed guy, either. So he will have to be somewhat intelligent. I sort of have high standards, though, I guess. I 'm married to the world's greatest guy! Best, SARA (who is feeling very affectionate towards her hubby today!...)
  11. You have to go through an interviewing process? Jeez! I can tell you that I would probably NOT go to the trouble! SARA
  12. Wow... I would feel hurt, too, I am afraid! I think you have to really sit down with your husband and re-establish your boundaries, and then make a pact that you will NOT change them on the spur of the moment, no matter what! I, personally, wouldn't swing with that particular couple again. It might not seem fair, but she has already crossed the line. Maybe she made a mistake, and some would argue that she would deserve a second chance, but to me, your marriage is the most important thing. Maybe you can just chalk this up to inexperience, and go out and find someone new! I hope everything works out! Best, SARA
  13. Wow... I would feel hurt, too, I am afraid! I think you have to really sit down with your husband and re-establish your boundaries, and then make a pact that you will NOT change them on the spur of the moment, no matter what! I, personally, wouldn't swing with that particular couple again. It might not seem fair, but she has already crossed the line. Maybe she made a mistake, and some would argue that she would deserve a second chance, but to me, your marriage is the most important thing. Maybe you can just chalk this up to inexperience, and go out and find someone new! I hope everything works out! Best, SARA
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