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  • Birthday 01/10/1968

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  1. M&E how did you work it out? Are you small in that area so you were a good fit? Did you just not go all the way in? Did you go all the way in and she just put up with the pain of you hitting her cervix? Or was she deeper then you thought and she opened up when she got more turned on. Which from what I understand happens.
  2. When my wife and I were in the lifestyle we had the opportunity to be with two separate couples where the guy had a small penis and the girl had a shallow vagina. I didn't really understand it at the time and thought it was because she was used to his small dick and that is why I was having problems with them. I have recently read about woman with shallow vaginas and that is how some woman are and it is important for them to find guys that have small dicks so they fit them. Also it is important for woman with deeper vaginas to find a bigger guy to be with. Also an average girl to be with an average guy. My thought is it is hard enough finding a mate you get along with socially but you also have to worry about fitting sexually. More of a reason to have sex before marriage. Has anyone else had a problem with a shallow vagina? Or do you have a shallow vagina? Also why would a woman that has that want to try to be with another guy that might have a bigger dick that would hurt them? Interested to see what people think.
  3. Thanks for the great responses so far. I am glad that others feel the same way I do.
  4. I was wondering if it bothers anyone else when a couple or single will post on a site and their post looks like it was written by a 7 year old. Not using proper grammar. Run on sentences that make absolutely no sense. Also having misspelled words. I think this shows a certain lack of intelligence that I would not want to deal with. Not trying to sound like a snob and I don't mean to offend anyone.
  5. Have you heard anything from the couple you were telling me about that was on the chat telling lies about your meeting with them?

  6. Congratulations on getting through what might end up being a milestone in your relationship and how you look at swinging. It is always refreshing and less frustrating to realize you need to look at situations differently and keep a open mind to change some. I think the more time spent in the lifestyle allows us to be more educated and mature about the whole thing. Good for you both.
  7. mntoklahoma

    Whatever it Takes!!!

    CXXC Thanks for your reply...have a good holiday.
  8. mntoklahoma

    Whatever it Takes!!!

    I go to the gym 6-7 days a week. This week happened to be 7 days. I like going to the gym to stay in shape for several diffrent reasons in my life. One of the things I love about the gym is the eye candy. Now if a great looking lady walks by while I am on the treadmil I will look and enjoy but I am not going to get off the treadmill to get a better look. Ofcourse it is not just in the gym...it is also when I go out shopping that I enjoy the show. So the gym for me is a place to workout and I would refer to myself as being a gym rat and I notice that most go to workout but there are the ladies that go to pick up guys still. But like it has been said...whatever works for you too stay motivated.
  9. Alura....Disregard I just noticed that you are a widower...so I take it that means you are single.

  10. Mike is 43 and tammy is 42. We had been in the lifestyle for about 7yrs starting in texas and then moving to Virginia. Due to a move to oklahoma and having kids we have not been active for about 8yrs. Looking around to see what is out there but have not seen much going on in Oklahoma yet. We have been married for 20yrs.
  11. Alura...I have read some of your responses on the message board and you seem very smart and inciteful. We are in the oklahoma city area and would like to talk another fairly close and local couple.

  12. All Thanks for the great replys. I know with some people sex and love are hard to keep seperated. I look at swinging as kind of a cool hobby. Kind of like playing a very fun board game. As long as things do get complicated with emotion and couples being selfish then it can be fun. One of our main rules when we were swinging was not to be exclusive with any couple even though we talked to some that wanted that.
  13. That is awesome. I would love to experience that as long as precausions are taken and in place. But I am sure you know that she is having a good time when she squirts. What tends to make her squirt more? External or internal interaction? So either oral or intercourse?
  14. Hello all Was wondering if anyone has swung with a couple where the female was a squirter. My wife is a occasional gusher but the woman half of a couple we had several interactions with was definitely a squirter. Whether is was oral or intercourse this woman would squirt all over me. It was really cool and I enjoyed it quite a bit. Just wondering how common it is.
  15. Good rule...keeps you out of trouble and saves on heart ache
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