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  • Birthday 04/09/1956

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  1. I tried it twice. Mr OCC did it once. Neither of us felt right about it. It just wasn't as much fun as being together when we played. So we stopped it and only play together.
  2. You should do whatever makes you both comfortable. In our case cuddling is part of sex. When we have a MFM, we will all fuck like crazy and when we are all spent, we all three will lay there on the bed. I will cuddle with mr OCC and then cuddle with the other guy. It doesn't take a real long time before the cuddling will start getting them hard again. And then it is off to the races. When we really are all too tired to fuck anymore, I will still cuddle with the guys. It's just a part of what works for us. But every couple is different. Every person is different. That seems to be the hard thing in this lifestyle. What's right for one person isn't always right for the other one and that can create trouble as a couple.
  3. Shared experience for us too so almost always same room. It's all about the visual and auditory experience watching each other cum with someone else. We have occasionally done separate rooms but the experience is never the same as same room.
  4. Only occasionally for us and usually in group situations with DP. On its own one on one, its not my thing.
  5. Cum on me wherever you want. I like it inside me most but the whole act of cumming is the turn on wherever it is.
  6. Great movie called Quartet. One of the characters, 70's, is hitting on a younger woman. His comment is she s missing out on some "seasoned wood". I thought it was a perfect comment. With age comes experience and patience, and a lot of fun.
  7. I also buy from Canadian pharmacy .com. Generic Viagra. 100 mg which I cut in half. It is plenty and just helps to avoid any nerve issues. Usually when we are in a group situation where things can get a little intimidating.
  8. I have sucked and been sucked and enjoyed both. In the moment when it's lots of body parts and the sexual intensity is exploding around me, whatever feels good is good. So long as no one is feeling forced into it.
  9. Seems like we are usually one and done now. But we do have some regulars when the sex is really good. One of these has turned in to really good friends. The other regulars are just fun fuck buddies.
  10. We keep our choices only between other life style friends. Family isn't worth the risk. Same for vanilla friends.
  11. We agree with SwingerSet above. Really, nothing is off limits for us except the obvious ones like water sports, pain, underage, etc. anal is okay. Bareback is okay sometimes depending on who we are with. On that one we do discuss it first. But kissing, licking, cuddling, touching, and on and on is what makes sex fun so we don't limit ourselves on any of that. Even if we tried I'm not sure we could because all of the intimate stuff is what just happens naturally for us when we start to play. We would have to concentrate so hard on remembering not to do something, that we wouldn't have fun actually doing.
  12. Mr occ here. Mrs occ likes group play. Couples but also gang bangs. I have found that once you really dive into group action touching other guys just happens due to proximity. Once I got over the initial "omg I'm touching another guy" thing, then it became a turn-on. So now, if everyone is comfortable with it, bi play just becomes part of the fun. Whether it's just touching or full on blowjobs or more. Just find your comfort level and then let go.
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