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About Lundy

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  • Birthday 09/22/1963

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    California
  • Interests
    Camping
  • Swinging Experience
    4 Months
  • Anniversary
    06/11/1988

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  • SLS Name
    Used2BVanilla
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Red Rooster

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  1. Yes there is a group out of the Southwest area of the US. They are called Southwest Swingers, four times a year they put on RV events. Anywhere from 40 -100 rigs will show up for fun and play. We have been a member for the last four years. They setup a variety of tents and things for more adventures group play. They also go by Play Pals, they have a presence on both SLS and Kasidie. Take a look, it might be just what you are looking for.
  2. We went to Colletes last summer during Naughty-Nawlins. It was fun, loved playing in the Library room. We were staying on Canal Street which was just around the corner.
  3. We are definitely looking to play with new people, as many as possible. LOL I'm sure we are going to Club Collette at least one night, have heard great things about that club. Are you on any other site besides this one? We are on Kasidie and SLS under Used2Bvanilla.
  4. We are going, never been before so can't help with information. We have a group of four couples that all play together that are going with us. We can't wait, should be a blow out.
  5. I don't know how practical it is because we have never done it, but the wife wants us to try this really bad. Don't know if I'm ready for that yet.
  6. We live in SD and can help a little, San Diego is limited in the LS club area. We have been to Crave a few times, we stopped going because it was trying to be a dance club more than a sex club. The music was too loud to communicate with people, it had limited areas where you could sit and get to know couples. The sex takes place up stairs, they have small rooms separated by curtains and a small group area. The sex area is similar to other clubs and is OK, nothing special. To be honest we haven't been for about a year. The other Club in SD is Thads, it is one of the original clubs in the US. They have been open for 30+ years. It is very heavy on single males, good if that is what you are looking for, not so good if you are looking to meet couples. This place is a very sexually charged environment, lots of gangbangs/group stuff. We do like the play areas, lots of private room and a good couples only area up stairs, plus they have a very sexy outdoor patio that has some interesting rooms with windows to Voyuer. The problem we have had there is they don't police the couples only area very well and at times too many single guys can get up there and be pushy, not what we are into. We do go there on a fairly regular schedule as it is the best option for us to get away from the house to play. I believe the other club in your message is suppose to be Passion Palace, it was closed by the city a year ago. too bad because it was the best. FYI- The day you are going to be in SD there is a larger house/community party called Ultra Violet Events, we have not been but have heard good things about this group. They are on this site.
  7. That is how we started, stayed that way for about a year. Then we meet a cool couple and had some soft swap experiences, it was a lot of fun. We then went full swap and have not looked back.
  8. Hello bristol65 - You story is an exact copy of our story so I won't repeat what you wrote. I can speak to the club topic, we live in San Diego and have visited every club here in SD and a few in LA including FA which is close to you. We were looking for a club that we felt comfortable in as we were in our mid forties aging bodies and the wife didn't want to compete with the 20-30 somethings. We went to Red Rooster in Vegas and it became our second home. lol. You will see every walk of life there having great sexual experiences. The age of the participates leans towards an older group, but all ages are present. Every club appeals to different people, but judging by what you have wrote I think you will feel comfortable at the RR. Our next favorite is Freedom Acres in Devore. They have a good website you can visit, it can be a younger crowd than RR , but we feel comfortable there and you sound a lot like us. We are on SLS and Kasidie by the name Used2BVanilla. If you want more , feel free to contact us.
  9. We were recently contacted by a couple on Kasidie, and we exchanged some simple getting to know each other type emails. Nothing sexual in nature or reveling in any way. As the communication progressed we got the chance to see pictures and it turns out the wife knows the female half of the couple. She is actually very close to out 24 year old daughter, in fact my wife and daughter often attend vanilla gatherings together. This has completely freaked out my wife. She is so upset that somebody so close to our daughter and her may now know she is in the LS. She blamed me for not being more careful and is now questioning the LS all together. I need some advice from anybody that has had a similar incident. What did you do to help her? What advice can you share with me? Help!!!!!
  10. AlwaysLrning - We went to RR for the first time in December of 2011. Since then we have been back at least 10 nights in 2012 and were there the last weekend of March. We have a trip planned for Memorial weekend. In fact we have been there so much that the bartenders know us by name. LOL Our first trip we were very nervous and just played with ourselves in the couples area. We soon got very comfortable and even played in the group room in front of other people. What made us feel so comfortable were the people who volunteer to help run the place. From the first trip they made us feel as if we belonged. We have been to other clubs, Freedom Acres, Passion Palce, and Crave. FA is a close second, but none of them makes us feel as comfortable. Like most clubs you will see people from all social and economic groups. Usually there is a good amount of out of town visitors, after all it is Vegas. Everybody is there for the same reason, great sex. We meet a local couple and they have become close friends and great FWB. We have met and played with some greet people at the RR. If you want our full write up that we completed after our first visit you can search for posts made by Lundy. By the way we live in El Cajon. We go by the username Used2BVanilla on both SLS and Kaside. If your interested send us an email and we can get to know each other better. PS We have been there on everyday except wed. Fri/Sat the best.
  11. We have been to clubs 13 times over the last year. I know that because this last weekend was our one year anniversary in the lifestyle and just for fun we counted them. We have only hooked up 3 out of 13, twice we were picked up and once we made the contact. So it doesn't happen as often as one might think. Sometimes we get frustrated when it dosen't happen, but we are inexperienced at the social game. We are working on it.
  12. We are fairly new to the Lifestyle (10 months) and are really struggling over the issue of posting pictures on the two sites we belong to, Kasidie and SLS. Both of us are in Education at large public High Schools in roles that are in contact with a large number of people. We are fearful that becoming outed would cause us considerable stress in our work environment, to the point of being laid off or having to quit. I know this sounds paranoid, but it is real to us. We both feel we are not getting contacts through our profiles because we don't have pictures on the site. I guess I am looking for advice from people who have a similar concern and some help on what we should do about this. We are having the best time of our marriage and the sex has been awesome since starting. We are experiencing exactly what everyone says about how the lifestyle can bring your marriage closer with more communication and openness so stopping is not an option,
  13. My wife and I have often thought how fun it would be to have a camping/swinging group. We live in Calif and I cannot find any groups as of yet that do both. We are hoping to meet a couple that we become playmates with that like to do both. If anyone has any suggestions about how to find a group I'am all ears.
  14. I coach a lot of youth and High School sports, I have often thought that swinging with the parents would be a bad idea. Just might put me in a bad spot potentially.
  15. I can't speak to what to wear to the club as we haven't been to one yet, but your situation is identical to my wife and I. We have been married for 20 years and have been fantasizing about swinging for a few years now and have decided to act. We are going to the Red Rooster in December and plan to only play with each other and see where it goes. We are nervous but very excited. We believe this is the best way to dip our toes in. Both of us have spent many hours on this site doing research, so I think we are prepared. 26 days to go before the trip. can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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