OH513couple

Thanks. Your response has mirrored our conversations. We're not discouraged, just losing some of the enthusiasm due to effort to meet and then results.

We have been active as a couple since November. We have met and played with about half a dozen couples since then. While the pre-play lead up, initial touching and foreplay, and actual sex is fun, we're finding it's not as satisfying or gratifying as when we play alone. This includes hotel play, hosting, and clubs. Is this normal? We realize the thrill of a new partner adds a charge to the scenario, but both of us has come away agreeing that it's not fulfilling. Has anyone else experienced this? We are beginning to think that this is good as a diversion/charge to our sex life. However, if there's not a better outcome, we've discussed curtailing our swinging playtime.

We've chatted about adding a male or couple for a few months now. She's played with a during sex for DP or vag/oral for probably 6-8months, and it has generated some discussions.