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lucky & unlucky

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About lucky & unlucky

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/14/1970

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Moosomin, SK
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I'm very comfortable with what my wife does or says. Where I get confused is she will talk about bringing a guy in to play with so we both can enjoy this. 30 min before we meet she says she can't do this. She can't have me in the room. So I go out to the wood shop and do some work. She comes out after telling me how good it was, and saying sorry she couldn't not go through with it.
  2. Oh I'm ok with her playing one on one. It is my wife that says its uncomfortable with me in the room when having a 3 some. She says it's not natural to have your husband watching.
  3. Hello all. I have a question. My wife and I have started swinging. We have had one couple, not so good. Wife's blood sugars dropped causing her to almost pass out. So we left and got her what she needed. We then had a MFM and that wasn't good. The guy could not get hard, which made the wife feel down on herself. We then had another MFM. This one was great, everything went well. Then with my work we don't have a lot of time to play. We both can play alone as long as we tell the other. Wife has played with 2 other guys. We got really busy in our lives and stopped. Well a year and a half went by and things are slowing down in life for us. Wife has this one guy just joking and teasing the wife about playing. I told her that sounds like fun. The guy even said about a 3 some. The wife comes back yesterday and tells me that she doesn't feel right about this. She then goes on to say that she is not comfortable with me in the room, she says it's not natural. She said she didn't know how to tell me after the first MFM or couple. I asked if she enjoys the one on one and she said yes, it more natural and comfortable. I was just wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
  4. Well i see every one thinks i am the bad person here(lucky) unlucky left out some information which i think every one here should hear. When we had our very first couple we were all enjoy the hot tube just like unlucky had said, but after being in the tub for almost 30 min, my blood sugars had dropped so much that i felt like passing out. My hubby and my play partner helped me out of the tub, i was given some candy to bring up my sugars. We sat out side for about 45 min and i told hubby to go back to the hot tub and enjoy the company. My play partner was sitting out side talking to me making sure i was all right, well things started to happen and we were busy playing and it lead to some great fun. We then took a break from the ls has we had our 3rd child and we came back to the ls 2 yrs later. We met a couple and thought things would work out. All i asked my hubby was to keep any texting and chatting very calm and no picture swapping. He told me he would not do any of that and he wanted it to work. One day about a month after we had met them that i had found about 5 naked pictures of her. I asked hubby about it and he got mad and sad you don't trust me, and we had joined a sex site to have fun not to wait around. I removed all my sites and ended it, till about 3 months ago, when i created a new profile on a site. I have met a play partner, and told hubby to find one for him self as I told him that i am not sure if I want to do a 3 some as the last one we had tried made me feel very uncomfortable, It all ways made me feel like i was being watched and that i had to focus on trying to play with two people and making them happy. I have tried telling unlucky that i feel very uncomfortable about it and would only like to play with one at a time. I thought i would explain.
  5. I would like to thank every one that commented. I think i will just as fuck the life style and swinging and let her have what she wants and I will go to the garage and play with my wood working tools, and build some things. Who knows maybe I will come across a used viper for sale in the auto traders.
  6. I am 6 feet and 290 lbs she is 5.10 and a she is some what lighter then me buy a 30/50 lbs. The lucky one gets a little bit jealous when i chat to women or even think of playing. When we had our first couple every thing was going great till we put the rubbers on, as soon as i put on my condom, her and her partner left the hot tub and went out side and started to play. When all of us were done she had no problem being around again. Her thinking is if i play with some one other then her she thinks i will find some one better then her, and leave her. Well that is not gonna happen. I think this is why she has so many excuses when i ask about a three some or if we can find a couple.
  7. hello all this is the mister(unlucky). We have been in the LS for 6 yrs. We have had the pleasure of one couple and one MMF . This is were i need the advice. The mrs(lucky) as her own profile on different adult sites and she gets allot of winks and chats, Our couples profile gets maybe three views in about three weeks, so nothing big. I have come to the point that maybe we just aren't what people want. Lucky has been that very lucky. I have brought up numerous times that I would like to watch her play or even take part. The answer i get is t hat people dont want to big people to play with, or if i talk to my play mate they might not like the idea, and then we loose out. Then she will say the we will find some one soon. I have found couples on different sites that we get talking and we go out for coffee to see how things go. Well when we come home after coffee i ask the wife what she thought and i get told there was no connection, so once more we get nothing. I then ask if we can have a 3 some , i get told that she dose not feel comfortable having a three some as one person will be left out. I love my wife a lot and thought the ls would be fun, but i am the one watching tv when she gose out to play. I dont want her to stop. I just want to watch her get played with.
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