My girlfriend and I were curious about swinging for some time, and even went to one on-premises club while on vacation, had a lot of fun there. Now we were thinking of possibly doing it some more, but here's our (mostly mine actually) hangup:
Most faq's about swinging keep at length about how you meet other couples, how you get friendly with them, share common interests, etc etc. I have no desire of such things. I feel that swinging with someone we know and friendly with can provoke jealousy, and we have enough friends. I just want to go to a club, find an attractive couple who likes us, have some great sex, and I'm not even interested to know what their names are. I realize that may sound offensive and objectifying to some, but that's part of the turn on. Plus I would be happy if another couple would feel the same way about us (just a couple of hot bodies).
Is it realistic to find play partners with a mindset like this, or are most people going to be offended by it?