pinklady36

............... DP's are one of my favorite swinging activities! I have done many things with hubby and toys at the same time. A few months ago I made a fantasy come true by experiencing my first vaginal/anal DP with my hubby and the hubby of another couple. Waa Hoo! What a treat! We have since found a wonderful single male that is in to it as much as we are and he has been great. As far as men being homophobic about the physical contact with another male, I agree with what others have posted so far. The men really want to please the ladies! All we have to do is show an interest! ~Mrs. Pink

What a great topic! Personally, I like to kiss........a lot. Like so many others have mentioned, I can't imagine sex without it! Have experienced many different kinds though. The results have been about 50/50. Must say the hubby is by far the best kisser I know. He taught me a lot about patience and technique.....what a guy! Here's to kissing!

We love the outdoors. Have done it many times, in many different places. The most risky was when we were playing mini golf at a local amusement park. There weren't many people on the course. The closest person was several holes behind us. You know how some of them have fake "mountains" or rock structures that you have to walk into to golf? Well we took advantage of the location and managed to work in a quickie without anyone (to our knowledge) noticing. Was very lovely. A tremendous turn-on for us both. That was a few years ago. Our most favorite outdoor location now is in our own backyard. In or around our pool. Rarely wear clothes out there. Just high heels. Makes for the best outdoor sex of all!!!!

Mr Pink wears the ever sexy boxer brief. Yummy......makes it all look real nice. Hugs in all the right places and are not too confining. On occasion, like if we are going out to play, he will go commando. I wear thongs. Have some in a jersey cotton fabric and have some that are all lace. Love them. Make me feel very womanly and sexy. Sometimes I go commando. Depends on the outfit and how exhibitionist I am feeling. Will do it with a short skirt.

The fleshier the better I say! I am of the fleshy variety and my hubby loves it. He is always telling me how pretty it is. Like a flower and very feminine. I have to agree than cleanliness is the key. However a little musky is nice too. Depends on the girl I guess.

Sure, a slip up is a possibility, no matter what...but there is a difference between a slip up and blackmail. If blackmail is a fear for you, then you should choose your partners in a more cautious manner. The comment about slip ups and co-workers is that in todays society, the very credible possibility of a co-worker that you have mixed it up with saying something inadvertantly to the wrong person (in this case, anyone else they might talk to at work is the wrong person), can cause detrimental harm to ones career and well-being. Those of us in the lifestyle know that there is a certain amount of trust established with another couple prior to the all-enveloping sharing of minds, bodies, and personal information. Keep these thoughts in mind prior to engaging in extra-curricular, extra societal activities with a co-worker.

Our first experience was with one of my coworkers and his wife. He and I were peers. It went well and we had several heated encounters, every weekend, for about two months. This was over a year ago. We were both promoted within that year. We are still friends. And we never talk about our experience from that time period. We were adults about it and left the bedroom talk out of the boardroom. I will never tell anyone about it and I am sure he will never do the same. I was fortunate. Would I ever do this again? NO Do I recommend this to anyone? NO Keep it separate.

But now I absolutely love it! I am the one to tell the hubby that the collection is getting stale and we need to make a new purchase! I found my way with the soft core stuff first.........and my hubby was the best. He was very patient with me.