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IEcouple last won the day on February 19 2014

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About IEcouple

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  • Birthday 07/07/1976

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  • Kasidie Username
    sensualinIE
  1. Don't mention it ahead of time, unless a woman actually asks. But that's very rare. Reasons not to advertise it: - many women aren't impressed by it and will be turned-off because you bragged about it. - many women have had bad experiences with big dicks, so they'll avoid you, even though it was probably an inconsiderate partner that caused the bad experience. - most women strongly agree that how you use it is more important, do focus on that and let your size be a bonus. - and maybe most importantly, you shouldn't have to brag about it. The women who enjoy big dicks talk about it. A lot. If you're good at using it, word will spread and your reputation will precede you, which can only help you.
  2. In addition to what the others said, think about how disrespectful it is for your husband to insist that you try ANYTHING that you feel uncomfortable doing. If he feels he's "earned it" somehow because of the MFM threesome, then the two of you need to stop swinging completely and get your marriage back on track. That kind of resentment can manifest itself in many ways and destroy your relationship. It's possible that he had good intentions and was just emotionally stupid the way men often can be. Maybe someday you'll be comfortable with a MFM, or a MFF, or both. But he needs to see that he's hurting you and regain your trust on this before it can get better.
  3. Just an FYI to some of the commenters: hitting a woman's cervix is not a matter of how long a penis or dildo is. The cervix is not at the end of the vagina, but on the "top" inside at a right angle. Most women can reach theirs with their own fingers, so it's not a matter of deep penetration. The cervix is pretty sensitive and can be bumped at certain angles by an average-sized penis. When penetration goes too deep and hard, what is actually being hit is the fornix, which is the "dead end" at the back of the vagina. Some women do like getting their fornix bumped ("bottoming out," so to speak), but most find it uncomfortable at best.
  4. Completely agree with this. I don't really care if people dislike me because of lifestyle choices. It's the judgement, gossip, and misinformation that I just don't want to have to deal with. Sex is the issue that people most want to judge others about. And when it's something outside their experience, people project their own values and fill in the blanks with whatever they can think of to make themselves feel superior. Dealing with such people is just not worth my time or effort.
  5. It does nothing for me, like someone is playing with my belly button. It isn't a turn-off exactly, but it quickly becomes a distraction. There were a couple years in college when it seemed like half the women I slept with started in with anal stimulation and acted very confident that it would blow my mind. It was as if they all read the same Cosmo article. And then they acted indignant when it didn't work. I took it as a lesson: never assume that what worked for your last partner will work for the next one.
  6. I would go even further. Tell him that you resent him for even letting you know that he's cheated on his wife at all. That's a terrible situation to inflict on someone that you consider to be a friend.
  7. I would seriously consider breaking up with this guy. Forget about swinging with him completely. You can't waste your time - or heart - with someone who's going to shame you for his own insecurities. And even if you laid this out for him and he said he understood what his problem was, that still wouldn't mean it would stop. He's showing a tremendous amount of disrespect and distrust toward you by acting this way. I can't imagine that swinging is the only context in which he does it either.
  8. The main reason I haven't bought one is because it seems like it would be a big hassle to clean.
  9. That's probably because breast enlargement is pretty easy to do. If enlarging a man's penis were that easy, then it would be a VERY common procedure.
  10. I wouldn't assume that's the case if the profile has another option to state whether they use condoms or not. The couple (or single guy) may WANT to forgo condoms, but it shouldn't be implied by anyone. In fairness, there are many couples out there who probably look for v-safe guys because they're looking to play bare too.
  11. Kasidie absorbed the local site we used to be on, unfortunately. We let our free trial run out because we weren't impressed. I've bitched about Kasidie on other threads, so I won't repeat myself.
  12. It wasn't my intention to brush it off as "no big deal". What I meant was that there are risks, and that acting like herpes is a catastrophe is counterproductive.
  13. In that case you should be more worried about getting a cold from the person you were French kissing than getting herpes. Seriously, I don't know how you square that with swinging!
  14. Keep in mind that genital herpes outbreaks tend to become less frequent and milder as time goes on, so it's easy to not know when it's happening if you've never been diagnosed. Anecdotally, many people who know they have herpes are very good at recognizing an outbreak, even mild ones. There are many people who have never given herpes to their spouse, even over many years. On the other hand, herpes viruses can be shed between outbreaks and no one would know it was happening. These things all sound really scary, but in fact having herpes is a fairly benign condition. The vast majority of people live with it every day without any major health consequences. There are far more people who are greatly inconvenienced (and made ill) by diabetes, rosacea, psoriasis, and other illnesses. But since none of these is contracted through sex, it doesn't freak people out as much.
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