We have been married 13 years, have been interested in exploring the lifestyle for a while now. The Mrs. has had the pleasure of playing some with another lady on vacation a few years back, but there hasn't been anything other than some flirting since.
This weekend makes our third party with a VERY large group (300-500 person parties), we have met a few really nice couples and have flirted and had some laughs, but it seems to us nobody is really taking much of an interest in us. While I admit, we aren't the super outgoing types and we also aren't the kind of folks who are total wallflowers. We will dance, chat, and generally have a good time with whoever we meet. We are a little chubby, but are both attractive and even receive nice compliments from other couples on our appearance.
We just don't understand what is going on...