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  1. Damn right I had sex in high school! I thought everybody did...
  2. I agree and disagree. If your wife is having sex without you there, without your knowledge or consent....that is cheating. Having an open relationship that is ok with both husband and wife....not cheating.
  3. ^ This ^ This happened over the weekend. It's been fucking with me ever since. There was a good bit of alcohol involved. I am ok about it, what has fucked with me the most is wondering how my wife viewed it. We have talked about it a good bit this morning and I feel much better now. We are in this lifestyle so that we can experience new things. From these experiences we have learned a lot about ourselves. We don't have a lot of rules anymore. We pretty much just do what feels right in each situation. I am 45 years old, so I fit into the situation the OP asked about. But, I do not consider myself to be bi. I really agree with the description above. It pretty much depends on the situation. I do not fantasize about being with men. My fantasies are more centered around seeing my wife receive pleasure. Whether that is from a man or a woman. She has never considered herself bi and I argued that she must be because she plays with women too. Now I get it! I have been in that situation now and I finally get it.
  4. This ^ list looks like it was put together by my wife. All good but I could do without the Britney Spears.
  5. The on-premise clubs we have been to, both are $70 p/cpl byob. Lately we are going to a lifestyle friendly nudist resort. That is the best! $50 p/day p/couple. We rent an rv space for $30 p/day. So, after taxes, just under $180 for the weekend. We don't consider that to be too bad as we like to have a few drinks and don't have to worry about driving or getting a cab. And, the scenery isn't too bad either!
  6. One other thing I have noticed. It's good to have boundaries but they do sometimes get crossed. Especially if there is drinking going on. So, if that happens, don't beat yourself or your husband up too much. Consider it a learning experience and move on. Communicate with each other where you felt it went wrong and learn from that. Another thing, those boundaries become less and less as you gain experience. At least that is what has happened to us.
  7. That seems to happen a lot. We went to a playroom with a couple that we had hit it off very good with. All were attracted to each other. After we get in there, and are getting into playtime, another couple comes in and asks if they can watch. The other male tells them that is okay. Not one minute in, the male that was 'watching' has his hand in between both ladies legs. Not that big of a deal, but he never asked if it was ok. Then he moves in closer and tries to drop his cock into my wife's mouth. Didn't work out for the fella. He was compliant and went back to his wife. Things like that, if left unchecked, can ruin playtime. My wife told me later that she was not in the least turned on by the 'watching' couple and that the guy was even gross to her. Not trying to jack your thread. Just saying that things like that happen and if you don't stand your ground then boundaries get crossed and turns what could have been an awesome experience into a not so awesome experience.
  8. I never wear underwear to the club or house party. Less to deal with when it's time to get naked.
  9. I'm a little on the fence on this one. On one hand, it would make moving on easier simply by eliminating the self imposed responsibility to small talk just to not seem rude. I'm a nice guy, I can't help it. That's just how I am wired I guess. On the other hand, I'm not so sure 10 minutes is enough time. In a loud, busy club it can take a bit just to get settled down enough to start the conversation. If drinks are offered, one may have to stand in line for a bit to get those covered, etc... My wife and I spent way too much time talking to a couple one night just so we wouldn't come off as rude or whatever. My wife liked them but the other wife just rubbed me the wrong way (if it's possible to be rubbed the wrong way). The 10 minute rule would have come in very handy that night.
  10. Hmm, this really gets a person thinking. We have both done things that we regretted which led to a bumpy road for a day or two. But, our relationship is very strong and we talk it through, hug, kiss, make love and move on. As lousy as some of those regretful memories are, I would not trade them as those experiences got us to where we are today. We are learning more about each other all the time as a result. I read somewhere that you don't really know how you will react until you experience it first hand. I agree with that. So.....I would rather regret things we have done than be remorseful for things we never tried. Thanks for the awesome question Julie!
  11. I will make a point to tell the other male not to cum in my wife. It is my wife's preference. DigginIt, you are absolutely right. As soon as we (males) feel we have some type of control, it is only because she is letting us. haha
  12. People feel different. People move differently. Are shaped differently. Maybe it's easier for her to have harder, raunchier sex with someone that she isn't in love with. I don't know as you didn't provide exactly what 'differently' is. I think you may have touched on the issue at hand. Jealousy. Talk to her about your feelings. You should be able to voice your concerns to your wife without it becoming an argument. If not, slam on the brakes until you can!
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