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St. Augustine

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    St. Augustine, FL
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  1. Mike does not like using condoms, but we agreed that if we are connecting with a couple or a single for play, that he would use a condom in the beginning. Once the relationship became a long term thing then we would not be so strong minded about it. Condoms do not prevent pregnancy 100%, but I feel a little safer knowing that at least we did our part in trying to prevent it.... I can't imagine what it would be like to swing with another couple and have the female partner in her fertile stage and become pregnant... and us not knowing who the father would be....
  2. One thing that people tend to equate with either homosexuality or bisexuality in males is that they like to have anal sex. Not true, it hurts us as much as a virgin girl.....
  3. When we first registered on this Board we were at the talking stage. Reading and responding to a lot of posts and more talking between us. We went to a Swing Club during that beginning stage to see what it was all about. Mike and I played a bit in the pool with a single female, what is called Soft Swing stuff. Then a series of most unexpected events occurred and over this past year we haven't been to this Board or any Board. Haven't pursued the Lifestyle at all. Things have begun to turn around for both of us and getting better every day. Last weekend we went back to that Swing Club had a great time. We decided at the end of the downstairs party to rent a room and join the party above stairs. A couple joined us in our room and we experienced our first Swing! All I can say about it is that it was amazing. We have been making love a lot since then. We now consider ourselves involved. We have a date this coming Saturday with the couple we met and looking forward to it.
  4. Decided to put my 2 cents worth into this one! lol Mike is average size. I on the other hand am pretty small and tight in the vaginal area. I have never delivered a child naturally, both my children were c-section. I am fortunate the Mike is a very sensual lover. He knows how to use his average sized equipment in all the right ways and gives me maximum pleasure and orgasms. I sometimes think about if Mike are with another couple and the guy is well endowed that I'll freak and run from the room screaming. Cause as average sized as Mike is when he does deep penetration it hurts. All I can think of is what kind of pain will I feel if the guy is big! Do I have to have the guys get it hard and demonstrate to me how huge it is before we consent to being with the couple??? Cathy
  5. John As always you do raise some very thought provocative questions. This is my 1st day back here in almost a year... been going through some rough times here, but things are straightening out now... so we're back to share and openly respond. Well, all I can say to respond to this question is to share our first couple experience with all of you. Last Saturday, Mike and I went to a Swing Club in Jacksonville.. is was an amazing experience. At the end of the party we decided to rent a room and spend the night there and join the party that happens after hours. A really nice couple joined us in our room and I had my first experience with making love to and being made love to by a woman. Her husband wanted to play with Mike and he consented. As I had the pleasure of his wife going down on me, I watched as Mike gave her husband oral sex. Then watched as her husband gave Mike oral sex. I have to be really honest here and admit to all of you that it was a major turn-on for me to watch this as I was being pleasured. I had never thought that I would feel this way. There were no feelings of homosexuality there at all. This was all about sexual experiences you have secret thoughts and desires about and actually giving in to them. It was a truly amazing night for both of us and our lovemaking has been pretty hot and intense since. We had exchanged phone numbers with this couple and spoke to them last night and we are getting together at their house this next weekend. I have no idea what to expect from this evening, but Mike and I have talked it over and we have come up with signals, that if either of us are uncomfortable in any way to let the other person know. Having actually experienced this, I can honestly say that there was nothing at all disgusting about it. It was just about a sensual experience we shared with each other and another couple. I will not hesitate to be involved in another couple experience again and Mike feels the same. When we discussed joining the Lifestyle, Mike was very strong in stating that having sexual encounters with a woman for a 3some was fine, but he wasn't sure about couples or a 3some with another man. He no longer feels this way. He enjoyed the experience and is willing to experience it again. Cathy
  6. Anal sex is one of those things that unless the mood in right and the feeling is just right it is not a great experience or an enjoyable one. Mike and I don't use anal sex very often. He usually leaves it up to me. If I am in the right mood and really turned on it is a great and enjoyable experience.
  7. My only suggestion is to try different things and find that magical combination that sends him. Mike was never into blow jobs before. I have tried different things with him and found what works for him.. All I can say is he got off and got off like hell! He now asks for blow jobs now... not all the time.. something we save for special moments and special times.
  8. Mike and I met online... then met in real time and have been together ever since... sometimes you never know where you will meet that special someone that makes your life feel complete.
  9. Does your wife know about the girlfriend???
  10. LOL, I feel the same way... once I come to an understanding or a decision I become inpatient with waiting for it to happen!!!!
  11. Yeah, but at least you realize it before you hit 45 like me! So the chances are high that you won't be my age awaiting the right opportunity lol. I recently went to an off-premise club with Mike and played in the pool with 2 other women at the same time. The playing was --legal activities-- but I made out with 2 women, touched them, fingered them and got the same in return. I enjoyed myself immensely and I am looking forward to being able to go further in exploring this awakening side of my sexuality.
  12. (cathy) I voted for black... all I can say is I love the feel of black silk or satin against my naked flesh...
  13. (Cathy) I hear you... I was uptight for years... afraid to masturbate and afraid of my own nudity because of the preachings of the Catholic churches and having been educated in catholic schools. It took a special man to bring me out and open myself to pleasure. That having pleasure with your own body or with someone else's is not a mortal sin and will not damn you to the eternal fires of hell. Since I have learned this acceptance about being bi and sexually attracted to women as well as men this has opened up a whole new sensual side of me. I must admit that sex is far more hot and pleasurable than ever before. Glad to know there are other women out there with similar experiences.
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