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hasema

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About hasema

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 10/22/1967

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Mississippi
  1. I want to thank every one for their advice. My wife and I do have a good line of communication and I will share this with her. There was some good advice from both sides and some stuff we can use. In the end it is something that we have to work out but I feel confident that we will be able to do so.
  2. I think the biggest reason I want to play only as a couple is because that is something we used to have together and don't any more. There for awhile I did a lot of playing but then was sent to a job in the middle of no where where I did no playing at all while she was fairly active. It was during this time that I started feeling jealous of her playing. Currently I am working a job where we can see each other every weekend, I have asked her about setting up dates, both MFMF and just a MFM with one of the guys that she's played with but we have not been able to for various reasons. No babysitter is the biggest reason, she doesn't like to ask her sister to watch him and doesn't trust anyone else. If I bring up that her sister watched the baby when she went out she replies that it was only for a few hours and that she was normally home by 10. I'm guess I'm just at the point where it bothers me that she wants to have the option to play solo but is not putting forth any effort (as I see it) to set it up where we can play together. We have talked and she agreed that we will not play separately but did so reluctantly. I asked her to give us a chance to play together some first and then we'll see if my feelings have changed.
  3. Hello. I am wanting some advice. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for a few years now and have had some great times. I have to travel and spend anywhere from three to six months at a time in different locations for work and she used to travel with me. During this time we played as a couple about 99% of the time with her playing separately on a few occasions which I found hot. Since then we have had a baby and she has settled in one area while I continue to travel. I need to point out that we normally only see each other about one weekend a month. We both played separately while apart and both enjoyed it. We never play without without the others knowledge. Here recently I have been wanting to only play as a couple, we have not played as a couple since she became pregnant and that is something I miss doing with her. My wife is not happy about it and wants to continue the separate play. Am I wrong to ask her to stop playing separately just because my feelings about it have changed?
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