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hardrockers70

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About hardrockers70

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  • Birthday 04/12/1972

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    Missouri
  1. Wow...there are a lot of us in the medical field! Ultra-cool! Mrs. HR
  2. I'm interested to see what professions/jobs everyone has when not swinging. I'm an RN, hubs is a truck driver. Everyone?
  3. My ex hubs and I had a very open marriage...we hosted tons of parties at our house where all sorts of kinky things happened. When we separated, I thought of myself as the proverbial "slut" although I loved playing with couples. As I was describing my lifestyle to a new friend, she said I wasn't a slut, but a single swinger. I decided I liked that term so much better, and it stuck. I did seek out couples mostly back then. It seemed that with couples, I was indeed a playmate...other singles always seemed to want more out of the relationship than I wanted at that time. Knowing now what I knew then, I knew as soon as I started dating current hubs that I wanted this LS for us as a couple. The rest is history! Mrs. HR
  4. One of the reasons I led Mr. HR into this LS was because I was very turned on at the thought of seeing him with other women. He wasn't so sure however, until our first playdate. We played some games and I dared him often to do things to other wifey, such as kiss her long and passionately, suck on her breasts, rub up against her, etc. As it turned out, Mr. HR was equally turned on, he says, by me watching. Our first playdate ended up not so great for me, because it was my time of the month, so other hubs had to do his own wife, which he didn't seem to mind of course, but I was so into watching Mr. HR I don't think I paid much attention. So now, of course, Mr. HR prefers we meet other couples as opposed to a SF, but I'm thinking maybe seeking out a few SF's because my ongoing fantasy is seeing him with others.
  5. Update: Other male texted me today and asked me if we would ever play again...I politely told him no. I very honestly said that I felt we didn't mesh well together and basically told him to move on. It was a learning experience, and other than our regs, we have to take a sabbatical for hubs' mother's health issues. Although, hubs said the other night that we shouldn't let this couple ruin other couples for us. I was really glad he said that, as I felt the same way basically; just knowing we are on the same page about it and all. I have shared with him what was advised here and other situations I've read about on here; I really like this forum! Mrs. HR
  6. Whoa. I don't know if I could do anything separately without all 4 people being on the same page about everything. I know if my hubs went to play separately away from me, I don't think I'd be too happy in any case. Maybe because I wouldn't know about what went on and what was said etc. I just want to see him, be an arm's length away from him, etc. It really turns me on watching him with other women, so separate play for us would be pointless. Maybe same room, full swap, with all 4 involved? Once everyone can be on the same page...and talking helps too...maybe tensions would ease? Just my opinion of course! Mrs. HR
  7. Alura: I like that reply. I have sent her an email telling her I can only afford a couple hundred bucks, she hasn't replied yet. I do feel sorry for them but like someone else said, I can't go broke myself and can't save the world either. Although, on the same token, I have had many friends who helped me out of tough spots too, whether it was a loan or just emotional support. I just don't want to do the wrong thing, you know? Thanks for all the feedback! Mrs. HR
  8. Okay. We have a couple we play with a lot, and they have had a run of financial problems lately. Other guy was laid off, had to take a minimum wage job, wife was in bad car accident and is waiting a disability decision, they have several kids etc. Recently, wife emails me and asks me for a loan. She insists she will pay it back in a month. Good idea or no? Jokingly, I told her they could be our sex slaves until she pays us back, but I have not yet decided what to do. We are friends with this couple both in and out of the bedroom. Am I playing with fire if I give her the loan? Mrs. HR
  9. LikeMinds: I updated to clarify that I was a single swinger in the past, that we were not into anal play or roughness. I wavered between me being listed as bi or bi-curious, but left it at bi. There was something else that I thought didn't quite sound right, but now I forget what it was... Anyway, thanks!
  10. Hey, we are "hardrockers" on SLS...I thought I did a pretty good job on our profile, but maybe it needs some additional touches...care to take a look-see?
  11. Yes, they were in our room. Today, earlier, I felt a stabbing pain in my cervix/pelvis and a big bloody chunk of something came out of me. I am going to have to make an emergency appt. with my GYN tomorrow, I think it may actually be a piece of cervical tissue. When he shoved his fingers in me, it felt like his nails were scraping my cervix. Now I'm worried that real damage may have been done. In all honesty, I think we will take a break from all this and re-evaluate everything...although we have both said we won't turn down a playdate with our regulars. Sigh. Mrs. HR
  12. Thank you everyone for responding. I talked to my hubby last night and cried too, saying everything I'd done was a bad choice, a terrible mistake. He consoled me and told me it was not all my fault, that he felt awkward and wasn't sure how to handle things either. We had a big heart to heart. Hubby says while he likes to get to know people prior to playing, he said this couple, even on the phone, caused him to feel uncomfortable. We will not make that mistake again. We are very comfortable with our regulars and hubby says we can continue with them but he will need time, and I think I will too, before meeting anyone new. Thanks again everyone! Mrs. HR
  13. I spent a lot of time on our profile at SLS, I am a writer by trade and went into extensive detail. We have had many views and a few hits, we started off with no pictures, but ended up putting a basic picture of us with our faces whited out. We added face pics to our private galleries and added invites to those we correspond with frequently. If you would like to check out our profile, we are "hardrockers" on SLS. Mrs. HR
  14. Always paying for everything on playdates From when I was a swinging single.
  15. Slevin: Thank you much for your insight! When I was swinging as a single, I enountered a similar situation and stood up for myself and left. It has been years since I was a single though, lol...and things may have changed a bit. Should I have said something like: "I don't appreciate your comments (about my size) and if all feelings are not taken into consideration, then this may be over" or something like that? Then, when I felt the least bit pressured should I have said: "We are not comfortable with this and feel like calling it a night" or something along those lines? Mrs. HR
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