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I just had my hormones checked two months ago and yep- peri-menopausal. I was put on bioidentical hormones - testosterone and sublingual progesterone and wow!!! It has been a total life changer. Stress was wreaking havoc on my body. I can't say enough praise for the complete 360. I am no longer depressed, anxious, tired, no PMS, libido is like when I was a teenager, fantasies are increased, sensitivity and lubrication massively increased. My husband said " your new pussy looks like a 21 year old!" which all in turn is driving him wild. So if anyone is experiencing peri-menopausal, see a bioidentical hormone doc and get checked. Most women get thrown on antidepressants and that isn't the cure!

I am pretty alarmed by your expression of making her have sex with men when she doesn't want to and your long exhausting attempts to talk her into it. Do you even care what she wants? This shouldn't be just about your wants, but about hers as well. You may not like how this ends.

They sound like they are awkward and trying to figure out what they want and are testing the waters. They may not be on the same page as a couple as she sounds like she is trying to find out what her own boundaries ate within her relationship with her husband. Very awkward and clumsy on their part. I wouldn't take offense though. If you are uncomfortable with certain things, let them know and if they don't cease that behavior, then they aren't respectful of you. If you enjoy your friendship, keep communication open and honest on your end and you can weather through friendship speed bumps.

It sounds like she is haning an affair in plain sight and doesn't care who gets hurt, as long as her desires and demands are met. This couple says the understand and respect that you need to stop to work on your marriage, and then they ask you to swap?! Something is terribly wrong with the three of them. They don't care about you or your feelings and boundaries. Your wife is placating you and is being very dishonest with you.

We tried double vaginal penetration and it was mind blowing! Hubby was on his back and I was on top of him, our friend came in from behind. I loved having two cocks in my pussy. It didn't take long till we had an explosive three person orgasm at the same time. I don't know if we could repeat that if we tried. It was the first time any of us ever experienced DP. We havent tried vaginal/anal yet, but we want to. Our friend now has a girlfriend and she isn't a lifestyle person, so the trusted playmate is gone for now. If we find someone we trust, would love to.

We wish you were in Arizona!!!

I truly wish you peace and happiness and hope that things resolve the way you wish them to be. Best of luck.

You keep saying you" think she would" or you "think she would dismiss it" with regards to several scenarios including counseling. What you need to do is stop trying to read her mind and directly communicate with her. My advice would be to ask her to go to counseling if you really want to try to save your marriage. She already distrusts you, if you bring up swinging, that will validate her beliefs that you want to have other women and destroy any chance you two may have. You have to have trust, honesty and solid communication before you could ever swing.

Hubby uses Viagra when we play for hours. I use it too! Great for women as well! Definitely makes him rock hard and even bigger. For me it gives me extra sensitivity and swells me up down there. We already have crazy fuck sessions and adding that, well, lookout, we go past the four hour mark!

She needs to cease contact with him immediately. She has broken established rules several times and has lied. Trust your instincts, as you know the tell tale signs of her lying. You and your relationship are the most important and until trust is regained, she has no business even talking to him. He is a distraction to fixing her bond with you. I personally don't know how I would regain that trust. It would be hard for me to put the deceit out of my mind.

Absolutely! We love reconnecting after our experiences. We go totally crazy on each other and the replay and fantasizing we do after charges us up into a frenzy. He woke me up at 4:30 this morning and we couldn't get our hands and bodies off each other till we finally finished at 9pm tonight! The closeness and bond just grows deeper. We have been on a wonderful journey together and it just keeps getting better.

You can try Lifestyle Lounge. There seems to be an abundance of couples looking for couples.

An absolute yes!! I get so turned on when my fiancé starts to stroke himself. I love when he sits back and enjoys the view and plays a bit with himself. I always motion him back over to get back in the action, but I know he loves taking it all in as a voyeur as well.

You aren't a prude and he should thank his lucky stars that he has you. He needs to respect your boundaries and if you never want to go further in the lifestyle, then that is where it ends. You should not feel bad about your own desires (or non desire for swinging). As mom to mom, you have a newborn, and that alone is life changing. You don't deserve the pressure over swinging. As a relatively new person in the LS, it takes constant open communication, trust in yourself and each other. Everything needs to be on the table and boundaries on both sides must be understood and respected. No hard feelings at all if one does not wish to do something or does not want a partner to do. I've taken baby steps and so has he, but we have done it together. Our bond is so strong now because of honesty and communication. You need to be able to talk about fears, desires and turn offs. Just keep talking for now.