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  1. Good one ViSexual. I hadn't seen or heard that one but I think it's the best yet. Thanks for remembering and sharing with us.
  2. How about "Swinging: Getting it, and getting better at it." "Swinging: Where everybody shares, and get's their fair share." "Swinging: I've got to admit it's getting better, it's getting better all the time" (I know Paul McCartney)
  3. Last summer, we went to a swingers friendly campground. In fact, we went back two more times. We met people we already knew and some new ones too. Swingerset has some good advice. We started every day with "our time" and although we were together throughout the day, we gave each other the freedom to go anywhere / do anything as long as we remained on the campgrounds. Of course, we always knew where each other was. We brought videos and games too. Say, Swingerset, We don't ski but I ice skate and the wife would like the hot tub, sauna. And we both would like the good times. Ya'll can laugh all you want, but it's freezing down here in Austin. We've been iced in for five days! ! !
  4. I forgot to include my complete agreement with padoc. I also wish we had discovered swinging when we were younger. That's two decades of fun we missed out on too!
  5. Intuition, I completely agree. I am perfectly willing to let others live and enjoy their life without any interference from me and I think it is very reasonable to expect the same in return. I don't push my values and beliefs on them and I expect them to not push theirs on me. However, cheating is dishonesty. If dishonesty were acceptable, why are there so many complaints about bad officiating in sports? Why do we prosecute thieves? Stealing money, cars, etc are things that for the most part can be replaced. Stealing the trust, respect and emotions of another person, especially one's spouse, is much more damaging and is not as easily replaced. It is unconscionable and reprehensible.
  6. I am like Mr. Intuition. I just let 'em talk. It doesn't bother me. They don't know what they are talking about. However, I do like to make comments about things just to get a reaction. For example, my wife and I are at a booth in a restaurant. We hear conversations going on all around. So when the waitress walks past us to a booth nearby, I will say to my wife "So your husband will be out of town for the whole weekend?" She will play along saying "Yeah, late Sunday night." I will say "You know I don't understand what you see in him. If you would just divorce him and take all his money, we could live a really good life." It's real entertainment watching out of the corner of our eyes to see the reactions of those around us. But what does make me be like Mrs. Intuition, is for some "do-gooder" to interject themselves into my life to tell me how much they are offended by say nudist beaches. Of course, they had to drive miles to get there, then hike a couple of miles or more just to actually get to the beach, pass several signs warning them of a nude beach ahead. Then the SOB is sooooo offended. My response to them is "What if I drive to your town, park in your church parking lot, enter your church and get offended b/c everyone is running around with their hands in the air and shouting? Would you like it if I called the authorities?" Of course, they would be protected by their Constitutional right of Freedom of Religion. Then, I tell them that I have equal protection to live my life as I see fit and as long as I am not causing any harm to anyone or anything, they should just leave me alone. In a recent event, my daughter and her two year old were in the mall. As two-year-olds do, she was getting out of hand so she got a light swat on her thick diaper. A man approached them saying they should not be hitting the child and threatening to report them to Child Protective Services. If I had been there, I would have asked him "Who invited you into our situation?" and given him an opportunity to leave. If he refused,I would tell him we can get mall security here by him continuing to harass us or him having to pick himself off the floor. His choice. Just don't tell me how to live my life and I won't tell you how to live yours. How does that go about checking for a splinter in my eye while you have a beam in your eye. Both of us are teachers, so we don't say anything about swinging to anyone except those we swing with.
  7. I prefer the lady to have shaved around her pussy lips and leave the rest as nature intended. Regardless, hairless, fully grown or somewhere in between, I have never met a pussy I didn't like. An exception would be one who's owner did not keep up with her hygiene and I haven't met that one yet. Hope I never will!
  8. The Mrs. has fibromyalgia and we got the hot tub for medical reasons. The warm water and jets relax her muscles so it is easier for her to get to sleep. She uses it almost every day and that is the main reason we bought a hot tub. However, being naked (house rules) in the hot tub with some close friends and a plastic cup of wine (I know Sluttywife that plastic is not proper etiquette for wine but it is much safer) is about as relaxing as one can get. It can and has led to some truly heated fun. As turnuptheheat says it's very simple to maintain. We keep our temperature setting at 101. Here in Austin, winters last about one day but it gets hot in July and August. It is really nice to get into the hot tub when it is cold outside (ours is just outside the door on the patio). We like to watch the stars and talk about anything and everything. Your body is so warm that you don't really feel any cold unless there is a good wind.
  9. Our first experience was full swap. Then we met a couple who were soft swing only (and still are to this very day). We had some good times with them and are still friends, but found we preferred full swap. Initially, the Mrs. preferred different rooms because she could not relax if she thought that I was watching her enjoy herself and partner. She thought I would be critiquing her. Instead, watching her was just very erotic for me. She now understands that and does not have a preference of same or different rooms. Also, we don't mind soft swinging with others as long as it will eventually lead to a full swap. As we all do, we remember what it was like for us as beginners and respect their limits. However, as a preference, we do look for others who prefer full swap. Just a final thought here. We really don't like the term "swap". It has a permanent conotation to it. We understand the history of the term and why it is still used, but we like the term "share" instead. Chickadiva, we certainly agree with you. We have had to wade our way through some real weirdos with more explanations than a lying teenager to meet the "real" friends we have as swingers. As you have found, the couples we have met have truly been worth the effort.
  10. We answered "lifestyle" for the same reasons that TNT mentioned. However, we have not planned any vacations around swinging. Those we consider to be our true friends and ones we can turn to are all swingers. They would come to our aid in a heartbeat. And like Spoonmonkey, we are taking advantage of our friends in a "swinging" way. But in the same light, aren't they taking advantage of us as well? Really, our swinger friends are much more sincere and we often do many things together and not play. However, it is really great to not have to censor what we say or do as we would have to in a vanilla crowd. That's our take on it and I only had two cents.....
  11. I have 7 inches which curves to my left and I am right-handed. I've had women tell me they prefer to have a curved penis as opposed to a straight penis as it was more likely to stimulate their clitoris. I've never had a female tell me that my curvature was in the least uncomfortable. That's just my experience. I think it is like a woman's vagina. Some are tight and others not. Some women do Kegels and some do not. Some have the clitoris located lower close to the vaginal opening and others have the clitoris located higher. And I can definitely understand how a male curvature would affect female pleasure and orgasm. We have no control over certain aspects of our bodies. However, I have never been with a vagina that I didn't like and I always find a way to please my partner. As follows, every woman has a preference for the kind of penis that pleases her most and she is entitled to that. Nothing personal to me. It's just me, but I like to gratify my partner first ! I don't seek a simultaneous orgasm. If it happens, it happens. However, my objective is total fulfillment of both parties.
  12. My score was only 535. Wow some of you must be really kinky !!!! I discovered I have really been having some fun. It seemed so natural at the time !!!!! But I also found out "Damn, I've been missing out alot, too!!" Lorrie said it best. Whatever floats your boat. Numbers add up to nothing but this is all in fun, tongue in cheek? Or maybe tongue somewhere else? Whatever is someone's kink, it is likely someone else's fantasy. So let's all enjoy our kink and if that is not possible, if only for now, at least enjoy your fantasy. But I think some of you out there will try to have your kink and eat it too !!!! I am D, she is A
  13. The first limit we established was that "we do everything together". We might share with others in separate rooms if that is their preference(it happens to be my wife's preference too). Everything we are to others, we are as a couple. We are accepted as a couple and we accept them for the same. We will have nothing to do with couples who would want to play with only one or the other of us or be friends with one and not the other. We respect them though if that is something they are comfortable with but swinging separately is just not within our limits. Throughout the contacting, meeting, getting to know you and playing phases, we always commuicate. "What do you think about this couple? What did you do that was fun or different?" In fact, we tell others that they can be assured that we will defintely talk about them (between ourselves only) and that we EXPECT them to talk about us in the same way. We encourage the communication that way as well as telling them that we always communicate. D
  14. Frenzb4sex, we completely agree with your comments. And following up on your idea, swinger amusement parks would be great. Just think of the marketing promotions.....Doggie Days.....Wet 'n Wild Weekends.....Double O (Oral/Orgy) Week.....Missionary Sundays.....Double Date Tuesdays.....Triple Play Thursdays..... Wow, what a summer that would be!!!!! We also agree with Vjk. There is more than enough fantasy out there. However, our occupations would be in grave jeopardy if our participation were made known. We know we are among the enlightened, but few in mainstream America are so enlightened. That is the mystique for us. Brit_Pair. Faded frisson would be unbearable and totally unacceptable!!!!!
  15. We have been swinging for about a year now. However, swinging has made our relationship much stronger. As I stated in our Introduction thread, swinging has enabled us to talk more openly and on a much broader and deeper basis than ever before. To be sure, we have had disagreements even arguments regarding other couples we have met. But when we would discuss the situation, we realized that the problems were about limits. The other couple's limits would permit something we were not ready to allow at the time or maybe never. After evaluation, we determined that we were going to be true to the limits we have set for ourselves and are comfortable with and not let others sway us just for the sake of swinging with them. Every one of our disagreements have been about this. That may be the root of the problems of couples with a weak relationship. Besides poor communication, one party transgresses the agreed limits. If one could so easily transgress a set of agreed limits, they could also easily transgress the marriage or relationship and may have done so depending upon the transgression. An insecure relationship is easy to spot when talking to both individuals on the phone. That's why we insist talking to both parties on the phone before ever talking about setting up a meeting. But even then, we have been fooled, thus the disagreements. As with frenzb4sex, our outcomes have always been positive. Our relationship has also become stronger because we feel that we can talk to each other about anything and not be rejected for our thoughts, opinions or feelings. My wife is the only person that knows everything about me (and I mean everything). Somehow she still loves me even with all my flaws. And I didn't even know I had any !!!!!(if ya can believe that, I got some swamp land for sale). For that reason, to me she is priceless and has no peer among women. No "friends", swinging or not, would be worth jeopardizing what we have together. D and A
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