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About handsomemodest

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  • Birthday 04/01/1973

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    Single Male
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    Burlington, Vermont
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    Travel, cinema, swimming, the arts
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    Media

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    handsomemodest
  1. DON'T BE SHY I have received two responses to this post. One is posted above, and the other was privately sent to me... both of them are appreciated. How about the rest of you? You seem to be reading my post, but not responding yet. From reading the forums here, I know that bisexuality in males is a somewhat taboo, sometimes reviled, often hidden subject. Yet many of you have written that you are curious about that sort of thing and some even have experience with it. I hope that my being gay does not make this topic so over-the-top taboo that most of you would not respond to it. Maybe you are simply not interested in this. If so... I'd love to hear why (especially from people who would indeed be interested if the man were bi, not gay). I am just trying to gather opinions so that I will know what to include in an ad should I ever write one. I also just find it interesting to know what you all think, and it helps fuel my fantasies. Just to clarify something... even though I am a gay man, the role of the woman is key here: 1. Without the woman present and turned-on, I might as well just stick to sex in the gay community... I have success there, but I am trying to branch out toward something new to supplement my gay experiences. 2. The idea of a woman watching her husband and another guy together, giving her permission for the sex act to occur between her husband and the other guy, and getting turned on by it gives me an erotic charge. 3. The thought of the husband and the wife playing together while the other guy pleasures the husband is exciting to me. 4. I would also, on some level, like to experience heterosexual sex...perhaps just vicariously, through voyeurism. The idea of a couple inviting me into their space and making love in front of me...getting turned on by each other and by my excitement...that's a real turn on. Heck, I wouldn't mind watching two heterosexual couples go at it in the same room. To respond to the comment above from SW_PA_Couple... there are no surprises with me. I am letting people know I am gay up front. I agree with you that that's the best approach. For the rest of you, please consider giving me your opinion...either right here or through a private message.
  2. If this sort of thing does NOT turn you on... I'd also like to hear about that too... especially from couples who are open to bi-sexuality. I'd be interested in the reasons why or why not it's a turn on. I'd love to hear what difference a gay man in the mix makes. So, whether it turns you on, or not, I'd love to get your opinion.
  3. Hello! As I said in my introduction, I am a gay man with an interest in the swingers world. I enjoy an active sex life in the gay community, and (I do NOT, of course, speak for all gay men, many of whom are monogamous) I enjoy group scenes, play parties and couples just like many of you do. I am a sexual adventurer, to some extent, with an interest in sexuality beyond my own. I like to read the stories here on the swingers board (many of them are VERY HOT), especially about the "good" experiences. I enjoy reading about the experiences of both men and women. Any experience I would have with a male/female couple would be completely new to me. Ok...before I post any sort of ad (here or anywhere else)... I wanted to ask some hypothetical questions about a hypothetical situation. I should stress: These questions are for hypothetical consenting adults behind closed doors, not in a club, ... and these questions are geared toward couples where the husband is bi or bi curious. The hypothetical gay man (ok, me) is a courteous guy who does not create drama (hates drama, actually) and is very respectful of rules, boundaries, safe behavior, etc... FOR THE WOMEN: Would it turn you on to be present as your man has a sexual experience with another man that you knew was gay...would that be a turn-on, or not so much? What if there were some hardcore sex action between the guys, and your man was also licking you and pleasuring you at the same time...What kind of erotic energy might that tap into for you? Is two guys something you would enjoy just watching, or would you also really enjoy participating (i.e. being licked by your husband)? FOR THE BI GUYS: Would you find it exciting to see your wife witnessing your pleasure with a gay man? What if the gay man wanted to watch the two of you make love, maybe even guiding you in her? BASICALLY, FOR ALL OF YOU: I just want to know if any of these ideas are exciting to you, and what it is about them that is exciting. ------------------------------------------------------------------ I hope I chose the right forum to post in. I know some of these issues have been addressed in other places, but I don't think they have in the context of the third man being gay. Don't feel the need to answer every one of my questions if you respond. Just respond to the topics about which you have a strong opinion. I do not know whether I belong at all in the world of male/female swingers. I have some fun fantasies and enjoy watching swinger videos... so I am just trying to see if I fit in here or not. Those who have responded to me so far have all been very nice...just super people!
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