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  1. An unorthodox answer: We would argue that no one new to the lifestyle should EVER use a prostitute for the first time, unless it's just going to be a one-shot deal and you have no intentions of continuing on in the "lifestyle." Why? Because all the events and experiences leading up to that first encounter (first visit to a club - wide eyed and open mouthed, attending meet & greets, playing e-mail tag on the swinger sites, the IM sessions, etc etc etc) are like "preschool" for the lifestyle. This is to say, that during your "ramp up" process you get valuable experiences and insights that give you a pretty good idea if this lifestyle is something you both want to be involved in. If you use a prostitute, you miss all that. A threesome with a paid lady and a couple swap or FMF with a legit lifestyle lady are two VERY different things, trust us on this. Not knocking all the folks for whom the prostitute scenario works, and we don't look down on the profession at all. It's just that we feel we would have deprived ourselves of some of the self-discovery benefits of swinging had we gone that route (the sex is just a side benefit )
  2. We'd be saying "no thanks" regardless if it were the husband OR wife doing the asking, but honestly wouldn't be offended (simply because we're usually determined not to ruin our club vibe getting bent out of shape) Those situations just have way too much potential for drama, and with so many other couples in the club why chance that?
  3. Order yourself a pair of the "dirty dice." They're a great icebreaker when you know there's mutual interest but nobody seems to want to move first. There are other variations on this (games like nooki, between the sheets, etc) if you're the type that wants to play for an hour before the clothes start coming off. We like the dice though, because they're simple, provide instant gratification (not the bad kind and are portable (you can take them to your local club).
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