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Absolutely. The resort is several miles from the Hotel Zone and I don't think safety will be an issue. If you look at it on Google Maps you can see there's not a lot of people coming to the area unless they are staying at the resort or an adjacent resort.

Update August 2023: Club Rouge is closed. They have effectively moved it to a villa (a 2 story town house) on property. They moved all the equipment and furnishings to the villa. It is very well done with lockers and ambience, You get a golf cart or van ride to the villa from the Clubhouse. Plenty of rooms and stylish beds. Plenty of condoms, mints, and towels. When you enter your clothes have to come off. Best part? There is a large stylish shower that can hold 6 people easily. I liked the Club Rouge at the Club house but the villa is just as good.

We will be at Desire RM September 6-12th, 2023. Anyone else going to be there?

We went to Caliente recently and wanted to give our review. I have done a previous review and it still stands. I have been there about 6 times. The Mrs. has been there 3 times only, and all with me. Start with the cons: A few parts of our hotel room were worn. The tissue paper holder in the bathroom was rusted. No big deal. Our toilet basin stopped filling. The desk clerk said that the maintenance guy could come by tomorrow, but sometimes he's out of town and it might be longer. We asked to change rooms but there were no vacancies. We weren't thrilled with the answer but we could make do or use the clubhouse. Later that night we spoke to a different desk clerk that was much informative and decisive on what would be done. Either way, it was fixed the next morning and didn't affect our stay too much. Club Rogue is currently shut down due to a permitting issue. We were very disappointed with this because we thought they had the best play room we'd ever been in. Personally, we think it beat out Secrets, and the Desire properties as a playroom. Next the neutrals: Friday was a little empty on the dance floor and the after party. Caliente has switched from just being able to charge everything to the room to having to pay at purchase or open a tab with a credit card. There is a 3% surcharge for doing this I believe. You had the option of paying cash, or buying a gift card at the front desk with cash to avoid the 3% fee. Not a huge deal but slightly less convenient. But if people were skipping out on tabs, I don't blame Caliente for changing this policy. The Pros: As usual the people and staff are just super nice. I can't say enough about the great service of the staff. In lieu of Club Rouge, there is an after party that is available. Ask the front desk or security and you can get shuttled there. Basically they took everything out of Club Rouge and put it in a villa. It is spotlessly clean, and very professional, but it just wasn't the same atmosphere as Club Rogue. What was nice was that there was a 6 person shower, so you can clean up in a modern shower. There are lockers for your clothes, towels and condoms provided, a metal detector to gain entry. Top notch. Another pro is that it seems like many or all of the rooms have received new flooring and look updated to a degree. Saturday night was packed and the musician they had TL Jentgens was a world class performer that played cover songs better than the originals! He wass high energy and didn't take more than the occasional break of two over 4 hours of hard drumming and singing! Highly recommend catching him if you cant. He hit the 70s, 80s, 90's, and music up into the 2000's. We actually enjoyed the music so much we probably missed out on meeting other couples. The food continues to be outstanding at every restaurant at the resort. You pay a little higher of a price but the quality and portion size is just outstanding. If you wanted to keep costs down you could leave the property to eat or have food in your room (there's a mini fridge and microwave) but if you miss out on the meals, you really are missing out. There was a chat group on SDC for the Saturday night party that was fun to be involved in and we did meet some people from that group. Other Misc items: The pools remain awesome. We didn't stick around too much at the conversation pool at night. Plenty of action there but in a low key vibe. Our question to Caliente regulars. It seems that there's a lot of people that end up talking on the balcony's outside the night club above the pool. More of a landing, with chairs and tables. Is there were people tend to meet other people to see if they have chemistry? The club was too loud be heard talking. We could have asked or offered an invite to people at the conversation pool but felt that was a little too forward. Since most people are already naked with their partners. Or do most people make arrangements online or use SDC to already have potential play partners lined up? Over all another great experience and Caliente it top notch.

Is this a good place to post this and within the rules? We are headed to Desire RM September 6th-12th after having to reschedule twice. Anyone else going to be there around that time frame? Cheers! also SDC name was changed to: Politicsandreligion Because we needed something memorable, and why not?

We are Interested in this question as well.

Could we get a look at our profile: POLITICSANDRELIGION on SDC. It's new and I feel like it needs some work.

In reverse chronological order, on Friday night we tried Le Mask and can not say enough good things about this place. The club did a check out of us at the door but it seemed less hardcore. Men wear a button down and probably a tie, women nice dress and don't forget your heels. The club has two levels and it was a 1920's theme night. We didn't see that listed anywhere we could find but the employees were dressed to period. Once we entered we were greeted by Lucielle or Lucy (sorry didn't quite catch the name). Lucy did a great job of making us instantly feel welcomed and at home, in fact all the employees were outstanding. They seemed genuinely like they were having an enjoyable time interacting with the guests. The club has two levels and we were given a run down of how it works and again you pay as you leave and get a few drinks included with your entry fee. The front door opens into a bar that is just amazing to look at, Le Mask has a great wooden bar, lighting on the bottles that is sharp, and the bartenders were dressed in black with red suspenders. I'm not sure if that was for the theme or every night, but they were excellent! Again, their English was better than our French and they quickly switched once they figured that out. We arrived at 1030pm-1100pm on a Friday night. Lucy told us that there were two shows that night but we didn't ask what they were because we were still gawking at the front bar. We got a few drinks and can't say enough about the bar staff. We did a walk around. On the ground floor with the bar and the door there is a lounge area with seating and couches. The club was populated but sparse at first. We liked this because we could check out the premises without interrupting anyone too much. The bathroom at Le Mask has a stand up shower in it, which is a pretty cool option. I didn't enter it, but the Mrs. did and said the glass blocks allowed a view from the lounge. I'm not sure if it was an obscured view or clear but hey, enjoy the show! There is a divided smoking room upstairs and a candy bar near the main bar. What are the colored candy things? Is it a marsh mellow, is it a skittle, who knows just put it in your mouth. Yup, we were digging this atmosphere. We went down a velvet lined stairway which has sparkly stones in it to the lower level. There's handrails, you do the mental calculus on your balance, blood alcohol level, and the low ceiling there and take your chances! Very chic, with led lighting. Downstairs leads to a dance floor with seating along the edges, a side room with bench seating, and bed like areas divided by a curtain or perhaps a wall. Of the dance floor there was a second lounge room and a back room with two good sized beds. Having seen the layout we went back up stairs for our second drink. After getting our drinks we decided to head back downstairs. It was perhaps 1200-1230am at this time and the club was getting busier. The age range at this was middle aged, but there were younger people there, they seemed to be showing up as it got later. The main lounge was a little to open to the front door and bar area for us. It's hard to explain as you have to walk through a curtain and doorway but the room itself was good sized. To be clear when the door to the establishment is open there is no way to see the lounge but it is one of the things you would probably check out first. We wanted something a little more private. Everyone was well dressed and the vibe was classy and friendly. People smiled and were considerate, we felt very at ease here. There was a little apprehension from the Mrs. as she has never been to a European club and didn't know what to expect. I explained to her that it's more of an implied consent culture. If someone likes your they may put their hand on against your leg or touch your arm. If you don't want them to then indicate you are not interested and you won't have any problems. We went downstairs again through the awesome crystal LED staircase. It's a little off balance and coming up it there's a blue LED light that gets you right in the face. Totally cool stairway. As we walked around the lower level there were people naked in the back room using the beds. We wouldn't have felt awkward using the beds next to them or asking to use the beds with them. We did opt however to go to one of the side rooms with beds that was unoccupied. If you metric is naked people with each other, you will find it at Le Mask. At this point we were both pretty turned on and the Mrs. used an ideally placed velvet bench for a chance to showcase her excellent oral skills on me. While we were both dressed. Game on! We might be American but I am all European when it comes to a more casual attitude about sex. As we were engaged a middle aged French couple entered the room. I'm not sure if the woman was in lingerie or stripped down but the man was in his dress clothes. I was pretty focused on what was going on to me and only got a few glances. The French lady was wearing black under wear with stockings and something slinky and revealing up top. She was talking to her husband for a few minutes. The next time I checked it seemed like she might have been giving him a lap dance or was straddling him, not too sure. Prior to the Mrs. I had never received good oral work by anyone. Maybe it was the luck of the draw but from unenthusiastic to teeth in a bad way receiving a blowjob wasn't an important thing to me. Well, let me tell that changed when I met my wife. And at Le Mask oral was done to completion for the first time, something I had never been able to achieve, that was because of me the Mrs. is outstanding in her skills and enthusiasm. Right off the back there's a series of fantasies and wins. Although we have been to several lifestyle club and resorts we had dipped our toes in the water but remained relatively tame. I also always had an issue that I was conflicted about: when at a club as a man, do you cum or not? It seems more sanitary to control yourself, also the more fresh towels provided the more I feel like it's appropriate. I mean this place was so well decorated, and such a cool spot that I kinda felt bad making a mess. At Caliente, when there play rooms at Club Rouge were open the staff was in every fifteen minutes changing sheets and towels were everywhere. At Desire RM, there were towels provided but they weren't especially big and there were no sheets on the bed, which leads me to a no jizz conclusion. But hey, call me old fashioned. The Mrs. took care of the problem. Now at this point we were dressed mostly and we were turned on and got rid of some of my suit to get me more naked. If I had to do it again I would wear an undershirt that wasn't plain white, it kinda made me feel goofy looking, even though other guys had the same thing. I worse boxer briefs and boxers. They both come off quick and if something happens you have a backup for the uber ride home! I took the Mrs. on to the bed and lifted her skirt up and we started having very hot sex in front of a very nice couple. The Mrs. turned the tables and got on top of me. At this point I know the other couple has looked and heard what we were doing with a front row seat. I like to think we turned them on enough that they started getting busy because of us, The couple slid onto the bed but were next to us. Not in our personal space but next to it. I made sure to pull the Mrs. skirt up so her absolutely beautiful porcelain skin and ass were on full display while riding me. Normally I need 10-20 minutes maybe a few more before being ready to go but I was so turned on, after orgasm one I was still rock hard. The Mrs. really liked this and was on top facing me. My suit was in a pile on the floor and the Mrs. didn't even have time to take her dress off. I made sure the skirt was pulled up so the couple and the few other people checking out that room of the club got a good view because she is super hot! I pulled the Mrs.'s dress down so her tits were out and this is fantasy level stuff for me. It probably a slow Tuesday for most lifestyle people but hey, we're new. While my wife was riding me the French lady placed some hands on my wife. This was well received with them feeling each other's breasts and they were all spectacular. After the initial touching the Mrs. turned back to me. Well, I'm one to improve international relations and fit in with the culture. So I took my wife's hand and placed them on the breasts of this welcoming Parisian. The woman went to touch my wife but didn't want to be to forward. Well, decorum out the window I told the woman "oui, oui!" Touch away! I know if my wife didn't want to be touched she would certainly express it. After some fondling, kissing, and making out the woman went back to her husband as to not leave him out in the cold. After I had orgasm number two I was pretty tapped out. I didn't want to push my wife into anything she wasn't comfortable with and decided to take the win. This was the first time we had another person touch us during sex and I would rather move too slow than too fast. I totally loved that the interaction was natural. A touch, you don't have to speak, you can just go with it! Now keep in mind, it was the woman approaching another woman. The male did not attempt to touch my wife and I found that very respectful and courteous. Not that it would have been a problem if he had. But I liked how people are a little more forward in Europe. After we finished we re-dressed and went upstairs. I needed some water and the Mrs. was up for one last drink. We were told by Lucy the show was starting in the upstairs lounge. I'm not sure if it was someone dancing on a pole or a burlesque type thing. We didn't get a chance to see the show but the lounge was full. Looking for somewhere to sit we went to the smoking room. We don't smoke but it just seemed like a good spot drink some water and regain my senses. The couple from downstairs was dressed and enjoying a cigarette. The Mrs. had one with them out of courtesy but the language barrier stopped the conversation from going further. I have to give a special shout out to the DJ at Le Mask. He was an Asian gentlemen that played awesome music! He had a small set up, as in he didn't have a lot of space to work with. As with all the employees at Le Mask, he looked genuinely happy to be there, and was very outgoing and friendly. The employees set the mood so well. Walking in you feel like you've meet long lost friends. The put effort into making you feel welcome and it pays off! We settled up our bill and caught an uber back to the hotel. The bill was cheaper than Taken but I think we had an extra drink or two at Le Mask. I want to say $120 U.S.D.'s and about $130 U.S.D. at Taken. We felt the value for our money was high. A few things of note: We appreciated the dress code. A lot of negative online reviews are likely from people that were turned away from not following it. Having gone to Secrets and Caliente, sometimes you want something that's more high end than a guy wearing no pants and a T-shirt that says "I shaved my balls for this." The age range was typical for the lifestyle mostly middle aged with some older and some younger. I emailed Les Chandelles, Le Mask, and Taken asking a few questions. Les Chandelles took about 5-6 days to respond, Le Mask responded the same night, and Taken responded at about the 4 day mark. I used SDC as my main research and the clubs own websites. The SDC photos didn't do justice to either club, both clubs looked way better. We made sure to go on nights where there were no single men. I would highly recommend Le Mask, and also recommend Taken. If I had to choose one objectively and independent of any sex acts, Le' Mask easily wins. But remember we did not get to see the play rooms at Taken. If I was going to Le Mask I would ask about theme nights, and what shows they may have as we didn't see that on their website. Totally different vibe from the U.S. clubs we've attended, and we liked it a lot. Any questions feel free to post or private message!

Replying to this for other people's information. We went out Friday & Saturday night to Le Mask and Taken. We will start with our Saturday night review. For both nights my wife did a last minute dress change to a blue dress that is long sleeved, does very nice on the cleavage, and has a long skirt. It has flowers. It stood out a little bit, and was a little different but it makes the Mrs. look great. We had been informed about the strict dress codes and heel requirements at some of the Parisian clubs. The Mr. was wearing a well fitted blue suit and also looked sharp. The Mr. is also writing this, but objectively, I did look good. The Mrs. wore heels that weren't stiletto's but wider. She also brought a pair of flats in her purse in case the heels became a problem. Figuring since clothes are coming off that a shoe change wasn't going to be that much of a problem once you are in. Our French consists of none and fluent as a kid with almost zero use. I could get by very well at times and often use a poor vocabulary but get the point across in just fine in french. With Google translate as the back up there were no problems. We didn't meet a single rude Parisian on our trip, and usually there English was better than our French. We went to Taken on Saturday night. We can't give this place a proper review nor a serious one. Not because it's bad, but because of our mistake. We arrived at about 1100-1130 pm. It's a great location and if you are going there we strongly recommend hitting the St. Regis restaurant. The food is great and the French Onion soup is out of this world. Good light fare and a block away from Taken. Taken is on a small street and we didn't drive there so can't comment on parking. Outside the door there was a security guard that directed us to ring the door bell. The door looked like a metal 17th century castle door. Like an old speakeasy a slider the size of a 3x5 opened up. This was our initial assessment apparently. The slider slid shut and the door opened and an employee in her 50s or 60s opened the door enough to take a look at us. It was an up and down look. The woman 100% looked at my wife's shoes to make sure she had heels on. It was funny. We got the "ok" and were let in. Although the woman wasn't rude there was no doubt she was a harsh judge and ran that place like clockwork. We both looked good and young for our ages (mid 40s) but aren't in great shape but aren't ugly either. So we looked good and dressed good. The french seem to stay up late, in fact most clubs we saw were open till 4 or 5am. Maybe the bar becomes higher later in the night but in we go. There is a coat check upstairs for purses, coats, and phones. The upstairs area is very chic. You walk downstairs and you are in the main portion of the club. There are stone walls, red carpet, a nice bar with led lighting that is just right. You can tell they put a lot of effort into the atmosphere. A drink or two was included with admission and you pay as you exit. We ordered a few drinks. The club consists of a glass smoking room, which we liked as we didn't have to smell the smoke. A small dance floor, chairs and tables, and a side area that had some more chairs and tables. The bathroom was a once person affair. We returned to the bar and sipped our drinks. There was a candy bar in the bar area. The bar tenders were friendly but between the music and language barrier it was a little tough to communicate. But the bar tenders were prompt and friendly for sure. The crowd was light but it is a fairly small club. As the night progressed we made a couple of notes: - The club became crowded to the point where you couldn't always find a seat. It's not the end of the world but it did feel like there were too many people for the space. It was actually tough to even walk around to see if there was a place to sit. It got to the point there wasn't even standing room. It's not the end of the world but if I could potentially have a hard on I don't want to have to brush up against guys just to move around the space. Your mileage may vary. The age seemed like a good distribution between mid 20's on up to 60's. The women trended a little lower than the male age it seemed on average. Most women were wearing black dresses, one of two were in lingerie with stockings, and the men were all well dressed. The vibe wasn't very friendly but there was nothing rude or wrong about it. It just felt like there was a lot of people standing around trying to look too cool for the room. Not a big deal but for example trying to move past people and giving them an "excusez moi s'il vous plat," didn't always work. Once I ask nicely, you hear me and ignore more, I'm going through and if you brush up against me, buddy that's your problem. I felt like we were missing part of the club, like there had to be some sort of area with beds or a dungeon or something. SO, there was a hallway off the dance floor that we missed. Well, we saw it but it looked like an employee area with a staff member in the suit guarding the entrance. We didn't see anyone go in or out of it and didn't try to check it out. So we missed any play areas and can not in good faith make this a serious or accurate review. By the same token if you've never been there and not obvious that an area is open to you as a patron, it's a little bit of the club's fault too. There were no signage and the area looked closed off. I should mention the staff here has a very no nonsense attitude. We felt like asking what was in the hallway wouldn't have been appreciated. The vibe just wasn't working for us. We ended up conversing with each other and then calling it a night. The space is very well done and I'm sure the vibe changes with the attendee's. We walked upstairs with our drinks, which apparently is forbidden and got yelled at in French by the door lady. We didn't understand but eventually figured it out. No harm, no foul. As we were leaving the club was getting quite crowded and there was a line at the coat check. We saw the door lady eye balling people up and down. You did not get in unless you were following the dress code. We saw the door lady life a portion of a young lady's dress to look at the belt she was wearing. I suspect as the place gets crowded the dress code becomes even more unforgiving. Still feeling like we had to be missing something I checked out the upstairs and did walk into an employees only area. Hey when in Paris, do as the Romans! The cost was about 130 Euro's with a drink or two included. The drinks were good, the DJ music was good, the space was top notch. We would go back but I want to at least see the entire layout.

Thank you for the information! We will definitely look at Le Mask.

We will be in Paris March 17th & 18th and wanted to try to clubs. We've checked out the websites and had heard about the strict dress code. Anyone have any recommendations or advice? We were looking at Le Mask and Les Chandelles. It might be an ego bruise if we don't make it through the door but we will match the dress code. If we don't get in we will just uber to an alternate. We are on sdc under slycat8 The Mrs. is down 48 pounds from our pictures and I'm down about 30. She is 207 lbs at 5'8 and looks youthful for her age. I'm 194 lbs.. We plan on wearing a tailored suit for me and getting the Mrs. a nice high end dress. She has trouble wearing heels all night due to an injury, so we might try to being in a classy but more comfortable pair of shoes for her to change into once we are inside if that's an option. Once the clothes start coming off I'm hoping it won't be a problem. We're new but have been to Desire RM, Secrets, and Caliente. So interested in seeing how things are in Europe. Anyone that's been there think we would have problems getting in or have any advice? Thank you!

I will add a Spoilers below option so those that want to read it can and those that want to keep it a surprise can skip it. And for the record my wife just laughed about that whole thing. Can't seem to edit the original post.

I wrote a nice long trip review that I accidentally deleted so here's the highlights. We are a mid 40s couple that has never been to a Desire property. We have been to Caliente twice for a weekend but do not swap and our experiences have been limited to some voyeurism and minor public sex stuff. First off, the rave reviews about the staff being excellent and outstanding are all true. The staff makes the resort the world class place it is! We didn't communicate with anyone in advance and showed up blind. That's a personal choice but I think making an effort to connect with people that might be there the same time you might improve your stay. If it's your first time, or you don't feel comfortable doing that then it's no big deal. All the other guests are very friendly and it's easy to strike up a conversation with anyone! Cons: More bartenders would have been nice. Not a big deal but those poor guys and girls were overwhelmed. At night on Saturday trying to get a pizza outside the lobby at the bar took about 25-35 minutes. On the plus side it does give you more time to talk to people. Perhaps having staff periodically come in and clean and pick up the play room would have been nice. Remove empty cups and so forth. Pros: Everything Staff is the best I have ever dealt with anywhere in the entire world bar none. The grounds and rooms are very clean. The nightly entertainment is amazing and I would say don't miss it. Performances were behind the lobby. I didn't see if the times were posted but we might have missed it. Other stuff: The people at Desire make the experience. Hands down. I (m) am introverted and have a tough time making conversation. I go from “oh what do you do for a living,” straight to “what's your deepest darkest fear and secret?” There is no subtlety or tact. My wife, on the other hand can converse with anyone and strike up a conversation. I can't get over how nice, and friendly everyone was! You could strike up a conversation with anyone or everyone male or female. It was like the other guests took a real effort to be outgoing and make you feel comfortable. The best part of the vacation for me was the people. Just nice genuine people. And there's naked people. You think people watching clothed people was fun, try taking their clothes off! Since everyone was there with a spouse or partner no one was trying to prove anything. No one was taking a vacation here for their kids or under a rushed schedule to see things. People were there to enjoy their loved one and maybe have some sex. Or a lot of sex. We had boudour photographs taken by Provoke Photography. It was expensive but I highly recommend it. We had never done anything like that before and they do a great job. I would definitely recommend using them for hair and make up. Three young ladies came in performed hair and make up like a formula one pit crew. My wife's hair and make up looked great. Definitely worth the money! Our photographer did an outstanding job of making us feel comfortable and look good! For men the recommendation was a pair of pants and a dark shirt (we were keeping our photo shoot pretty tame). If you have any requests during the photoshoot don't be shy and ask. Everyone was very accommodating. Several hours after the photoshoot we had an appointment and selected our final photographs. It would have been nice to have more time to look at the photos but it seems like they were on a tight schedule that day. Totally recommend Provoke! We also booked an erotic couples massage for two couples (so four masseuses). I contacted Desire in advance and booked it for our last full day there. I thought that if we found a couple we liked we could invite them to join us or we could just have two masseuses each. We ended up each having two masseuses each. It was totally worth every penny, and it was just a great experience. The difference between having one and two people giving you a massage is exponentially greater than you might think. We spent most of our nights dancing in the nightclub and used the playroom twice. In the future I would bring as large of a beach towel as I had with me to the playroom and the vinyl seats didn't have sheets and the provided towels were normal size. Just having your own large towel to put down is nice. We went to the nightclub almost every night. I was worried based on other reviews that there would be a lot of latin music. I LOVE 90s music and I am very happy to say that music was spot on and it was a mix from 80s and 90s music up to modern songs! I think Desire Management heard the criticism and updated their music. I don't know if there was a live DJ or not (when there's naked topless women I get distracted). This was honestly one of my fears, that the music would be subpar but it was outstanding and had everyone on the dance floor! I have zero rhythm but we danced the night away! We dressed for all the theme nights. You can just barely match the theme and do just fine though. We were only there a few days and felt like there was always something on the schedule (foam party, massage, photo shoot, covid test). In the future I would do 7 or 8 days but I would still schedule all the same things. We didn't catch everyone's name unfortunately but had great help from: Cesar for checking us in Rafael our butler took care of anything we needed I flagged down Victor in the middle of the night for four problems at once and he was an absolute superstar! That was the review that is vanilla. We had two other things to mention. The erotic massage. It was hilarious. This was out first time at somewhere so....thorough? I didn't want my wife to feel uncomfortable and take things to far. We talked about it and decided to make it a non sexual massage. They give you a form before the massage and there's a diagram of the human body and you mark where you don't want to be touched. Or where you do want to be touched? Ah fuck, I didn't listen to the instructions. I put a large "X" over my crotch. Does that mean they will touch it? Or will they understand the "X" means don't? Just to clarify I go to the lady at the desk and tell her, just a regular massage is fine. "You have an erotic massage, yes?" She is super friendly and looking at me like I'm an idiot. I'm not sure if she was confused but I was relieved that everything was taken care of. "Yes, but just a regular massage is fine, a normal one." My wife was next to me. Whew, glad that is clarified so we are on the same page. The nice lady at the front desk smiles and says "ok." We are taken to a nice locker room where we lock up our items, shower, and then are escorted to a hot tub with champagne and flower petals in the tub. Then we get taken in for our massage. Two women for each of us. We get the massage and two masseuses are doing a great job. Then they do your legs and thighs and then they do the...THEY DIDN'T GET THE MEMO! At this point I made a legitimate effort and my conscious is clear. They definitely handled my equipment with great skill. They give the massage and then towards the end they stand my up and guide me over to my wife at her massage table. We are covered in wonderful massage oils and are both pretty worked up at this point. Imagine having sex with your wife but you have a cheer leading section ready to step in and give a hand. It was that amazing. The women massesues knew their business! They were skilled! Once I was over with my wife we had intercourse, and it was like having four sets of hands helping you. One was pushing on the small of my back (lol, maybe she thought I needed better rhythm?). Another was running her hands across our bodies and applying a very nice massage oil. I grabbed ahold and sucked on one of my wife's nipples. A few minutes later one of the ladies grabbed my wife's breast and made sure it was in the right position to be sucked but putting right in front of my mouth! Team work makes the dream work. I made a conscious effort to not finish during the massage, and also not when I was on the other massage table with my wife. I wasn't sure what the protocol was and I really like to get my wife off first! We immediately went back to our room hot and heavy! One night we went up to the Hot tub. As we were walking upstairs a couple was walking downstairs and complained there was no one even up there. We figured, roof top hot tub to ourselves? That doesn't seem bad. We go up there and there we no other guests. Also no bartender. Anywhere. Oh well, so we get in the hot tub and about 2 minutes later a group of about 10 people show up. Naked and having fun. They see there is no bartender. So the women start ordering drinks, and this magnificent bastard goes behind the bar naked as a jay bird and starts mixing drinks with the alcohol behind the bar. The man was the hero we needed. He asked "please no complicated drinks." He kept this up for 15 minutes! We figure since it's all inclusive it's certainly not stealing and if you don't want your guests pouring the drinks your job to keep the bar tender there. After a long time and a lot of laughs the bartender shows back up from somewhere and gets to making drinks. He didn't say anything, probably because he could get in trouble, and we didn't say anything because it was hilarious. Here's to you naked guy with a wide brimmed straw hat! Best drinks ever! If you have any questions feel free to ask! Sdc: Slycat8

I'm going to do a follow up to a my follow up: Attended Caliente in March of 2021 Everything from my past posts still apply. There was a cold snap the weekend we went. It seems like they have put new flooring in all the hotel rooms which is awesome. The carpet was looking dated. The rooms do look a little dated still but the flooring really helps and you won't be in the room that much. The food is still outstanding. Masks were worn but most people were not wearing them. Staff was, but it was personal choice if you wanted to wear one. I didn't see a single instance of any problems with people wearing or not wearing a mask. A lot of people had masks that matched their clothing or looked sharp, I went with the LED scrolling mask with my SDC screen name on it. Sadly though I didn't wear it enough to have fun with it! We stayed Friday to Sunday. We arrived several hours late due to an minor emergency. We checked in, had dinner at the restaurant and went to our room. We changed, got dressed up and went to the Club house at about 11:30 pm. There were space heaters outside on the patios of the clubhouse. There were tables, chairs, a bar, and the DJ in the covered area on the first floor. The clubhouse was fairly empty. We laughed because we drove to Caliente, had dinner, dressed up and missed the party. Please note when I say Clubhouse I mean the main Clubhouse that has a restaurant, bar, lounge, sports bar and night club inside. The nightclub was closed due to covid but everything else was open. The gift shop was open and we browsed. The Mrs. picked up a sequined sparkle purse to match her dress. We had a really nice conversation with the gift shop employee. Nothing but praise for the staff. Saturday was much busier and there was a lot of people out and about. The pool was empty because it was cold but the heated conversation pool and hot tubs were full but not over crowded. People stayed in the covered area to keep out of the wind. Recently Caliente opened up Club Rouge. It is located on the 1st floor of the Club house and opens generally around 10pm or 11pm depending on the night. It was recommended that we get a reservation from an online site (SDC) but there was no information about this. There not a lot of information on the Caliente website either. Here's how it works. Club Rouge is a set of on premises playrooms located inside the main club house. We didn't need reservations but they limit the amount of people that can be inside at the same time, and this is a very good thing. We attended without any reservation or advance action needed on Saturday night. There was a short line outside the club, similar to what you would see at a night club. There were velvet stanchions and you couldn't bring drinks into the club. They did provide free bottled water inside which was great. You can roughly see who's going to be entering the club by judging who's in line next to you. If there someone you want to see naked get next to them in line. Everyone in the line was friendly. One lady was a little bit on the drunk side of classy but it wasn't a problem. The entry room is lighted in low light. There's red carpet and art on the wall. Very nice ambience. The staff takes your names and you have to have identification or a driver's license to gain entry. You get a wrist band so they know you have been checked in. There is a smaller locker room with lockers so that you can secure your personal items. The locker room is a little tight for a Saturday night but it kind of makes it fun. You are provided with a towel and are required to take your clothes off to enter. The staff is wonderful. They are super personable, fun, professional, and respectful. I have been naked briefly around the pool at Caliente or when in the hot tub or water. I have been naked one two other times inside where there are other people present. The Mrs. had only briefly been naked in Public and there happened to have been no one else there. There was a wonderful nervous excitement from the entire crowd. Everyone was very nice. There were people of all shapes and sizes. "What are you getting me in to?" The Mrs. disrobed shook her head and just grinned. She was nervous but handled it like a champ. She admitted that she was nervous but displayed nothing but an amazing confidence. It was incredibly attractive! Once you enter the lobby and locker room the lights are kept comfortably low. It sets the mood well. The actual playrooms are through a doorway so there is no fluorescent light bleeding in from the clubhouse. I would say there was probably 15-25 people in the Club. It never felt crowded and they nailed down the number of people perfectly. Enough people coming in to people watch and not enough to feel too crowded. The first room has velvet bench seating along the edge. There is a minifridge that is stocked and restocked with bottled water through out the night. You help yourself. This is a nice touch I really appreciated. The rule is that is the curtain to a room is closed, don't go in. If the curtain is half closed, feel free to watch, and if the curtain is open feel free to enter. If I recall there was one or two rooms with no curtains, and if you were to use that room you knew people could come in. Most rooms had one or two beds. There was a dungeon with some leather straps and a six foot tall cross with straps on it. The room was empty while we were there. It was the only room with tiled floors and I think the room had been converted from the shower area of the spa into a sex dungeon. In the main sitting room there is a window to a room with a round bed. This is a room you would use if you want to be seen. It was initially empty but later a couple went in there and put on a show. They kept things very slow and spent quite a good bit of time in the room. The woman was straddling the man and was almost imperceptibly moving. I don't remember the exact layout of the room but there was room for two couples. The window is very large and is just slightly frosted. There is a hallway with several rooms with beds. Perhaps four rooms. At the end of the hallway there is a larger room with eight mattresses. This room had two televisions with pornographic programming on. There were several couples in the room that were naked. Not wanting to be the center of attention I took the Mrs. to the bed that was on the end and in the corner. The linen was clean and fresh. We dropped our towels and enjoyed each other in this new type of environment. There were three other couples in the room while we were there. There were between six to ten people in the room while we were there with couples coming and going. There were no single males in the playrooms. I don't know if they are ever allowed in but I did appreciate the fact that it was only couples. The age range was all over from a few late 20s, some people in their 30's with most people being in their 40s and 50s. The couple with the female that was a little too intoxicated were probably in their late 50s. It was funny because you would be in the moment....and then they would loudly say something that took you right out of the moment. Nothing bad, just mildly annoying. For example, we would be in the moment then a loud comment would come out that was so out of place that it would cause us to stop and laugh. So, not even a bad thing. But it got to the point that it was apparently mildly bothering everyone because a male voice piped up at one point and said "shut up!" with the frustration of a man with a naked woman in front of him and an annoying guy next to him! It was totally funny and the timing was priceless. That great man caused the entire room to crack up. Props to you sir for getting all the girls to laugh and take all the annoyance and tension out of the air. The couple that was being loud certainly was not offended, and was finishing up. I don't think any of the men came to completion but I can't say for sure. For me, I was brought to the edge five or six times. I didn't know if it was appropriate to finish or not. I've never been in this sort of situation, and it actually felt better to not climax and get to keep going to enjoy everything. There were several couples that came to the doorway and watched, and some that came in and used the beds. Since we were on the end no one came to our area (it was two mattresses next to each other). I can't say how long we were inside the playrooms. It was easy to quickly get comfortable. Everyone was either in a towel or naked. There were no single males so the atmosphere was great. There were other couples that were vocal and it was pretty hot without being obnoxious. There were plenty of people being intimate and I didn't feel like there was a lack of participation. There was a natural lull and since I didn't know how long we had been inside I thought they were closing. Several employees took the opportunity to come in and change the sheets. I think controlling the number of people entering allowed them to change the sheets between couples. I thought they were closing the place down and took that as a sign to finish up. It turns out it was just a turnover of linen, and more people came into the room after the employees had applied the fresh linen. Once we were finished we took a few minutes to look in some of the rooms and watch a couple that had the curtain open. I sat in the main waiting room for a few minutes while the Mrs. used the restroom. The conversation and jokes in the viewing room were great. Sitting there for a few minutes without the Mrs. actually wasn't awkward although it felt more comfortable when the Mrs. was with me. We went back to the locker room and changed into our clothes. There was a great vibe from everyone the entire time. Going in nervous energy and and euphoric vibe changing back into clothes. You can tell everyone had a good time. I was VERY impressed with the cleanliness of the entire place. The staff was outstanding and personable. They are always top notch at Caliente. The other patrons were great. This was our first time in an on premises location and the other patrons were great. This was entirely new for both of us. Never felt uncomfortable. There is no charge or fee to enter the playrooms. There were no phones or property allowed inside. A staff member verified your locker number by wristband. I have nothing but good things to say about Club Rouge at Caliente. I found information a little hard to find online. So I wanted to write this review to let people know about it. Feel free to post any questions or comments and I will do my best to respond.