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twknight

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About twknight

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  • Birthday 04/14/1987

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    Florida
  1. Thanks for all the responses and help. Sorry i have been UA, just very busy, but I have an update. I am actually a year older than she is but we are both pretty young. I'm 23, she's 22, but she is lightyears ahead of me emotionally. We have been married for 2 years, and together for 5. The reason I'm so insecure is because Last December I went to boot camp, and she had an emotional affair with a friend of her's while I was gone. She says she didnt have sex with him, but I will never know for sure. I was extremely confident in my wife and in our marriage before I left, so when I found out, it was something I was not expecting at all. We've worked through the problems we had that made her go to someone else, but Ive been very insecure and jealous ever since. It doesnt help that I am still in training and can't live with her. I talk to her every day, and spend weekends and a few days during the week with her when I can, but hopefully soon I'll be able to move off base and live with her. Now to end this post on a good note. I talked to my wife about it, and last weekend we had a mff with her friend. We all had a great time and she isn't angry or jealous about it at all, which was my biggest fear. We both would like to do it again, and I'm very glad it happened. Before my wife, I only dated one girl, and until last weekend my wife was the only woman I've ever had sex with. I was not social at all and the situation you described sounds a lot like mine. I have always thought that sex=love and never had sex just for fun. So last week was a real eye opener. Sex is fun, and bringing someone else into our marriage didnt hurt either of us at all. Right now I'm on the fence of whether or not we could do a full swap with another couple. I am more confident in myself, and my wife, but I'm not sure I'd be ok with seeing her with another man yet.
  2. Hi, I've lurked through the forums here for a while but never posted anything, but now I have something I need a little help with. Last week out of the blue my wife told me that she wants me to sleep with other women, then come home and tell her about it. She also told a good friend of her's she could "borrow" me because she hasn't had any good sex in a while. My wife says it's a big turn on for her, and I can tell she's not lying. She also says she thinks it would make me less jealous. She is a pathological flirt and it gets on my nerves sometimes because I am very jealous/insecure. She's been with other men (before we were married) and she is the only woman I've ever been with. Which doesn't bother me at all, however she thinks I should be with other women because she feels like she kept me from having fun, and that it would make our sex life better. I'm not sure what to do. I would never cheat on her or hurt her so I'm apprehensive about doing something like this. I'm afraid that she will change her mind and I would come home to her angry and upset and that it would ruin our marriage. I'm also afraid that she would want the same deal, which I told her I am not ok with. Is this a typical fantasy? I would never be ok with her going out, being with another man, then coming home to me. So I sort of think it's a double standard, and that's not fair. But I told her that up front and she says she doesn't care and doesn't want to be with another man. Does it sound like fun? Yes, I have a penis so of course it sounds fun. But it's not worth ruining our good relationship over. I'm just not sure what to do, and I don't understand her desire for this sort of thing.
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