inhopeofspice

70 yrs here, male in an open marriage with a wife of 50 yrs. I'm a bit perplexed with a search for friends my age.

Powerful advice! We are not interested in those who cannot Capitalize, spell check and who write three incomplete sentences. Pictures matter, age limitations are often too restricted.

One word: Yes!

As I have aged and arrived trim and fit at almost 68 I have discovered that my 'range' has also grown. Where once I could not have imagined laying with a partner much older than I was, I am ready and willing to lay with a Lady of any age. When Young, I kept a narrow range of perhaps 5-10 years below and 5 years up. How silly that was!

They will learn in time that they reap what they sow. The trend is disdurbing however.

Run, Do not Walk, in the Opposite direction. Isn't there ample evidence this cowgirl lacks discretion af any calibar given two children by two men. You may become a Mule pulling the load for this gal, (I just can't call her a Lady).

An MFM experience, when all have entered into the experience with enthusiasm, can be a great learning time for the men involved. Those who suggest they didn't get anything out of it or who felt like they were sidelined in some way ought to count their lucky stars for the opportunity to view firsthand what you lady partner seems to enjoy. I have found the other fellow's bedside manner, caress & cuddle, etc, gives instruction, opens new windows and generally just keeps me on my toes. My own loving of my Lady is altered in some way with all I discover.

I've read all the posts above and the "Answer Is", the lady brings up the subject far more often than does the man. Such was also the case with my lady, now my wife of 8 years whom has lived with me 17 years. BTW, the subject was first brought up at the time we met as we both then were trapped in dying marriages that left us wanting so much more.

He is next to 66 yrs and she is just 46+ and while married nearly 8 yrs we have been together for 16+ yrs. We were in an open relationship from the get-go, each of us starved within dying marriages. The arrangement worked so well we married and for a time were monogamous until that old 'hunger returned'. Now we're having our cake and ice creme too!